ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what
pleez help!!!
maybe get bigger ones.. or wear a pad with the tampon.. much luv
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i am crazy about a boy at school but he dosent like me but we've been out before and i wanted him to give him another chance i just really like him to an obsession that i dont no what to do should i leave him
Well see if he'd like to go out with you.. and also maybe leave him alone if he says no and you will eventually get over this guy.. and you'll have somebody new you like..Much Luv
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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
love r
go for the 10th grader guy.. he probably more mature then the guy that hurt.. dont let this guy hurt you again then you end up wasting your time with it.. much luv~*DEZ*~
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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. but he today he touched me in the stomach and he was hugging me today once again. we are cuddling a lot does this mean anything?
He likes you and wants to be with you.. maybe if he gets his grades up ya'll will hook up.. maybe help him study lol and that could i guess kinda be like a first date.. much luv ~*DEZ*~
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well today i found out that my bestest friends mom doesn't like me because i wrote this story and she read it and she thought it was very inaproprete. now my bestest friend isn't aloud to come over to my house. what do i do?
Maybe talk to your mom and let her talk to your friends mom.. or you can go and talk to her about it.. and next time dont let your mom's friends read your stories..Much luv..~*DEZ*~
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ok, I'm falling so hard for a good friend of mine. I'm going crazy though, because he is so shy, and I can't seem to get him to "come out of his shell" and open up. I'm really sure that he likes me back too, it's just really hard to tell and he's SO shy. I'm afraid that if I confront him about all this I'll scare him off! What should I do!?!?! I REALLY need help,and I'll rate too!
Just be around him alot.. this guy will eventually come out of his shell and be more open.. and dont confront him exactly.. jus come out with it.. ask him why he acts so shy.. just talk bout it.. maybe do something kinda stupid so he knows its okay to be himself.. but dont do something that will scare him off and make him think your immature.. jus tell him he can act himself round you and dont have to be shy... but maybe this is that guys personality..Much Luv
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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?!
Wear your shoes who cares if she gets mad.. if there in style and you like em wear em anyways..Much luv ~*DEZ*~
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he always hugs me close and everything and i want to ask him out but not in a cute little flirty way like notes in locker or anything like that but i just dont want to be like hey dude i like you wanna go out ya know cuz he might think im weird or something so does anybody have any ideas that arnt all cute and flirty ? thanks
Jus be real with the guy.. and talk to him.. and tell him you like him.. you can be real.. you dont have to ask him out right away.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?
get her in rehab.. or take her alcohol from her.. much luv
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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
Ew nasty nasty first of all with the not shaving thing.. but thats your choice so i respect it.. makes since too tho.. but anyways might wanna black guy for that shit cause most black females dont shave anything and he probably wont mind.. much luv
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16 female. I really love my boyfriend but I'm kinda interested in this other boy that i met. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend for the other guy because im afraid that im going to lose him forever even his friendship. But i don't want to lead the other boy on. Some of my friends say i should choose the other boy and some of my friends say i should stay with my boyfriend. I need to know who i should choose. Please help.
Well if your just going to continue to like this other guy then maybe you aint ready for a stable relationship..but if you think your going to hurt this guy your with then dont even fuck wit it.. i mean dont mess something up thats good *if its a good relationship* and jus keep being friends with this other guy.. and just tell him that you wanna be freinds and that you have a boyfriend.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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See, ive liked this girl for a long time now, but i never got the urge to ask her out yet because i never get to see her much. just recently, i figured out she likes this other guy and shes probably the only girl ive ever liked in a while. yeah, sounds corny and sry for the longness, so now what should i do? it seems that i have nothing else to live for in this life and that im just wasitng space and air and food
No sounds like your wasting time on liking this girl... dont make it sound like your life is over this girl cause she most likely isnt worth it.. jus get out there and find a new girly.. dont get all like that cause you might not have a chance.. but some how try to see her and maybe try to be more her friend before anything else.. then see what happens from there...Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Im going to make this shrot I want to get him a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and i dont know if that is a good idea. I just want something that noone really does im not wierd or anything I just dont want the old hear is a box of chocolates happy valentines day i want a haha a cookie. funny. sort of memorable thing. But i still want it to be thoughtful. I was thinking a card, cookie, and a small box of chocolates. Dumb idea?
sounds good to me...sounds sweet.. good idea.. Much luv ~*DEZ*~
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my sister likes a guy and she doesn't know what to say to him. she talks about him constantly. and she never sees him anymore. should i tell her to move on and break her heart, or should i let her go on about him even though it bores me?
