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is it possible to get pregnant having buttsex (link)
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Well, the semen cannot go into the anal cavity and swim to your ovaries, but it is possible.
When you have anal sex, semen leaks out of your anus and runs so it is possible that it can get inside of your vagina and travel to your eggs.
If you're planning on having anal sex, make sure your partner wears a condom. It is also easier for you to contract std's because your anus tears much easier because it doesn't make natural lubrication like your vagina does.
Hope this helps!!
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my boyfriend's coming over tommorow but i don't know what to do.
he fingered me before, and i attempted to give him a handjob..but im really bad at it and don't know how to do it AT ALL.
1. is there a right way to do it?
2. how do you know you're having an orgasm? (link)
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1. I don't think there is really wrong way to do it since everyone's opinion of what feels good is different. Ask him to point you in the right direction movement-wise. He'll tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like. Just remember, the wetter the better.
2. There are two different types of orgasms. Well, they feel different for me anyway. The clitoral orgasm kind of feels like fireworks exploding on your happy spot. A vaginal orgasm feels more like a rolling explosion inside of you.
Hope this helps!
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i have silences while on the phone with *him*. what are some random things to talk about. anything really. i want the conversation to spark up another conversation. please give me multitple ideas. thanks! (link)
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If you're both really into old movies or share a favorite movie, say a quote from it and see if he picks up on it. Or you can just say random things. Last summer I started dating this guy and the first few phone conversations had a few lulls. So one time I'm trying to think of something witty to say and he said something first. He said that he would really hate to fall out the window of his car. I know, completely weird and random, right? That's what I thought anyway. But when I asked him what he was talking about, he started talking about how nascar drivers have to get in and out of the cars through the window and how he would hate to fall out the window. Just say anything that goes through your mind. At least it will give you something to laugh about with him.
Hope this helped!
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ok im 13/f and i dont want you to think that im a freak but lately i have been having these really weird dreams and they are about girls making out and having sex.
last night was the seconds time that this has happned. i dont like girls. i like guys. what is wrong with me? (link)
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Don't worry, this is perfectly normal. I don't know if this helps at all, but scientists have found that young women are turned on by other women who are turned on. So basically, when you're around someone that is turned on, it is natural for you to become aroused also. It's caused by pheremones and does in no way mean that you like girls in that way.
Hope this finding makes you feel better about your dreams!
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A few months ago I developed a rash between my breasts and on the top of my stomach. It was really itchy, but wasn't that red or severe. I figured I got it from a combination of the tanning bed and my acne medication. I stopped taking the acne medication and took a little break from tanning. The rash eventually went away.
A few weeks ago I started going tanning again. It was all good and then a couple of days ago I started feeling a little itchiness. Today I went tanning and it looks like the rash is back...and feels like it too. I'm no longer on the acne medication, and the only thing I'm taking is birth control.
I'd just accept that it was the tanning, but a couple years ago I went tanning for a whole month or so and had NO problems with rashes or anything. I'm thinking maybe it could be caused by dry skin because that area is very dry on me. Is that possible?
Either way, is there any other solution to get rid of the rash (other than stopping tanning) that anyone can think of? I mean, if this is happening in the tanning bed, it will probably happen in the sun. I've never had problems like that in the sun and I'm not becoming ghost white and slathering on layers of sunblock every time I go in the sun this summer.
Also, I know tanning is bad. I'm only doing it this month to get color to avoid burning when I go to the beach. No lectures required here. (link)
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It probably is just dry skin and the heat from the tanning bed could cause it to become even drier. So use a thick skin cream on the area to relieve dryness. You may want to use a little extra before you go tanning.
Hope this helps!
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17 years old
I had a job before and it was really easy to get. I just turned in an application and someone called me the same day. I had to quit though.
Now I want a new job. I've turned in 4 applications, and it's been about 2-3 weeks since and no one has called. I've applied at Eckerds, 2 Dollar Trees, and a clothes place.
I don't want to sound lazy, but I want a job that's easier than most. I don't want to work at a movie theater, restaurant, or grocery store. I'm really interested in hotels and travel, so I went to local gift shops, but none of them are hiring.
What do you think I should do? (link)
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Persist. If the employer hasn't called you within two to three weeks, go back and talk to the manager to see if they have hired anybody yet. If they haven't hired anyone, ask if you can apply in person. Employers most often hire people they interact with before they hire someone they only know from a piece of paper. Even if places aren't hiring, ask if you can fill out an application in case they hire in the future. That way, you'll know first when they are hiring and will get first dibs on the job.
