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masturbating.
okay first off im 14/f.
so i masturbate alot..
and i mean i can get myself "happy" (you kno what i mean) but i do not orgasim.
i mean its to the point were i kinda am and kinda not.
is there anything i can do//use to make it even better.
i mean i orgasim when my boyfriend fingers me and stuff.
but for some reasson cant give myself one.
anyone have any thing i can try
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The thing with orgasms is that they happen on their own and naturally. You cannot force it to happen. It just comes on its own.
Thinking to yourself while engaging in this activity that you must have one or trying to push things so you'll have one won't work. It will make it even harder to experience one as a result.
We cannot give you techniques as that gets you banned around here for very good reasons. If you are able to have an orgasm when with your boyfriend try and think about the things you were thinking about when he was fingering you.
If you think about those things that turn you on in that situation and apply them here and forget about having an orgasm entirely you'll no doubt experience one.
The other thing is that a lot of people start/stop what they are doing when engaged in this activity before climaxing and that can help as all that tension that is backed up gets released in orgasm .
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When you finger yourself, tap your clitoris with your thumb. Just a light tapping or even light rubbing may help a bit to get you past 'happy'.
Hope I could be of help!
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mm. maybe pay attention to what your bf is doing.
and copy him. since you orgasm from that.
and ive read somewhere that some women just cant orgasm on there own.
its perfectly normal.
hope i could help (:
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