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Lately since my last questions ive constantly been dreaming about him getting back together with me.. I dont know still about what to do but ive been thinking about talking to him today as friends and after a bit propose to hang out for a little bit so idk i can either try to reignite the spark by making each other laugh and everything or cause him o remember the closeness weve had with each other and accidently touch him briefly once in a while like a hug in the beginning maybe brush my leg against his quickly. Or i can just give in tell him about my feelings about the break up like how i dont want this to happen and id like to get back together but if he really thinks that theres absolutely no chance that he cant regain his feelings for me again then i will formslly dissapear out of his life or remain as friends. (link)
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It just seems like even if he doesn't want to get back together, you'll still message him and keep asking him to get back together.
I think you should give it some time. Don't talk for awhile, like a long while, I'd say a month. Then send him a text to see how he is and all that. If he talks normally then maybe a couple days later ask to hang out or something. If he truly does not want to get back together, let him go. You need someone who wants you, not someone who can break up with you and know you'll be chasing him.
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So i liked this girl since august, we used to flirt alot during that time until she got a boyfriend and i was friendzoned. After the break-up i talked to her a lot, but im not sure she'll like me back. We like to get touchy sometimes, maybe hug, or write on each other, but sometimes i think its cause i badly friendzoned. Im leaving in 2 months and i'll probably never see her again, but we are good friends at it'll be awkward if she says no. I just need some help please. (link)
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I agree with Dragonflymagic.
You are leaving, and unless you're going to be nearby, then why bother?
If she only sees you as a friend, then that's just how it is. You can't make her like you. Even with the hopes that she might feel the same, you are leaving. I mean it might be fun for the next two months to hang out but it won't go anywhere and it's a waste of time. It'll probably just hurt her so it's best to just leave it and stay friends.
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I love my boyfriend more than anymore. I still live with my parents and he lives with his mother and neither of us can drive. Lately, due to money problems, I'm not able to see him much anymore, cause we can barely afford the bills and groceries. Since I can't afford to even go see him anymore, am I being selfish by staying in the relationship? I'm 21 and female. (link)
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I don't see how. I mean you don't have to see someone to be in a relationship with them. There are other ways to communicate, although seeing each other and being together in person would be so much better, it's not impossible. I mean you'll see long distance relationships work out so it really isn't impossible or selfish.
If you guys have a set goal that you guys will see each other eventually, then it'll work out.
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Okay so I started dating this boy Jayden he's insanely cute with hazel eyes justin bieber hair around April 4 . 2013 . We were both 12 in 7th grade and you know where I'm from half the people in my school already had sex one was actually pregnant she was in eighth . And well .. The only thing I've done sexual before was got my pussy rubbed like they're fingering me from the outside like through my clothes and now it's April 5 2014 . I've been dating Jayden . For 12 months now well okay . On July 10th my birthday he was in my room and we were making out and when we made out with eachother we always touched eachother like he would would rub down there and I would rub his dick . And this time he actually slid his hand down there I stopped kissing him and looked at him and he said " I love you so much " then bit his lip and started kissing me again of course I couldn't resist . So he put one finger inside me it didn't hurt it actually felt good an he started pacing up the speed then he put in two which sorta hurt because I'm really tight /.