Good luck on the job hunt!
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what are some funny but to the point messages that i can record on my cell phone?
any websites?
thx!! (link)
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Here are some websites:
http://www.ahajokes.com/funny_answering_machine_messages.html
http://www.digitaldreamdoor.com/pages/quotes/answermach.html
http://www.phonelosers.com/answering_machines/
Or you can type in 'funny answering machine recordings' into Google. It has an entire list.
Hope this helps!
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okay so i have been with this guy for awhile and ni love him and he loves me etc.... but suddenly he just ignores me and we never talk. he says he doesnt know and hes 'in a funk' he doesnt even know if he loves me anymore.
This was so sudden and he's been like this for over a week.
what do i do? (link)
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Well, first of all, you can't just turn love off with a switch. Either he still loves you, or he never did.
He could actually be 'in a funk' where he's just really confused about his life and everything that's going on. He may just be stressed out about school, his parents, etc.
Give him a little space and if he ever did love you in the first place, he'll want another shot. If you have such strong feelings for him you should give him one.
Teenage boys are often mistaking their feelings for something else so giving him his needed space will help him realize what he really wants.
He needs to figure out if you're really what he wants or if he wants to let you go.
But make sure you set a specified time length or he could leave you hanging. If he still hasn't asked for another chance by that time, talk to him. And if he still says he needs space or time, cut your losses and cut him loose.
You'll be better off knowing where you stand with him. He doesn't need to string you along if it's not what he really wants.
Your feelings are worth more than that. Believe that.
Hope this helps!!
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16/f...hes 17
*LONG...SORRY...BUT NEED HELP*
okay so i feel like no one...no guy in this world will ever like me enough to actually try for me...to actually take their time and give some to me to show me that they actually like me and want to be with me...i always feel like im bothering someone or im not good enough for them...i know i dont try too hard but i know its not that im not trying enough...i definitly try...
i feel ike if i dont text first or call first or instant message first...then nothing will go ANYWHERE...i know this guy likes me because we got sort of "set up" from my friend tim who is also dating my best friend jen...you see...tim used to be best friends with this kid dave
and it staretd out with me dating dave and tim dating jen and it was so awesome cuase me and jen were best friends and tim and dave were best friends and it was just so awesome....then dave suddenly changed to just went through all this stuff in his life and lost me, his girlriend, tim, his longlonglong time best friend and a lot more...but i had some hang ups about him...i felt as though he never just "tried" hard enough...i mean i know its a joint effort but i feel like im doing all the work all the time!...while tim started out crushing on jen and then me and dave met through that...timjust showed jen so much more. he would text her all the time and IM her and little things like that which showed her he really liked and was interested in her while dave was a little slow with that....well a lot slow...but now were over but this other guy is a friend of tim's also and he is just SUCH a good guy...a way bvetter guy than dave and i really feel ike i had to go through all the pain with dave just to get me to him because this other guy is really sweet...
i knew him a little becuase hes been friends with tim and dave for a long time but i never really got to know him until last sunday and we hit it off great and kissed and he is just such a genuine sweet guy
then we hung out friday, saturday, and sunday this weekend and were making out and holding hands and getting close and being cute and flirting and he called me a lot during this past week before the weekend...tim and jen tell me he likes me and is def interested in me....and i know he wouldnt lead me on...and he, including me, is not the kind of person to rush into a relationship...but i def want one with him....i know he was talking to another girl before me but stopped like the weekend before we started talking...he said it wasnt that things didnt work out...just that they stopped talking and stuff cause he was just really busy and had a lot going on and didnt see her and stuff...i know hje doesnt like her like that anymore and stuff but im just scared that that will happen to us. we dotn go to the same school but he does drive...and he doesnt go to school...hes done with high school and is starteing college in the fall......
i saw him sunday then texted him monday and he didnt answer then i IMED him sying..where are you! i miss you! and i came back later and saw that he answered later on saying awww....but i was away...then i came back and said HEY! and he never answered and it didnt say he was idle or away or anything which is always says....then when i comment him on myspace he doesnt comment back but hell comment someone else back...
i just want to feel worthy enough for someone...i want to be able to sit back just even for ONE day and have someone try for ME and take time out of their day for ME...
