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Falling out of love?


Question Posted Friday March 28 2014, 9:24 pm

Would you suggest me to just maintain no cotact with him for another two weeks or so? How long did it take for your guy to message you? Im sorry if that was kinda weird to ask. Im not sure really for what steps to take concerning how to like not completely move on but get him back if possibly if that made sense? And so i just got asked to military ball by this boy who isnt very cute at all and i dont even talk to him much! But im thinking about maybe going with him as friends if my other friends go also. But i feel kinda bad because now that i think of it id probably use that oppourtunity to try to make my ex jealous but he also may think i moved on and do that also.

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lightoftruth answered Friday March 28 2014, 9:43 pm:
Well the number one thing to remember is that you can't make someone want you.
I think you just need to be the best you as possible. You also don't deserve these games he's playing. I mean you're not a toy, you can't just be dragged around.

With my situation, he took probably about a month until he messaged me. Then he told me he missed me about a week after he found out I was seeing someone else. I genuinely liked this guy so I didn't care to make my ex jealous. I mean I was completely tired of him wanting me, then not wanting me. Telling me he loves me, then telling me he doesn't. It was a pain.

You need to give him space. I know you think it will make him think you moved on and then he'll do the same but it's your only hope. If you keep trying to talk to him, then it just won't happen how you want it to.

I'd say for the mean time, give this other guy a chance. Don't go off and try to make your ex jealous, he'll notice so you don't need to make an effort in that area. Just enjoy the dance and maybe this guy might be pretty cool.

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