\ but after like 20 seconds it stopped hurting and he was going really fast and we were moaning really loud because my parents were gone . And I cam all over his hand after that he ate me out , we didn't have sex because we both agreed we wouldn't until 16 . Well on his birthday which was like a couple weeks after mind July 23rd I came to his house and his mom and brothers went out to buy a cake we were on his bed and I like sat on top of him and started making out with him he starts to take my shirt off .. Which Im really uncomfortable with my body but he's seen my boobs before because of pictures but anyways started kissing my boobs then we switched spots he got on top of me and he just pulled the part where it between your thighs up because we didn't want to go fully naked in case his mom got home . So he pulled his basketball shorts down a little and I gotta admit it was huge which made me nervous he started putting it in I didn't want him to put all of it in because I was sort of scared so he stuck half of it in and started stroking back and forth we were both moaning and as soon as he cummed you could hear his moms car doors lock so we quickly got up straightened our selves up ran to the living room and act like we were just watching tv I guess you can say that was the best present ever . And I really loved him I still do he means the world to me . Okay in September me and him broke up for about I think 1 week or 2 weeks because he hugged some other girl an the girl liked him . During that i was texting his friend jake all the time and I did like jake before I even dated Jayden and I started to like him again . So after school we walked to his house then the park down the street and no one was there so we went in this thing that had two big walls on each side I was sitting on his lap and we were just talking then I notice he got A Boner so I got up and got in my knees and we smiled at eachother he zipped his pants undone and pulled it out it was pretty big I didn't give him a blowjob because I honestly think that's gross so I have him a handjob about 5 minutes in to it and asked if we could titty fuck and I gave in and said yes when we started doing that he cummed all over my boobs and i got a text fom Jayden saying " myname I love you and I miss you so much please come to my house " and Jayden lived about 4 blocks from where I was at so I got up and put my shirt back on and told jake I have to go I gave him a hug and ran to Jayden's house he gave me a big hug an kissed me and said he was sorry and he loved me and he didn't want nobody else so I took him back but jake is Jayden's bestfriend so whenever me and Jayden went to the mall or something he would bring jake which would he extra awkward but now me and him are just friends and talk once and awhile . But this month was me and Jayden's anniversary we just went to the same place we hanged the first day we dated which was in front of my grandmas house with my friends Noah , and Boyd . We just laughed and talked about memories . Jayden did eventually find out what happens between me and jake in like February he was mad or awhile but he said it's okay we weren't together during that and honestly I felt like I only did to get over Jayden . But I love this boy to death and I'd not be with anyone besides him . I will marry this boy and I know that for a fact . You guys might not understand my life and yes I do regret doing that with jake I'm not gonna use the term " young and dumb " it's more like " dumb ass things To get over ex " but like i said I love that boy and I always will I just wanna know if I'm dumb for doing this with the one I love or not ? Even if they're bad opinions I won't care it's my life not anyone's else's . I don't even know why I bothered to ask this question when I shouldn't are about anyone's opinion . I'm not gonna get pregnant and im using protection and I have birth control pills . Definatly not having kids and the last time me and him had sex was about December . I told him we should wait a little more into really getting into it . (link)
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Wow that was a lot of detail I did not need to know.
Well, obviously people do sexual things at your age. They're exploring and all that but my own opinion is that it should wait. Only because a lot of girls can't hold their ground. Like they say they'll wait till they're older but in the moment, they give in and end up having sex. Which is what happened with you, I mean you both said you'd wait but you gave in during the moment.
So I wouldn't get sexual with someone unless I know I will stop them or I'm ready to have sex. Or even better, date a guy who won't push your boundaries.
So it's not that it's "wrong" to be sexual at that age, it just leads to more if you're not careful and girls that are 12, 13 and 14 aren't really equipped to handle it.
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I am a virgin and am considering having sex with my boyftiend. Can someone tell me what to expect painwise. How long will it hurt. Will iy hurt the whole time. Will i bleed? (link)
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It's different for each person. It would be more helpful to know your age. The younger you are, the more pain you'll feel. Because you're body will still be developing.
For me, it was actually very painful. I didn't bleed though.
Just make sure you're on birth control and use condoms. You don't want to get STDs or get pregnant.
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Me and my boyfriend have just started dating, and he already wants a kid. I am 17 and he is 18, I love kids, BUT I'm not 100% I'm ready. I am a girl to likes to go out and have fun. Any suggestions on how to handle it? (link)
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Wait, he wants to have kids right now? While you guys are teenagers or does he just want to have kids in the future?