i dont get it...i know hes not the type to "play" girls and stuff....and i heard from tim whos like his bets rfiend that he does like me and its evident when we're together...i just dont get the whole thing....if he was really crushing on me wouldnt he text me and do those cute little things like text goodm orning or say sometrhing cute when im in school or leave me cute IMS or SOMETHING?
why do i have to do it first?
and now yesterday he didnt even answer me....
and it sucks a lot this time cause i REALLY REALLY like him....i cant even explain how much i do...more than any guy ive ever liked...and i dated dave for 6 months and i feel like this new guy knows more about me and i know more about him than when dating dave....i just know hes a really good guy and im a great person too...
HELP!
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It's not that you're not trying hard enough, you're trying too hard and acting a little desperate. Look, after seeing him on Sunday and then telling him you missed him one day later makes a guy think you're desperate for attention or a boyfriend, especially after only knowing you a short time. I'm not saying play hard to get exactly, just be a little coy. You do not need to know where he is at all times. You do not need to text him and IM him every second every day just because you're not doing anything else. When you act 'needy' which is what the above statement basically screams, guys lose interest. He doesn't want to be your lifeline, he wants to be your boyfriend. He doesn't want to feel like you're going to fall apart and start crying the minute he cancels plans with you to hang out with the guys he's abandoned for two weeks.
Have a life! When he sees that you can have a life without him, he'll want a life with you.
Hope that helped!
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i just started for the 1st time last month. and it's been over 35 days and i haven't bled or anything! All i'm getting is the clear stuff [i guess that's called discharge...not sure.] well i keep getting worried it's just going to burst out and i'm not going to know its coming. Is it just irregular? and sticking a tampon up there..not being on my period would it do any damage? (link)
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Since you have only had one period before it is perfectly normal not to be on a regular cycle. It probably wouldn't be a good idea to use a tampon when you're not on your period. It would most likely be uncomfortable when you take it out and may even hurt because it isn't saturated. If you're afraid of starting at an embarassing time, use panty liners. You'll be able to feel when you start, so you can excuse yourself and go to the bathroom to insert a tampon then.
Hope this helped!
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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. they are making him pay for a new car and he is grounded for like a month and i keep telling him that i will tell them but he wont listen to me what should i do (link)
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If he honestly doesn't want you to tell them, then don't. But you should talk to him about paying him back for the car your parents are making him pay for. Set up a payment plan with him. If you have a job, give him some percent of your paycheck. He may not accept your offer to tell your parents the truth, but he may accept your offer to pay him back for the car you totalled.
Hope this helped!
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okay first off im 14/f.
so i masturbate alot..
and i mean i can get myself "happy" (you kno what i mean) but i do not orgasim.
i mean its to the point were i kinda am and kinda not.
is there anything i can do//use to make it even better.
i mean i orgasim when my boyfriend fingers me and stuff.
but for some reasson cant give myself one.
anyone have any thing i can try (link)
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When you finger yourself, tap your clitoris with your thumb. Just a light tapping or even light rubbing may help a bit to get you past 'happy'.
Hope I could be of help!
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OK, the reason I said that I don't know what to do is very simple. I'm bi, and I kow the guy I like (we'll call him Seth) is bi. The reason I don't know if I should ask him out is because our other friend is also bi. Well, he likes Seth, but Seth won't go out with him because they live on seperate continents. Me and Seth live only three hours away from each other, and I want to ask him out. The only problem is the other guy gets really mad at Seth and the person he goes out with (in that case would be me). I dont know, should I ask him out or should I just let it go. This may help, I am a 15/m, and Seth is turning 15 in October (my birthday already passed). Thanks in advance! (link)
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You should just ask Seth out. Three hours away is a helluva lot shorter than an entire continent away. The other guy should be happy that Seth is happy if he really likes him.
Hope this helps!
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my boyfriend and my one year is coming up quick! like in 2 weeks i need ideas of what to get him!! i never thought it would be this hard. i made him a scrapbook for valentines day and i'm continuing it with more pictures.. but what else? i've already done the picture frame thing so any unique ideas?? (link)
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Make a book with all the email, letters, notes, etc. that you have given and received. You can add pictures and quotes from him and you to it.
