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E-mail: SakuraTwilight@ymail.com
Gender: Female
Location: United States
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: March 11, 2014
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I got married one and half month ago but our sex relationship is uncompleted. ...We try every day but panis do not push inside..I have lot a pain when my husband start sex...I am feeling very guilty. .because I am not support him properly. .. (link)
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This may sound strange, but have you ever tried using lubricant? It's supposedly easier. You have to make sure you are completely calm and relaxed. If you are tensed or super nervous, it'll be painful and uncomfortable for you. Go slow, and try to relax. It'll get easier over time.
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please someone tell me the easiest painless way to die.. i hate pain but i need to do this. (link)
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Okay first of all, I want you to think about the following.
1. Is there anyone that loves you in your life right now? If so, how are they going to feel after you're gone?
2. Are you young? If so, you have a lot more to your life and you should not end if just because you are having troubles.
3. What is the actual reason you are doing this? If you can't figure out a reason, there really is no point right?
But if you truly wish to do this... I suppose the most painless way would be to take a lot of pills and then go to sleep... But I really don't suggest doing this. Think of how much pain you'll cause people that love you after you go...
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Here’s the thing …
I’m in a distance relationship for almost three months , he’s amazing and just what I wanted and waited for along time, we have so much in common and I’ve never met anyone like him before, I never saw him but I’m so excited that I will ,and the good news is that in August I’m moving to his country ..my previous relations was nothing but a disappointments ,,that’s why i have commitment and trust issues ,but he’s damaged as I am ,it’s not his fault nor mine ,we both fucked up emotionally ,maybe that’s why it’s working this time ,and our fights are usually on this matter ,for example he’s still wearing this band that his ex gave it to him ,and he keep saying it’s just a reminder to him to not be that fool again ,it really pisses me off ..and then he lied about it and told me that he took it off when I saw it on Facebook that he actually didn’t ,I told him and he said it wasn’t a big deal and I’m overreacting ,and making a big deal out of it ,I said I don’t want to talk to him anymore and to leave me alone, he said hope you find someone that treats you better than me ..but I didn’t want that it was something I said without thinking…for a week we didn’t talk ,then he wrote tellin me that he doesn’t want to lose me and this distance is destroying us ,being so close to each other and far away is destroying what we have ,so his solution was that we should keep It simple till I’m with him ,that he doesn’t want to risk what we have ,and he’s doing this just to have me in the end coz if we keep doing this we’re gonna lose each other and I should understand him.
It was just some stupid fight I don’t want this “let’s keep it simple” situation ,I want things to go back the way they were ,or does he have a point? I mean do you think maybe 1 % what he’s saying is making any sense ? should I agree? But I want him and I’m afraid that these five months will change things and then I’ll be losing him forever ..plzz just tell me what to do..
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I think that certain things annoy people, and others may not be able to understand their situation. Maybe he doesn't see the big deal in wearing his ex's gift, but you do. If you try to let it go, then maybe things can go back.
Instead of talking about it, try simply dropping the subjec and forcing things to go back to normal yourself. If you want things to go back to normal badly enough, they will. Just try to relax and don't overthink things. Look forward to seeing each other in person. It'll be good for you both. Stay optimistic and don't stress if you have a small argument over something. You can pull through! :)
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The other day my friend told me he has been seeing spirits/ghosts. He sees one which is his grandfather that doesn't try to hurt him, one of his twin who passed away and again doesn't try to hurt him, and then one who he doesn't recognize that is very agressive. He says he has woken up feeling as though he had been beat up in his sleep or with scratches on his arms. I'm not sure what to make of this considering I have no experience with ghosts or spirits. He says he is seeing someone about this but from time to time gets scared. Is there any websites or info you can provide to make him less fearful of sleeping at night? (link)
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I highly recommend doing the following:
- Speaking to a priest about the situation. (Even if you are not religious. This can make you feel more at ease, and they can give you great advice that most people don't know. They can bless your home with holy water as well. And that is said to get rid of any "bad" spirits.)
- Bless your home with holy water. There are other things you can use, such as certain types of incense or sage. You could do some research on this to see exactly how to do it.
- Keep your mind off of it, if you can. Stay as busy as possible so you are not thinking about the spirits.
If the spirit is only seen in the house: You may be dealing with something that is strictly attached to the house, and not necessarily your friend. I would suggest that they do not stay in that house, if they can avoid it. If the problem persists, the spirit is haunting your friend and if you do not do any of the steps above, most likely it will get worse.
Be careful, do not do anything unusual or stupid. Stay safe and contact an expert on this if you can.
Good luck!
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