If he wants kids now, then there is something wrong going on. I mean besides the fact that you want to go out and have fun, it's also that you both would not be able to financially take care of a kid.
I don't understand why he'd want kids right now. I mean you guys have the rest of your life to plan that out and you only started dating.
If he means that he wants kids in the future, then there isn't really much of a problem. I mean you might want to settle down in the future and when the time comes and you still don't want kids, then fine.
But seriously, if he wants kids now, you don't want to be with someone who you barely started dating and wants to get you pregnant. It's not normal.
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Do you think itd be okay to try to talk to him at the end of this week and then try to see him next weekend? I just dont want to seem desperate by texting him first. And. If i do text him what should i say?? I dont know its like i have one foot outte door to move on but i hesistate. Im really going crazy when i think about what i should do please help me. Hes still been checking my snapchat story lately also. So idk if that possibly means anything in peticular... (link)
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Him checking your snapchat stories don't mean anything so don't read into that.
You need to decide what you want to do. You obviously want him but he's not so crazy about you. You're hesitating because you're not ready for it to be over but you also want to let go because you know this is no good for you.
I'm just gonna say that I think you should just let this guy go. You love him, he means a lot to you but he doesn't care about you like he should. So don't wait around for someone to change their mind. Go find someone who is better for you and will actually work at a relationship.
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I am 21/f,from India, i had a relation in my past,but my ex tortured me mentally and physically and forcefully do sex with me.so i ended with him.after that i met my present boyfriend,started to love him.but because of my shameful past,i feel ashmed to tell him about my past affair.and i lied to him.but 9month ago my bf came to know about my past and asked about it and i told him everything.but now he feels that i used him,i deceived him,all the time he talking about my past give me no respects.he thinks that i am not a good girl or have any quality to be with him because i am not a virgin(we had also sex 2times),but his problem is that i slept with my ex,so i am just worthless for him.he can't understand my problems,my feelings,always drills me with my past and argued with me. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH,i know i was wrong that i lied to him.but am sorry for that.and wants marry him. But he can't forgive me. Plz suggest me something. (link)
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End things with your current boyfriend. You may love him, but he doesn't love you. He doesn't value you as a person. He only cares about your body.
I know in India it's not easy to talk about sex. I am Indian too so I know what you mean, but you need to find someone who actually respects you. You can't change what happened to you. It wasn't your fault. You went through something horrible, he shouldn't even be mad about you lying to him since it tortured you. But he's more mad about you not being a virgin? That means he only cares about your body and that's wrong.
Go find someone who cares about you as a person and not your past.
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So I started hanging out with a guy last October. We talked all the time (actual talk not text) and spent a lot of time together. He bought me an expensive watch and everything for Christmas. He is a pretty tough guy so he isn't always expressive about his feelings. But I digress. He was always comfortable when I was around and I pride myself on being attentive and loving. I even mentioned that I liked that he was so relaxed with me. It was almost as if it scared him to care so much because he just stopped calling and answering my calls. When I tried to find out what was wrong he said nothing was wrong and that there was nothing wrong with me. He pops up at my house to surprise me and if I say I'm done trying to figure him out he gets mad. I feel like a fool because I care so much about him and he acts like he cares about me but he is so hot and cold. Should I just give up on a real relationship with him? And if not how do I fix things? (link)
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There's obviously something going on that he's not telling you about. It might actually be that he's scared for some reason.
I think you should ask him if you guys can talk. Make sure it's face to face and let him know that you like him, you think he's great but you're getting mixed signals and you'd like him to clear things up for you.
If he doesn't, then maybe things just weren't meant to be.
Every and any type of relationship needs communication. If you he can't communicate with you, things just can't happen.
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There's a guy that lives in the same dorm that I live in, he'll be Brandon. We talk and hang out a sufficient amount of time but not a lot that we are annoying about it. I've always thought that he was handsome but had never told him or tried anything because he has a girlfriend. The relationship they have is weird, though, due to the fact that they both cheat on each other so often. I think they're only together for security, just to always know they have someone there.
