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I'm here to help people and everyone is welcome here. Feel free to ask me as I can give you an honest opinion. Feel free to email me and discuss what you may need to express. I don't sugarcoat, I'm may be brutally honest. advice
i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby?
Hello there, my dear. You really do need to tell your parents. You should prepare for there extreme reaction even on how close you are to them. Prepare yourself first. You need to plan on how, when and what you'll tell to them. Getting pregnant at 13 is really a serious issue. If you are afraid of telling it directly to your parents, you should seek help to your school guidance counselor.
You should find a right time. Don't try in telling them when your parents are tired. You should know on how they would react on the issue.
Being a mom at 13 is so difficult. Expect all the emotional consequences dear. Once you initiate a talk with your parents, you should tell them on how you feel first. Don't surprise them into telling the problem immediately. If they already aware that you have a boyfriend, tell them about him and then the time that it happened. But never interrupt them even when they'll be screaming at you. Just explain the things they ask.
I understand that you didn't able to control your feelings and emotion, I understand that getting into a relationship at this young is really overwhelming, I understand on the rush of your hormones. It happened, there's no turning back. Your parents will surely get angry, no parents won't. But they'll understand you. They'll help you, though it's really hard to think that their princess is going to have a baby at 13. My dear, it's really hard to raise a kid. It's expensive no matter what kind of life you want for him. I'm not saying that you shouldn't keep your baby. I'm just saying what is in the reality.
Now that you've told your parents, tell them about your decision. Don't rush in. Tell them that you are gonna keep the baby. Also another important thing, you didn't include above about your boyfriend so I'm gonna add this up. Let your parents, call your boyfriend's parents to have a talk and then tell them what happened. You are not alone in your situation. You are not gonna keep the baby alone. Your boyfriend has also a responsibilty though I know he might be still 12-13 year-old or older. But you need to tell him. You need his support emotionally. He might not be able to help you financially but at least his parents will. You are not alone in this.
I really hope you the best hun. I hope this advice will be useful and though it's a week late.
here are links below to add up this advice. Take care and hope you all the best.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/Parents/tell_parents.html#
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1043772/young-mums-how-i-told-my-parents-i-was-pregnant
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/x1043688/im-a-teenager-and-scared-of-telling-my-parents-im-pregnant
I am 19 year old female, and have been been sexually active with 2 different men in my life. (Not at the same time) and about 3 weeks ago I got my annual Pap smear but I also had a yeast infection. My cells came back normal and everything else was normal aside from the HPV results came back positive. My doctor said the yeast infection could have caused the test to be in accurate, but is that true? She wants to see me back in 6 months, but I am going to a gynecologist specialist, and am going to get a full STD screening. Does anyone know if the yeast infection could have really made the results in accurate and anything about the HPV. Thank you so much!
This is no cure for HPV however, there are treatments and vaccines for it. There are about 100 types of HPV. You may want to consider a vaccine for it. But since probably you already have the virus, there's no need to. But, there's a high percentage that you can get other type of HPV which a vaccine couldn't guarantee to make you safe for getting an HPV.
Yeast infection primarily caused the abnormality in your results. There are also some factors that affects the result. If you recently had a rough sex, there might be an irritation in your vaginal canal. And also hormonal changes due to stress. Let's still be positive since your HPV result is not yet confirmed.
There are two kinds of HPV. The low risk which can't lead to cervical cancer and can cause to no or low genital warts soon after or weeks or even years after getting in contact with HPV positive. To those who have low risk HPV, the genital warts will gradually disappear by itself. But also, HPV doesn't directly cause genital warts.
The High risk HPV, can cause cervical cancer. But it doesn't mean that when you have it, you automatically are a candidate for cervical cancer. Though you may be still at risk of having it.
So it is best to get checked immediately. Hope this helps.
I'm not a doctor but I'm a Biology major.
Am from nigeria, Am a virgin I got disvirgin last two weeks and I had sex today buh I felt pain and saw blood pls am confused am I still a virgin or what
If a penis had successfully gets into your vagina, then you are no longer virgin. The pain and blood are caused by the lack of lubrication. Vagina gives-off natural lubricant if it's aroused. You may also need to use lubricants. A proper enough-timed foreplay is the best before engaging into sex as it helps you lubricates your vagina so penetration is not painful.
