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i dunno what to do!!!
So i liked this girl since august, we used to flirt alot during that time until she got a boyfriend and i was friendzoned. After the break-up i talked to her a lot, but im not sure she'll like me back. We like to get touchy sometimes, maybe hug, or write on each other, but sometimes i think its cause i badly friendzoned. Im leaving in 2 months and i'll probably never see her again, but we are good friends at it'll be awkward if she says no. I just need some help please.
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You've said that you talked with her a lot after the break-up, that is the great sign that you have a great possibility not to be friendzoned. You are leaving in two months, how far you'll be from her? If you're world apart, there's a little possibility to date her.
As I felt that you are very close to her like flirting always. Why not tell her how you feel. Tell her that you like her. She might not like you back, but at least you've expressed your feelings towards her. You comfort her after the break-up, so it's possibile that she felt your care and felt how much she means to you. Don't be afraid to show up your feelings. Who knows she liked you already before but just afraid to tell it off coz she maybe thought she would be friendzoned.
You can escape being friendzoned. Start to do the move now and express what you feel before you leave. She maybe miss you and maybe express what she feels too.
The articles on wikihow which dragonfly gave would be helpful. Follow your heart but let your brain navigate you. Hope it'll be fine.
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I agree with Dragonflymagic.
You are leaving, and unless you're going to be nearby, then why bother?
If she only sees you as a friend, then that's just how it is. You can't make her like you. Even with the hopes that she might feel the same, you are leaving. I mean it might be fun for the next two months to hang out but it won't go anywhere and it's a waste of time. It'll probably just hurt her so it's best to just leave it and stay friends.
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Okay wait...first you say you are leaving in two months. How far away? If you won't be near enough to see her "in person" on a regular level, then there is no chance of dating her if you could get out of 'friend zone', right? So why bother with only getting to date her two months if somehow you could swing this instantly? And is it fair to her whether she knows you are leaving or not to get involved only to feel sad when you are gone and having to move on?
If you are entertaining the idea of a long dist. relationship, don't bother. Even if you've known the person in real life, once apart, whatever the two of you discuss and how your relationship continues is mostly pure imagine and fantasy. Humans tend to fill in the spaces that are missing cus its not face to face, with fantasized imaginings. The reason for dating is to learn things about the opposite sex and discover things we like and don't like, causing us to refine our search of who we want to date, so that they are not only best friend but romantic partner as well and someone we can ultimately spend long term with dating or in marriage. Even as teens in high school, theres lots to learn and most likely you will date several different girls before you decide on who is 'the one' for you. So it is counterproductive to attempt to date a girl who is long distance. Okay, that part is settled.
So whats left? You still don't know what you are doing that is putting you in the 'friend zone' to begin with. I bet you'd like to know asap for the time when the next girl comes around that you become interested in. I have watched video's of dating coaches and these guys have pointers to help a guy know what to do and not do to avoid get 'friend zoned'.
Here's a wonderful article by wiki how on the friend zone with links to other related topics. Hope it helps.
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