However, Saturday night, my best friend invited us to a party at his house so Brandon and I went. When we first got there, we were standing in the kitchen talking and these scantily clad girls were getting a bottle out of the fridge and he had said something to the effect of, "ooh, look over there" and his roommate gave him a look and left so after he left, Brandon looked at me and told me that he thought the bottle was cool looking and that's what he was telling his roommate to look at, not the girls. Then, I was in the living room with my girls and he came in, grabbed my hand and told me he and I were going to play pong, I told him I'm not very good at pong but my friend that invited us is and he told me he doesn't care, he wants me. So we played and when we finished, I sat on the couch and was going to take a snapchat, he saw and came and sat next to me, put his arm around me, got in my snapchat and then still kept his arm there. Then he told me he has to go to the bathroom but didn't know where it was at so I took him there and as soon as I got off the couch and held his hand to guide him through the masses of people, everyone started hollering (which I later found out from my friend, that invited us, that his friends do that when they think people are going to have sex). After he went to the bathroom, I could tell he had too much to drink so I told him to sit for a while and take a break. I took his cup from him and set it on the table behind me while he sat in the chair, I went to sit on the arm of the chair. He got so irrationally angry that I took his cup so he started punching the floor, his roommate tried to calm him down to tell him he was just taking a little breather and that didn't work so I grabbed his face and told him that everything was okay and it'll all be good in a few minutes and he calmed down almost immediately. He pulled me to sit on his lap after that and asked what I wanted to do while he was taking his break and I told him we can do whatever he wants since he was actually listening and taking a break. He looked at me and said "well, I want to do this" and he pulled me in and we started to make out. After a few minutes, he had my bra unhooked and he kept asking me to go back to the dorm. I told him this shouldn't even be happening because he has a girlfriend. He said "fuck my girlfriend, she's cheated on me so many times and I've cheated on her so many times. Let's forget about my girlfriend." We made out a little more and I thought it was ample time that he waited for another drink so I got off of him and told him to go get one and he said he didn't need it anymore, grabbed my hand and pulled me back on him. We made out for about ten more minutes until my friend started going through an existential issue so I got off of him to be with her and by the time I got back, his roommate said he was outside smoking and then he was gonna head back.
The next morning, his roommate was hanging out with my roommate and she asked how he was doing and his roommate said every time they wake up from the morning after a party, he says how much he regrets the previous night's happenings then tells his girlfriend that he cheated. His roommate said when he woke up he told him that he didn't want to tell his girlfriend about me and he'll just keep this one to himself. Which made me think that he regret it and everything but his roommate told my roommate that he never once said that he regret anything that happened between us.
That morning, I had work (I work for housing at my college, so I sit at a desk and help residents in our dorm lobby) so he sat in the lobby with me and we hung out and talked like normal. After my shift was done, Brandon, his roommate, my roommate and I all went to the diner for breakfast and he and I sat together on one side and our roommates sat on the other and he and I sat pretty close the whole time.
Before the party, we would only message each other on facebook. Today, he was out of building and I messaged him and he said "why did I never give you my number before? Here, just text me." I always felt like I was bothering him, messaging him first on facebook all the time but I don't think I was a bother to him now, since he gave me his number to talk to him on.
Finally, I have talked to every girlfriend of mine and told them everything and all of them said that he likes me and that's why he isn't telling his girlfriend about me.
So, my question for you is: why do you think he didn't tell his girlfriend about me even though he told her when he cheat every other time? I don't know his girlfriend so that wouldn't be an issue or anything. We're both fine, it isn't awkward or anything and we've even joked to each other about it happening but neither of us regret it so I think, deep down, even though we were both pretty drunk, that we wanted it to happen. I just don't know why he didn't tell her.
This is, indeed, a more in depth question to a previous one.