The reason why you bled is because of your hymen(the soft skin that covers your vagina) is widely stretched without enough lubricant.
You may also try some relaxing positions so it wouldn't be painful the next time you try it.
I'm tired of loving. Simple as that. I wish I was dead.. All I ever do is cause problems... I just want my life to be over. I don't want to take my own life though. I wish for someone to do it for me... Can someone help me? Please... Living is pointless for me. I can't escape the pain.... And now.... I'm completely... Irrevocably numb.
No one in here will ever give you advice on how to end life, sorry. But we can help you by giving you some advice on how to deal with your problem. perhaps state what do really bother you so then we can give our honest opinions and advice about it.
This site is about helping one another on how to deal with the intricacies of life and not how to end it.
Feel free to ask and you'll surely be answered.
Help! My bestfriend's birthday's almost here, I'm planning to sing him a special song. Any ideas?
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me.
You have just started your puberty. It may be not yet the time to have sex. The lowest age of consent is 15 as far as I know in some other countries. That is just a mere infatuation of what you have felt towards your boyfriend and your ex's because you are still 13, you don't know yet what is really a love. If you are really eager to have sex with your boyfriend, it is best to not do it yet. You would be more likely get depressed after having sex. Think of some factors that might affect you after having sex with him. What if he'll blurt into the whole class after what happened, what if he is kiss-and-tell?, what if he'll dump you and worst of all what if you'll have unprotected sex? You may not want to face those consequences after entering into a sensual bodily contact. You are not yet emotionally ready for that honey. You are still young.
Studies have shown that girls aged 16 below that tend to have sex with their boyfriends are more likely to be depressed for some various factor that affect it. I mentioned those some of the factors.
I understand your desire because I've been through to it too. The safest and the easiest way to satisfy you with your desire is to just masturbate. In that way, you won't get pregnant and or have STD's. It'll help you feel pleasure and greatness as the surge of dopamine and serotonin in your brain will increase- those are the neurochemicals. That way is safe and healthy.
Feel free to reach me dear.
'blueheart'
When you adopt a puppy do you have to fill out any legal papers or go to court over it? I want to adopt a puppy but my parents wouldn't go to court for it. :(
When you adopt a puppy it is much way too different in adopting a child. No court hearings or no legal papers to be signed. As adviceman49 said, you need to go to pet shop or a dog shelter to buy new pets. then you need to take your puppy to vet to ensure its health.
There was this chick in hs and she was my girlfriend's best friend. We all went on a group trip without my girlfriend and on a drunken night I told her, "if you weren't her best friend, I'd be with you." Surprisingly she didn't tell my girlfriend about it and every time she'd see me she'd say hi. I hadn't seen her in about 8 months due to college and yesterday as I walked down the street I had a feeling someone was watching me and as I looked up she turned around and left off in a different direction. Does this mean she ever felt the same about me and did she avoid me on purpose? Or is it all in my head and I should leave it in the past?
There are a lot of factors to be considered why she did that certain actions. First, in my basic opinion that means that she could have the same feeling for you but was afraid to tell because you are her bestfriend's boyfriend and the feeling of guilt and awkwardness are rushing into her. 2nd, she might just had avoided you for the fact that you had a hidden feelings for her but you have a girlfriend and it's her bestfriend. It would be a shame to both of you if you would continue your feelings for her and same as her. If I were you, forget the hidden feeling you had for her and be honest to your girlfriend. I wish that if you and your girlfriend might break-up her bestfriend might not be next in her line.
you should leave everything in the past and go on happily with your girlfriend.
will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up
Oh dear I hope this won't be too late. Suicide is not an answer to your problem! And God will never forgive you if you'll cut your own life and you won't be able to get into heaven. God made us so he is the only who has the right to take our life from us.
I know what you feel. Suicide is not the right way. Think of the solution instead of thinking about suicide. First, think about what would possibly happens when you're already dead. Think about your family-your mom and dad, siblings and own family if you have. Think about how they would feel. They would be totally devastated if you happen to give up your life. There is a chance in you. Don't lose hope. You may be living in a wheelchair but still you can do a lot of things and you still enjoy life. From driving under suspension, you could be in jail. But wait for the hearing. Hire the best lawyer who will fight for you. Do anything you can while there is time til' the hearing day. Never think of self-pity.