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Okay well theres this guy well he's actually my best friend "JeremY". And i really wanna know if he likes me. He walks with me home and pushes me all the time and he always seems to try to get me as close to him as possible, He looks into my eyes when we talk and we dont really talk all that much but we do mess around alot and kinda hang on eachother. Do you think this means anything?
It doesnt really fit under love life but i really really like him! and need to know if i should do anything? if you think he likes me what do you suggest i do? (link)
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Well, he either likes you or is just a really affectionate person. If you're the only one he acts this way with, then it's probably the former. If you like him back, just give him a smack on the lips and hope he kisses back.
Hope that helps!
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ok so my boyfriend didnt call me for 2 days and
he didnt give me any explination. he just said that he was busy but that he really loves me. also, he started telling me something about his friend and he said wow see i have nothing to talk about with you so i have to talk about my friend. that got me really angry, any input on this? also, he said i have so many things to say but no one to talk to. so i got really hurt like how can he tell me this? how can i get him to open up to me like what should i say to him. i already told him if he needed anything that he can always count on me becase i love him but i dont know what to say im just so mad and i just need advice what should i do? break up with him? help (link)
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Well, first, two days is not that long for someone not to call you. Second of all, it's not like he got pissed at you because you didn't call him for two days, which you could have. You should not break up with your boyfriend just because of this. When you talk to your boyfriend every single day for hours, it leaves nothing to talk ABOUT but the same old thing over and over. Going for two days in between phone conversations will give you something to talk about when you do talk. Furthermore, if you want to talk to your boyfriend and he hasn't called you, then call HIM. If you don't put equal effort into the relationship, he's going to find someone who will.
Hope that helped!!
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DO the boys have to wear anything when girls give them blow job or is it just straight penis?
thankss (link)
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They make flavored condoms just for that purpose. He should wear a condom if you want to be protected from STD's or if you have a cold sore because you could infect him.
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Sorry about the catagory. Had no idea what to put this under. I was just wondering if anyone who has had experiences with getting a bikini wax? If so, how bad does it hurt? How often do you have to get them done? Any info you can give me would be a help.
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Okay, pull out one hair on your bikini area. It hurt right? Well imagine a thousand of them being pulled out all at once. It feels like they're pulling the skin off. But make sure you don't get it done within a week of your period or it will hurt more. Rub some orajel (numbs a babies gums when they're teething) on the area about twenty or thirty minutes before you get it done. Make sure after you rub it in and it's numb you wipe with a warm wet washcloth so you don't get an infection. It won't completely numb the pain, but it will dull it so it doesn't hurt as bad.
Hope that helped!
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I'm a sophomore and so is the guy I like...and so its a long story, but I'll make it as short as possible...a couple of weeks ago, i added this boy to myspace. i had seen him at school before looking at me and stuff...anyways, so he messaged me and we started talking...we talked on myspace and then AIM and then he gave me his number over AIM and told me to text him. so i did and yeah...he's basically told me he has a crush on me and i basically told him i had a crush on him. well, we still don't really talk at school, only online and texting. We usually say hi to each other when we see one another, but thats about it. So today at lunch he saw me passing with my friend and said "where are you guys going?" and i just smiled and shrugged [ugh, i know. soooooo stupid] and he goes "oh. i see how it is" and then just sorta laughed and kept looking at me. [ah, i feel so dumb]. and so then right before the end of 5th period i texted him asking if we could talk after class. he said "why?" and i said "just cuz". after class, i went outside and didnt see him, so i just left to my other class [again, yeah, i'm stupid] and he texted me and said "thnks for waiting?" and i said that i hadnt seen him and i thought he didnt want to talk. so he goes "wow ok". and yeah...now i just feel really really dumb. sorry this is so long, but i really want to know if i sound retarded [lol] and i want to know how to fix it...i REALLY want to talk to him at school, but there's always a lot of people around. either his friends or my friends are with us, and i feel dumb, but i know i need to get over it. HELP!? (link)
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Okay, you didn't sound stupid exactly, just sort of nervous. If you want my opinion, which you obviously do, since you already know that you both like each other, why don't you just ask him out. He already said he had a crush on you, so of course he would want to get to know you better. Ask him out, either in person, in text, email or aim. Just don't be a chicken and do it.
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i heard that if you wash your hair in cold water in the shower it makes it straight, is this true? (link)
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Cold water doesn't actually straighten your hair. If it did, it would straighten in the rain. It does, however, make it glossier, if that helps.
Well, hope that answers your question.
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