Thank you! (link)
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I don't think it'd really matter. I mean I guess it's fun to think that you're special and that's why he won't tell his girlfriend, but he might just not want to have another fight with his girlfriend. That's probably the most likely. You can only guess at this point anyways.
I mean it's not like he broke up with her or something. If that came up, then you'd have more reason to believe he likes you. But he's still with her.
Besides that, why would you want a guy who cheats on his girlfriend? I'm just assuming you like him or else you wouldn't be trying to go so in depth into figuring out if he likes you. I mean if you two got together, he'd probably cheat on you too.
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Would you suggest me to just maintain no cotact with him for another two weeks or so? How long did it take for your guy to message you? Im sorry if that was kinda weird to ask. Im not sure really for what steps to take concerning how to like not completely move on but get him back if possibly if that made sense? And so i just got asked to military ball by this boy who isnt very cute at all and i dont even talk to him much! But im thinking about maybe going with him as friends if my other friends go also. But i feel kinda bad because now that i think of it id probably use that oppourtunity to try to make my ex jealous but he also may think i moved on and do that also. (link)
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Well the number one thing to remember is that you can't make someone want you.
I think you just need to be the best you as possible. You also don't deserve these games he's playing. I mean you're not a toy, you can't just be dragged around.
With my situation, he took probably about a month until he messaged me. Then he told me he missed me about a week after he found out I was seeing someone else. I genuinely liked this guy so I didn't care to make my ex jealous. I mean I was completely tired of him wanting me, then not wanting me. Telling me he loves me, then telling me he doesn't. It was a pain.
You need to give him space. I know you think it will make him think you moved on and then he'll do the same but it's your only hope. If you keep trying to talk to him, then it just won't happen how you want it to.
I'd say for the mean time, give this other guy a chance. Don't go off and try to make your ex jealous, he'll notice so you don't need to make an effort in that area. Just enjoy the dance and maybe this guy might be pretty cool.
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So I'm 15 and I want to be pregnant... I don't know what to do...btw I'm single. For the past couple months I've wanted to have a baby... I need some advice! Please help!!! (link)
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Well you're 15, your hormones are the cause of this feeling.
You're also living under the care of your parents. You can't afford to take care of yourself. You won't be able to afford to take care of a child. Your parents would be the one paying for it.
I mean most people will wait to have children till they are older because then they will have their own place, a car and a job. Even then, it's hard to just take care of yourself.
So babies are expensive. Food, clothes, medical issues, diapers, furniture, clothes, ect. And it's going to be for the next 18+ years.
So obviously, you don't want to go through with it. Just wait until you're older, you'll be happy you did.
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Me and him started dating a week ago. In less than a week, he's already said "I love you". I don't think he meant it but it's honestly kind of scaring me because I don't want to get hurt. We haven't really talked about it and I don't really want to, but what should I do? He seems like a really nice guy and I want to keep dating him, but I don't think he actually loves me and the word scares me. He also kinda expects me to text back kinda fast so does that mean he's clingy or just shy? He's a really shy guy. Advice much appreciated thank you (link)
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If he says it again, tell him you wouldn't like to move that fast. I mean we shouldn't be saying things we don't mean. Maybe he loves you and didn't mean it as "I'm in love with you". Who knows, when he says it again, ask him to explain or just tell him you don't want to move that fast.
Did he tell you he expects you to text back fast? If so, that is weird. I don't see how it'd be shy, clingy yes.
If I was dating this guy, it honestly would send me red flags. I'm sure he's a nice guy and maybe doesn't have a lot of experiences in relationships so I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Just be honest with him and everything should be fine.
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Hi, I'm currently a guy (16 Years Old) that wants to know what kind of fun things could two lovable teenagers do for like a special romantic date. I really want to surprise my girlfriend but it's really hard of doing so just because I have no idea what to do sometimes... It stresses me out because she talks about me not making the decisions of what we'll do a certain day that we'd want to see each other. When we're together we have fun but it just really bothers me. (link)
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-See a concert.
