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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
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i know this isnt what you really want to hear but its the truth - you need to back off, she had him first and its only right to let her have him. you'll find a guy, your best friends boyfriend isnt him, sorry.
hope i helped!!
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I have liked this guy for a LONG time now but not too much has happened between us. I want to be with him romantically and we've fooled around a few times but we act like it never happened the next time we're together. He does things that make me believe he likes me back but I can never be sure. What should I do? I really want to be with him.
16 years old
Female
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you should try to make it work if you like him, go with what your heart tells you to do. maybe you have been through too much with him before and its not a good idea, think it over and decide whether you think its a good idea to be with him right now or not.
hope i helped
~~StEf~~
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I liked my guy friend named "Kevin", he always says that he doesn't like me but when he's around me (which is like all the time...)he always flirts with me and all. He's walked me home, to my mom's work, and to the bus stop. We went to one of the school dances (i went stag) and he got all jealous when he saw me dancing with one of his football buddies. Ever since then he's been really nice and all. When I stopped crushing over him, he like wouldn't stop lookin at me or anything, but after he found out that I liked him though, he blocked me on aim. What should I do? Should I consider him a friend or not? (link)
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i think you need to talk to him and find out whats going on with him, see how he feels and talk it over. then decide whether hes a friend or not. he may have strong feelings for you but is afraid to tell you.
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Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do! (link)
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you should stay away from this guy, if hes raped a girl before and seems to think nothing of it then he may do it to you. who knows. stay away from him and never be alone with him, its a bad idea, no matter how much you like him your gonna have to let those feelings go hun, your better than him anyway.
hope i helped ya
~~STEF~~
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I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help. (link)
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yes, talk to them about it so they know how you feel. try to get more involved in what they do together. they may not even realize that you feel like they're third wheel.
hope i helped ya
~~STEF~~
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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments (link)
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it could be stretch marks or something like that. i havent seen them though so i wouldnt know, you should ask your mom or a doctor.
hope i helped
~~STEF~~
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You know those Livestrong Bracelets that everyone is wearing now-a-days? Well according to my Spanish teacher, they're also a symbol for hospitals to not ressusitate (sp.) you if you get in some sort of accident and are put in the hospital. Is this true??? Because if it is, that's awful, and I'm not wearing mine anymore. (link)
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no thats not true. that wouldnt be right to do and there would not be as many people wearing them. every 3 out of 5 people i see are wearing one.
~~STEF~~
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Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot! (link)
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just hang around with who you want to, if you want to be close with some people but not others it can be that way. tell the girl that comes to your house that she needs to stop. she may be mad at you at first but you cant just let her keep coming over like that. as far as the other people, just hang with the people who ya wanna hang out with, no ones forcing you to be around anyone. if you see them just ignore them or say hi and then dont talk to them unless you have to.
hope this helped
~~STEF~~
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself? (link)
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you should do what you want if you ask me i think its your choice. they dont have to find out, the only people who have to know about it is your boyfriend and you. if you want to wait till marriage then you do that. its your choice. not theirs.
hope i helped ya!!
~~STEF!~~
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what should i do to get this boy to like me? i am 13 and a female. (link)
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i would say that he probably already likes you but if your tryin to get someone to like you, you should flirt with them and be playful around them, guys like that. if you hang around with him long enough then hes gonna start to like you anyway. good luck with him
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hey why arent i on your fave columnists? i tryed to get you on mine but it wont work!well any way when are you un-grounded?plz tell me with a response or at school or sumtin. i miss hangin out with you!guess what!it was so fun!me jess and collin went ice-skating on friday and like there was this kid who was throwing ice atme and he was annoying.so then we bought fries and an icy and collin threw fries at him and i spit icy all over him(i actusally missed and spray collin) then jess laughed and spit icy all over him again! it was hilarious!then on the ice me and jess were so hyper!we like spun in circles and fell on our butts three times!then collin and jess and me went to the arcade thing and played car driving thing then me and jess went to skate and collin was still in the arcade and when he was done playin he want up to the window where me and jess were and we all breathed on the window and drew heats.then he laughed his head off when i called him collizzle and he called me marizzle.then he tryed to leave the arcade and he couldnt open the door so megan came and opened it and it was so funny! (link)
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wow! sounds like you had fun! i hope i get ungrounded soon! i might be able to have a new years party and maybe even go out on one friday in january! oh well, theres always science and algebra, they cant stop me from seeing you there!
pce
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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
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i think he may be unsure what to think of you, keep flirting with him but give him some time, and if he doesnt ask you out then that probably means he doesnt like you.
good luck
~stef~
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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you gotta tell a teacher or someone because other people are in danger of him doing these things to them later on, he needs to be taken care of now, you need to tell someone, and really quick.
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Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me. (link)
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dont tell him you like him, dont tell anyone. if/when him and his girlfriend break up then let him find out that you like him. if he likes you, then wait till he asks you out because he just broke up with another girl so give him a little time and space. for now just kepp it cool with him and everyone else.
hope this helpd ya
~stef~
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my mom is sick with breast cancer and bone cancer and 3 brain tumors.....i kno thats bad but shes in remission now and doing really well...but for some reason no matta how much i spend time with her she keeps telling me to stay with her.....no i can see when she was really sick and wantin to spend time wit me but she betta now....and this is cutting into my skool work and social life...i told her i cant spend every second wit her but the she told me that i dont respect her and that i hurt her feelings....now everytime i go to my friends house i feel bad....what do i do to tell her i need my space (i've tried sendin her flowers,and cards)--(doesnt work) help me out !PLEASE! (link)
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you need to spend a little time with her, she feels very lonely because she has cancer. you dont know how long you will actually have with her if things start going wrong again... sometimes when you want to hang with your friends just remind your mom that you need to spend some time with them too. you only get to be a kid once.
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~stef~
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Whenever I almost do anything like play tennis, volleyball, cheerleading, piano, etc, I always get nervous, but only when people are watching me. I always play bad at tennis when this one boy is there, but when he's not, I do fine. I know, I know, just block it out. But I try just to focus on what's going on on my court, but it's so hard. Anyone have any tips? (link)
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well it helps me to just laugh when i mess up and then it doesnt seem as bad if your laughing with them, when everyone else realizes your laughing too they think nothing of it. and it doesnt matter, no one is gonna think more or less or you depending on how you play sports. just play with full confidence.
hope this helped ya
~stef~
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Ok, there is this boy I want to have sex with but I dont know what he will say, and I dont know how I should ask...I trust him, all tho me and him arent realy like best of friends or anything, I dunno, I am so comfused, what should I do and if I ask how should I ask?? (link)
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why dont you ask him out first, start with that. when you've been going out for a while and the time feels right then it'll happen.
hope i helped
~stef~
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im going up to New York for christmas and new years eve. Me and my friend want to do something awesome for new years eve because its the first year that were able to actually hang out with friends on new years eve, but then thing is we dont know what we want to do.. or what to do lol. what my question is, is does anyone have any ideas on what i can do for new years eve? thanks (link)
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go to times square and party and then afterwards party more!
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im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should
>should i dump him or not?
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i know you like him but theres gotta be a place you draw the line with the age thing. hes just way too old for you.plus anyone that old who is looking to go out with anyone six years younger than them has something wrong with them and you dont want them anyways. i know it hurts but you gotta tell him that you dont think that you guys should go out anymore. thats whats best.
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~stef~
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Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo (link)
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if you strongly like him then go out with him again but if not then you should let it go, you could do better but if you like him then thats perfect for you.
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~stef~
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