Think of many possibilities that would come further in you. If you decide to give up, your soul won't be satisfied becasue of your unfinished business. Your family and friends would be totally devastated if that happens. You're being too selfish on the people who love you by thinking about suicide. Think that you are still lucky enough than those less fortunate people living in streets and those who were sentenced in jail for life.
It's not too late to think about solution. It's not too late to ask guidance from your friends and family. Plan the most accurate reasons and steps to solve your problem.
This could not be more accurate advise but one thing I know is that I give my whole best in helping you. I hope you still there to read this.
Feel free to ask me. God bless you and may God will enlighten your mind so you can come up with great solution.
'Blueheart'
M/15
If the fallowing offends you I dont care.
About a year ago I came out to my parents that I was an Atheist. Well they are young earth creationists(which means they take everything in the bible literaly.) so they did not take to kindly to it. They made fun of me for not beliveing in there god and the fact that they are so positive that I'll regret it when I find out I'll be wrong. Well I shook it off I'm very strong with my belifs and at another time after I let things cool down I asked them if it was necisary that I go to church. The gave me no other reasoning other than yes because thats what our family dose. So ive put up with it for along time and I don't think I can any more. All I do at their church is sit there and stare off into space. Its truly a waste of time for me. I know the religion is not for me ive read the whole bible 4 times. More than most believers and I cannot stand for what they belive in. Dose any one know any reason
that my parents would be like this and only give me such a bland reason for making me go?
I understand you sweetie for I was an atheist when I was 14. Yet my parents were so religious so I came back to it. But my sect is different from them. I'm Lutheran while they're Roman catholic and my dad is orthodox christian.
Religion is just an illusion. People believe in so dieties. Religion
For some reason I was surfing and checked to see what was written about Ray Marcois and the kennel he owned when he died..........WHERE IN THE WORLD DID YOU GET THE INFO THAT HE AND DIANE WERE SHOT TO DEATH?????
Ray and I were married for a few years and he and I acquired Mandelyn Kennels from the prior owners during the time of our marriage. Diane was a friend of ours - and continued to remain a friend of mine after Ray and I split up - and for quite awhile after Ray died OF A HEART ATTACK while out on the training field talking to his head trainer Tony Barios. Ray was giving Tony instructions on what was to be taken care of while he was at the Air Force Base in Texas to work with handlers and canines. Ray was dead before the ambulance arrived arrived!!!! NO SHOOTING INVOLVED IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM.....and his wife Diane was still alive the last time she and I talked several months later.
Please let me know - and better yet, inform your "source" that he/she was WRONG/WRONG/WRONG. Ray was too good a man to have this stupid incorrect information on the net.
I respect what you've expressed. However I neither have any clue about the issue nor about the columnist who written a wrong information.
I am fully hoping that issue would be resolved immediately.
Dear Vikki
I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.
Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!
Thanks!
There are always lots of insecurities on a relationship. A relationship breaks because of one of some factors and that is when a person couldn't manage his/her insecurities anymore. If you trust your boyfriend and both of you are happy in your relationship together, it won't break. Unless if you won't handle your insecurities. I know what you feel. Don't think that you aren't pretty, never think that he might be with someone else who is more than what you are because as you've said he won't cheat on you.
You sometimes see yourself as ugly and you are after to lose of because of that, think smartly of the reason why is he still with you? why he still faithful on you? The reason is that there is something he sees in you more than your beauty. He sees the real you and he accepts it. And there's no reason for you to be insecure.
Don't just hide your insecurities.Remove it. Or else it'll just destroy the relationship. Note that an insecurity leads to jealousy then up to paranoia. And that's the reason of bleeding heart and or suicidal thoughts if you can't take it anymore. And you won't wish it to happen. I made it exaggerated because that is a reality happening in our society today. It all started in a single insecurity.
He won't leave you no matter what if he truly loves you. If he leaves you for someone else, he's not for you and not because you are ugly or not because of one of your insecurities.
