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He already said "I love you"?
Me and him started dating a week ago. In less than a week, he's already said "I love you". I don't think he meant it but it's honestly kind of scaring me because I don't want to get hurt. We haven't really talked about it and I don't really want to, but what should I do? He seems like a really nice guy and I want to keep dating him, but I don't think he actually loves me and the word scares me. He also kinda expects me to text back kinda fast so does that mean he's clingy or just shy? He's a really shy guy. Advice much appreciated thank you
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If he says it again, tell him you wouldn't like to move that fast. I mean we shouldn't be saying things we don't mean. Maybe he loves you and didn't mean it as "I'm in love with you". Who knows, when he says it again, ask him to explain or just tell him you don't want to move that fast.
Did he tell you he expects you to text back fast? If so, that is weird. I don't see how it'd be shy, clingy yes.
If I was dating this guy, it honestly would send me red flags. I'm sure he's a nice guy and maybe doesn't have a lot of experiences in relationships so I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Just be honest with him and everything should be fine.
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As I've noticed in your question, the man you are dating said that word in text. Saying that kind of word in text is kinda insincere. If he truly loves you and he meant it well he must say it to you in person and should express why'd he loves you and how much he loves you. Well, words can't express how deep is the love. But he must let you feel that he loves you not only by saying sweet words.
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