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I Dont Know what to do anymore
okay so i have been with this guy for awhile and ni love him and he loves me etc.... but suddenly he just ignores me and we never talk. he says he doesnt know and hes 'in a funk' he doesnt even know if he loves me anymore.
This was so sudden and he's been like this for over a week.
what do i do?
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dump him treat him like CA-CA-DO-DO....WATCH HOW FAST HE LEARNS WHAT HE WANTS!!!!!!!!!WHEE AINT LOVE GRAND?????????????????????????
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Well, first of all, you can't just turn love off with a switch. Either he still loves you, or he never did.
He could actually be 'in a funk' where he's just really confused about his life and everything that's going on. He may just be stressed out about school, his parents, etc.
Give him a little space and if he ever did love you in the first place, he'll want another shot. If you have such strong feelings for him you should give him one.
Teenage boys are often mistaking their feelings for something else so giving him his needed space will help him realize what he really wants.
He needs to figure out if you're really what he wants or if he wants to let you go.
But make sure you set a specified time length or he could leave you hanging. If he still hasn't asked for another chance by that time, talk to him. And if he still says he needs space or time, cut your losses and cut him loose.
You'll be better off knowing where you stand with him. He doesn't need to string you along if it's not what he really wants.
Your feelings are worth more than that. Believe that.
Hope this helps!!
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Well you may 'love' him,
but I'm almost positive he doesn't love you.
If someone has to question or "think" about if they love someone. Its not love at all.
Love is something you just know, as tacky as that sounds. You won't have to think about it, and despite moods you get in, you will still love that person. So if he's not even sure. Maybe a break would be good for you two?
I know its probably something you DON'T want to do. No one wants to. But dont settle for less than you deserve.
<3
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