I hope he is the right guy for you. You are beautiful and don't be yourself because you can evolve. If you think you are ugly, remember that there are a lot of uglier than you.
My advice is practical and I hope this will help you sweetie. Goodluck to you.
I can feel you. Feel free to reach me.
"blueheart"
Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed)
Yes you are still a virgin. When a man's manhood is penetrated to yours, that would be the time you are no longer a virgin.
I am almost 100% sure I have depersonalization. I know I shouldn't assume but by the looks of it, I'm sure I have it. I always feel like I'm in a dream and It's scary. I have severe anxiety and depression.
I know the way to cure depersonalization is to stop thinking about it, but I can't. My mind is always thinking about it. I've tried watching tv, playing a game, etc., but it just won't work. I can't even sleep at night because of it being on my mind. I am going to see a doctor to see if this is depersonalization, but until then, this is all I can do. Any advice ASAP please. Thank you
Oh I can feel you sweetie. i have a depersonalization too and it occurs like frequently but i'm not worried about it coz it's just our brain playing tricks on us.
You don't need to worry too much about it coz it'll just bother you more. When the time it would occur, you need to stay calm, relax and have presence of mind that you are aware of your experience in that very moment. you need to keep in mind always that it is real although it seems like a dream or you are just watching that person like he's in a frame or in a tv.
If your studies or work and daily activities will be so much affected, you need to see the doctor immediately. Reminder: don't think there is something wrong with you coz it'll just worsen your situation.
don't stress out yourself, don't let yourself being sleep deprived, aim balanced-diet and do workout.
if you need further advice, i'm just right here coz i can feel you.
hope this helps. goodluck and take care.
'blueheart'
Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do?
The best thing to can do is you need to do is you need to talk with her sincerely. You need to discuss on how to deal on your relationship and talk on how you should be able to cope up with your fights. Fighting with each other sometimes is good as long as you are still able to manage your relationship. Ask her what's the matter why she keeps on fighting with you. Perhaps there's something wrong that you did that's why she argue with you. There are a lot of factors why girls bring up arguments to their partners and one reason is probably she's jealous or there's something she doesn't like on your actions. Talk to her immediately and ask her what she likes and not. If she goes to higher voice, don't fight back just stay calm and hold your pride or else she might have an urge to break up with you which I don't want it to happen. So, if you can't talk to her, why not text her to meet at a resto for dinnerdate then discuss about great matters dealing to your relationship. Girls are really complicated and one example is your girlfriend. I hope you can settle your problem with her.
Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help
Oh dear you are at risk. I've been researching data about it and now I'm still gathering more. Here is a site that can partially help you. It deals about "kik messenger" and stuffs about it. Not to worry about it too much as it will cause you depression or even it'll lead to suicide. Tell your mom or any of your family members. Repirt it to the authorities in your country. Europe has cyber-bullying laws in each country. The FBI authorities can track down the user so you need to report it. Stop talking to the creep and don't delete your convos yet as it is a good proof you can show to authorities.
Ask all great advisers here. I'm still searching about your problem and I'll have to ask people about it so I will add up more answers and more information about your problem. Never lose hope. People will help you here.
http://www.universityblogspot.com/how-to-outsmart-the-kik-creeps/
I'll add more precise details immediately.
So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do?