-Play pool.
-Go bowling.
-Go dancing.
-Go to the zoo.
-Go ice skating
-Play mini golf.
-Watch a movie and cuddle.
-Go to an amusement park.
-Go to an aquarium.
-Horseback riding.
-Get coffee and go to a bookstore.
-Go to the beach.
-Go for a walk and have a picnic.
-Go for a bike ride.
-Go rock climbing.
-Go fishing.
-Go swimming.
-Go to a sports game.
-Go out to eat.
-Go to the mall.
-Play video games or board games at the house.
-Make desserts together.
-Have a movie day.
-Go to the movies.
-Star gaze.
-Go to the park.
-Pick up some pizza, watch tv or a movie and cuddle.
-Volunteer together, like at an animal shelter or something or those color runs.
-Go see a drive in movie.
-Ride go karts.
-Fly kites.
-Do some creative stuff together. Get crafty lol you guys might get into a hobby together.
-Hiking.
-Rollerblading.
-Walk your dogs.
-Visit a museum.
-Group dates are fun.
-Get ice cream or frozen yogurt.
-Karaoke
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I have never had a job before and I've filled out many job applications, but no one has given me a call. I prefer to have a job thats close to where I live, but I think I'm not getting hired because I have no experience. I don't know what to put down for "work experience". Do I need a resume even though I don't have experience?
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Getting your first job is hard. It took me about a year and I applied everywhere.
I'd suggest volunteering. That counts as experience and it always looks good.
Whenever it's possible, try walking in and asking for applications. Most will say it's online but meeting the manager and giving it to them personally always helps, then calling in to check on it will show you're really interested in the job.
It's always good to have a resume. Just start doing volunteer work.
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I'm a junior in highschool and there's this boy in my history class. He sits two seats to my right and there's another kid that sits between us. Is there a way I can start a conversation without it being weird or awkward? I don't really know him, but I would like to.. any ideas?? (link)
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I like both of the advice given.
I think talking to the kid next to you would help. He'll notice you more since you guys talk and maybe join in. But also talking about the class while entering or leaving could help.
It's good to just talk, that's how you make friends. So I think when you're leaving, you should try to make small talk with him. Talking to him while going into class might be weird if you're waiting to get there at the same time as him. So it's easier to just talk when you guys are leaving the classroom.
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My GF and I got a new roommate because we have extra room in our apartment and it lowers the rent. He loves to cook and is really outgoing. He makes big breakfasts, lunches, dinners and delicous desserts. He also insists that he will take care of shopping, errands, etc. if we just sit back and try one of his pies or something.
But he has also been doing all the laundry and over the past few months my GF said a lot of her shirts and pants were getting tighter and a lot of mine were too. We think he might be accidentally shrinking them in the wash. How can we go about doing something about this nicely? (link)
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It's weird that you have a roommate that does your laundry.
You don't need to explain to him that he's ruining your clothes or anything, just tell him you'll do your own laundry and thank him.
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Okay so bare with me. And pardon my language too. But anyway, my dad and I have always been good friends, but recently my parents got divorced and my dads been kind of a jerk lately. I am a gamer, and I always have been. A few years ago, i bought myself and xbox 360 (with my own money) and I play it a lot. My parents somehow got the bright idea that they could take it away even though i bought it with my own money, i buy my own games, pay for my own live etc. But they take it away because i get bad grades and all, and i can kind of see why..? But I dont think its right. But my dad (ever since the divorce) has been a real jerk about the xbox, and he complains i spend too much time on it, and that i dont focus enough on school. He blames the xbox for my bade grades. I simply disagree, i just straight up dont care about school. Homework is dumb, I come home for me time. Not to do shit from school. But hes blaming the xbox for my bad grades, and Im getting really pissed the hell off that hes such a jerk about it. He acts like he owns the thing. Im frustrated as hell with him, and i'm getting to the point where im beginning to want to go live with my mum instead of him. He and I are becoming less of friends, and we fight almost daily. I love him (hes my dad) and I want to be great friends with him, but I hate when hes an ass to me about my passion, and takes it away from me. Its like me ripping his camera away from him and saying "oh well you didnt finish that quarterly review project your boss wanted you to complete, so no camera for you for like 2 months." and its slowly waisting my money away, and really beginning to piss me off. I want to maintain a good friendship with my dad, but its hard to do when i begin to hate him more and more every damn day. What the hell do I do? (link)
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I completely agree with Rahzie.