Jus be real with your sister before one day you get mad and bust out and tell her to shut up... so jus come out and tell her in a nice way before she drives you crazy with it..cause it will get old.. much luv ~*DEZ*~
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I asked this guy out. He said no cuz he can't date till he's 16. So, is there a chance that he likes me, but just can't date. Or is it one of those lines? He flirts with me, and a few people think he likes me, and his sister told me she thinks he does.
Well if this guy was like anyother guy he wouldnt obey and do what he wants anyways.. who says that anymore really.. i've never heard that a guy couldnt date til they was 16.. maybe a girl.. maybe he bullshittin but who knows.. he could be one dem boys that listen to what people say.. but just be friends for now i guess.. and except it..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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But like, today he was talkin to me some and smilin like he always does. and some days he dont talk to me but he will smile or nod. but he likes to put his arms around me like we go together and walk down the hall with me sometimes. and hes just really strange. if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
Ask him whats up with that.. ask him why he do that.. ask him how do he like you and why do he do that.. and ask him also why do sometimes he act fake and not talk to you.. Jus be real with this guy you deserve to know.. hope i helped..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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are sit ups or crunches good to do because I am skinny but I have really tiny love handles. I am 5'6 and weight 128 and I wanna get down to atleast 120 what can I do?
Well yea they are good.. but you also might want to watch what you eat.. eat healthy.. but um some love handles on girls make em look better.. but i hope i helped much luv..~*DEZ*~
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you see...i've known this guy since the summer..hes 3 years older then me but he always said it doesnt matter! he lives near me and we went before for about a week. and then i got grounded and couldnt see him or talk to him so he dumped me. after that we started fighting more and more. but everytime we would be friends again. it was no big deal but now its getting worse and ive liked him ever since the summer and there feelings wont seem to go away. i feel like he doesnt even like me. he already likes another girl but hes always saying that he will always have feelings for me and he does. and everytime we hang out all we do is kiss and stuff..but his profile and away messages always have different girls in them saying that he loves them and that hes always thinking about them! and when alot of people are around he doesnt even talk to me! it seems like hes using me but what could he be using me for?? i know your probably going to say for me to get over him and jsut stop talking to him but i cant! i really like him...i need to know what i should say to him or ask him i live right near him and hes also a really good friend and really fun person to talk too! so i dont know what to do i cant just STOP talking to him! but i like him more then a friend. and he says the same about me. we dont go to the same school but he hooked up with a couple of my friends weeks ago. one of them was one of my closest friends and he stopped talking to me and started talking to her.i was really jealous. and then he hooked up with my other friend and i was even more jealous but NOW hes talking to my other friend that I introduced him to! she said she wouldnt hook up with him but THAT was when she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend dumped her a few days ago and then she asked him to be her special and only valentine! and hes mine too...but he also has a valentine which is the girl he likes. i really need advice!! what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP! i cant stand it anymoree!! i rate!
Well you should get over him.. but you dont want to do that so you cant really just get over him.. its going to take time for that to happen.. its not going to happen over night.. im sorry that this is going on but maybe talk to him about how you feel.. and maybe your too young for him or something.. and maybe your friends like him too maybe you should talk to your friends too about this and how you feel about it but dont tell em that your jealous cause girls are always wanting drama and they'd probably do it even more.. but if you care bout this guy also you'd want him happy with or without going with you.. you'd let him be with who he wants.. and yes it will hurt if that happens.. but he apparently dont like you enough to want to be with you *not something you wanted to hear i know* but its tru.. if he liked you as much as he talks he'd be with you and chillin with you not your friends.. but i sould try to move on and talk to someother guy and see what happens from there.. i know i didnt help that much but i tried hun..~*DEZ*~ Much Luv
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my friends and I are popular. Recently a new friend entered our "group". She wasnt the most popular girl before lets say...well the point is, her grades were perfect before, and now shes with us they have gone lower. Her parents freaked out and she is not aloud to hangout with us as much outa school, untill they go up. She said she was happier with us and feels more apart of something. How can i still get her 2 have fun with us outa school and her parents not knowing?
- signed, trying to be a friend.
Um well you can get her sneak out.. or get her to lie and say she going to the libray and meet up with ya'll.. but maybe help her with her work that would be nice too.. but anyways tried to help..Much Luv
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Okay, I know this guy that I think I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He's always flirting with me one day, and then the next day he's just ignoring me and talking to somebody else (or sleeping in class). Should I say something to him about what I think is going on, or should i just forget about him,hes just another guy.
Yea i would forget him.. but maybe he's too tired to mess with you so he dont.. but tell him how it is and ask him if he likes you.. dont let him do you like that hun.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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