I can feel you sweetie. Your parents are so overprotected to you. Whilst on the other hand, mine too even I\'m at the late teens already. You are a girl, you are still at mid-teens and perhaps you only have lilttle siblings or you are the only child so your parents must really be over protective on you. That truly means thta they are after for your safety and security. They don\'t want you to mingle with other bad family-background friends so you won\'t get in trouble. And they won\'t allow you to hangout at night because teenage pregnancy rate are really high in England. I can understand you and I know you that know that they are just after for you safety. But one thing that makes it wrong is they are really being over protective to you. You need to tell them that you are responsible enough to take care of yourself and you need to show it to them. Explain to them that there will never be wrong in using other social networks aside from facebook. You need to tell this to them \"Mum, dad, you know I\'m smart right? You know that I won\'t get myself pregnant and ruin my future by just using such teenage social networks over internet right? Pls allow me I\'m 14 already\" I told this to my parents too when they forbid me to use ask.fm and rpg dragon of atlantis. And also another thing is that your dad views your messages on facebook. That also happened to me a few times when my mum always sneak to my mobile and read my convos on fb messenger then she found out that I was still talking to a guy at 3 am so I was grounded and after it I put lock but still she wants me to uncode it and this what I said \"Mum you know I\'m 17 already and I have no privacy because you never let me have it. It seemed that you won\'t let me use my own brain and you made me so powerless and makes me feel that I\'m not capable of being your daughter because it feels like im just your robot. Being a teen is so complicated and I can\'t manage to handle this even to just really small things you break my privacy. This will be over or myself will be over? Choose\" that was what I said to my mum. I wrote an idea for you to speak out but you should not tell what you wanna say in a rude way like mine. And also last thing is that they choose your friends, I think that is just fine because you are still teen and you need their guidance in choosing your friends but don\'t let them take your friends away from you.
You need to speak out because you can no longer breathe by their overprotectiveness. You have your own mind and don\'t let them manipulate you. All you need is guidance and care but not manipulation. I supposed that there are some states that have a law about teen\'s privacy.
I hope this helps.
Hey everyone! I'm 16/female.
*************************This question will put you to sleep*************************
So there's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me, has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, quiet, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.
My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous conversation on the bus, followed by an in sync nap. Also he accepted this girls flirting all day, and she walked with him when I was trying to talk to him. But either way all negativity aside, since that day, I just couldn't get enough. Months later, there were days when my history teacher was absent, and I somehow spent both periods talking to him. Then I started talking to him on Facebook, a few weeks later. Eventually, he answered more frequently & a little over two weeks ago, he asked for my number since it was easier for him to answer me there than on Facebook. (I was crying I was so happy) & that wholeeeee time we were talking all day every day, him texting me first, & throughout that time texting, he was flirting a lot, but it could have been taken as something else most of the time.
For example, he would give me really cute nicknames as he said good morning & good night, he would ask me questions like "describe your perfect relationship" (says aww to my description, then says everything I missed), he basically described me when I asked him what type of girls he likes & he comforted me one day when I was mad, saying "I'm always here" afterwords. He was just so sweet the whole time. He never suggested anything that had to do with sex, unless I asked him about it ( I asked what his favorite body parts were and what type of legs he liked and again, he described my legs) & he wouldn't object to changing the subject back to normal afterwords, unlike other boys I've talked to. I told him once that I haven't found a mutual liking with someone & he mentioned that maybe he already had, then he said "maybe one day we'll find it" (what does that mean?) & it had my head spinning every time he said something like that. He would call me "awesome" and said that he would miss me if I moved, use witty little lines on me, never tried too hard but still he was very subtle.
We agreed that he would tell me a story about the girl that he used to go out with & he insisted on telling me this as soon as possible for some reason. When I was going to go meet him so he could tell me, the same girl from the trip was keeping me from going over there, (I didn't want to ditch her and be rude) & he was asking me "are you coming outside or not" (it sounded like he was eager, but then he goes and does this...) Then I explained to him that I've been there, but I didn't want to be rude. I found a way to position myself and the girl where he could see us, front and center. This girl is also in our class, and he knows her for a while longer than he knows me so when he comes up to us, he starts flirting with her immediately. She flirts back (of course -.-, she's one of those.) She has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if he is aware. So this makes me extremely uncomfortable, considering. We were looking at each other this whole time, so I tried to show him with my face that this might be a bad time, but my face didn't say that, it looked at him as if I was sad and confused that he was paying attention to her & not me (exactly how I was feeling, but not what I meant to do at all) so he stopped & came to me and properly greeted me. I smiled & the girl got the idea & started walking farther in front of us, and soon we were alone and she was getting her face sucked. He tells me the story as normal, we flirt and giggle and I admire him as he talks. I notice he's a bit nervous... But he never gets to finish, so we plan another day later, & he asks me if he could call me to tell me, but I say no because I want an excuse to stare at him. So when this day comes, I watch him play, (this is outside by the way) and I'm waiting for the bell to ring so he could talk to me. It when the bell rings he's still playing. I get up, a little sad since this time he wasn't texting me, he was absorbed in the game. So as I leave, I feel a hand on my shoulder, it's him of course. I give a huge smile (can't help myself) and he continues where he left off. I can't help but notice he's a little antsy and nervous as he talks this time too. He tells me about this teddy bear that he gave that ex, and he says he has it now because her parents didn't like him so she had to give it back (don't understand why) So he's talking, and a bunch of people notice us in the halls walking together, and a handful of my stupid friends make things very awkward. Pointing and giggling at us, saying "ohhhhhhhhhhhh that's him" quietly but obviously, staring at him, & one friend even went as far as to say "hey, I know you like her because she's beautiful and everything, but you'll never get that" and I wouldn't dare to look at him so I couldn't tell you his reaction, all I know is he kept talking, while I struggled to listen and respond.(I swear, I want to listen to what he's saying with my FULL attention, but he's just so gorgeous sometimes I can't believe he's talking to me.) anyway, when we said goodbye, I think I caught a glimpse of him leaning closer to hug me, but I quickly turned away. I'm not ready for all of those eyes looking at us yet. Then again I'm not sure he did.