It's normal for teenagers to want to play xbox all day and all night. Your parents can take away anything from you, I mean you're living under their roof. Even if you paid for it, you're still a minor. I agree that it might not be the best way to punish you but they can do it, there's nothing exactly wrong with it.
In my opinion, you just need to get your priorities straight. Like at some point you need to grow up and accept that there are other things that need to be done before "me time". Once you finish all the things that need to be done then you can have time for yourself to do what you want. I mean it's just the responsible thing to do even if you may not like it. Just gotta grow up sometimes.
Everybody hates homework. You may not agree with it but in life you're gonna have to do things you don't like. You can't just brush it off because you think it's pointless or you just don't care or don't want to.
You can't change what your dad does, it's his choice and even though you may not like it, he can do that.
So I think if you want to save the relationship with your dad and still keep your xbox around, get your priorities straight.
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So i just cant stand my boyfriends sister she is a huge bitch and always tries to break us up every chance she gets
She is always getting into our business and always calls him with her stupid problems when me and him are hanging out
I love my bf but i can not stand when he mentions her name or picks up her call when we are doing something
I cant say specifically why i hate her because its too long of a story but she is an evil bitch and i just need advice on what to do cause she is the reason me and my bf argue alot (link)
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This is a tough situation for you.
When you're dating someone, sometimes their family can be difficult. That's why you'll hear stories of crazy mother in laws and such. In this case, it's the sister. I'm sure he loves his sister and that's why he always wants to be there for her and all that. That's a good thing, but when it starts interfering with your relationship, it becomes a problem.
You just need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you love him, you want this relationship to work but you feel like his sister is starting to get in between your relationship and you don't want to fight because of her. Ask him if he could talk to her so that she can stop interfering.
Talking bad about her to your boyfriend won't help. Don't say anything negative about her. He obviously cares about her so you just shouldn't talk bad about his family. When you date someone, you deal with their family. Trying to get them to cut contact would be a bad thing to do. Like adviceman said, boyfriends are a package deal.
So just talk to him. I'm sure he understands that it hurts you so just ask him to talk to her so that these things don't keep happening.
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I havent talked to him for two weeks since he broke up with me and one week since that time i texted him that i mentioned earlier. Im not sure how long i should wait since im still a bit scared he sees my no contact as im trying to move on ad so will he. I noticed that hes always checked my snapchat stories everytime i have a new one. Im not sure if that as any meaning however. But prom is comig up and i do want to go with him as my boyfriend but im also worried since this girl that probably likes him asked him to go to homecoming last time when we broke up and i dont want her to use this oppurtunity again for prom. So its like i want to hurry and get back with hik but i can also tell that i cant rush into it likw that. So im not sure what to do about that too. (link)
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Ok if he moves on, it's because he never really cared about you. So if for some reason he decides to move on, then let him. I know that sucks but really, don't chase after someone who doesn't want you. It just makes you look pathetic, no guy really wants that. They want a girl who doesn't depend on them and sit around waiting and begging them to come back. It's sad and desperate so don't be that.
If this other girl decides to ask him, let her. If he says yes, then screw him. I know it's easier said than done but it's better to find someone who really wants to be with you.
If you rush things, it'll just screw everything up. Be patient. If it's meant to be, then it will be. If not, then find someone better. Believe me, there will be someone who actually fights for you rather than you fighting for him.
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