If you don't understand what my question is, which most likely you don't (sorry) it's that I don't know if this kid likes me back! He's so confusing, he flirts in my face with that girl (which is really nothing by the way, it's just a little confusing that's all) and then texts me when we get home and treats me like a princess.
*by the way, if it sounds like I'm jealous of that one girl, I'm really not. I used to be, but I got my brain back. I just wanted to illustrate my frustration with her cockblocking.*
I want to thank anyone who got this far in advance. If you think I don't want to read extremely long answers, you're wrong lol :) you reap what you sow, or so I've heard ^_^
Oh sweetie I love to read this kind if teenage mushiness. It reminds me of someone I used to love. Anyways, Since you are eager to know the answer, I will tell you directly. Well, it\'s pretty obvious that he LIKES you back! As you\'ve said that he flirts you, call you awesome, treat you like a princess and give you hints of his expression, well that are his amazing ways of expressing his like for you and later on it could develop into a deeper emotion.
As you\'ve said that he is obviously flirting with other girl in front of you that has a boyfriend already, well that is a great sign of his like for you. Why? It\'s because it was just his defense mechanism of his emotion for him to figure out how you would react in that situation and how would you feel just for him to figure out if you truly cares about him. It was just like he was trying to make you jealous but in a gentle way. But you know I find him so smart for that way because he did it in front of your face plus that girl has a boyfriend already so he thought that you would never think something bad at him.
And also you already know he likes you but you are just unsure. He still doesn\'t confess his feelings for you yet he is already expressing it in a subtle way. He might afraid of rejection or he is still shy and wants to know you more. Just be honest to him and express yourself alot. Why not ask him if he likes you? That would be very awkward but try to tell it in a joking manner.
All you need to be is be patient because the right will come when he\'ll confess you feelings, you need to nice and honest to. And most of all be georgeous to make him stun at your inside and out beauty.
I hope this will help. Goodluck and feel free to ask me.
How much travel playing a role to change your lifestyle?
Travelling plays a great role in your lifestyle. When you travel in various countries, you learn their culture and lifestyle. So you are likely to acquire their practices, lifestyles and culture especially if you spend longer time in that country or place.
Hey everyone! I'm going to try to keep this short! I currently have hair that is about an inch past my boob:p I'm a 14 year old girl btw :p but my hair is naturally a very deep and rich red and I've never coloured it before. I have been thinking about donating my hair for about a year now. Some people say that you only have to cut a minimum of 8 inches off so I'm probably going to do that which would take my a little bit past my shoulders. I'm nervous my mom or hairdresser won't let me though because I have freaked out due to cutting my hair short. Can someone help with details about donating and how to convince my mom?
If you are really willing to help people suffering from a kind of problem in which they need hair like the cancer survivors, well you are streching your hands to them. The way to convince your mom or your hairstylist is to make them understand how you would be able to help people by donating your hair. don\'t worry about it dear coz your hair will soon grow.
If you are preoccupied donating your hair, well maybe next next time. think it over before you\'ll regret. But still think of the thing that you are putting a smile on the people you donated your hair.