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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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does sex for the first time hurt? does it hurt just the first time or every time? and is there a way to prevent the pain if it is painful?

It is going to hurt the first time, but if you do foreplay before hand, then the pain eases. It's best if you have your boyfriend finger you before, then to have sex. It won't hurt so much then. And when you have sex in the future, it won't hurt.

whats an orgy? or an orgy party?

An orgy is 2 or more couples having sex at the same time at the same place.

how they have sex? i was wondering that the other day...lol

They use dildo's & have oral sex.

What are some common personality disorders?

Also, What is it when a person is there real self, but in their mind they are someone different and pretend things?

Thanks.

And I believe it's schizophrenia when someone is normal, but is another person when it comes to their mind.

This could've easily been googled however. You should try that next time.

is being able to sing well something that you have to be born with, or is it something you can be taught?

thanks!

It's both. Most people are born with it, but it can also be taught to someone who doesn't sing well.

Personally, I'm a soprano [I have a high voice], and that's a natural thing for me. It always has been.

So it's both.

Hi, I have virgin mobile. and my phone shuts itself down and then turns back on randomly. its always done this and my sister has this phone also and hers does not do this. now its also deleting all my inbox texts, and not letting me send txts really. and it just froze a second ago, and i had to shut it down, but it wouldn't at first. whats going on with my phone? its a switchback.

Have you dropped your phone a lot? If so, it's probably from the damage from dropping it & it now just caught up with you.

If you haven't dropped it, it may just be old [I'm not sure how long you've had it], but that could be it. Maybe take it to the store & ask someone about it. If they don't know what's going on, you may be able to buy a new one.

i'm sort scared that my boyfriend and i are growing apart and if i do talk to him,not much changes.i just want to know if breking up with him is what i should do.i wana stay together but i also want to do whats best for us.i just don't know what that is...

If you don't see things changing or getting better anytime soon, then your best bet would be to split. If you can't fix your relationship, why stay in it? It's a waste of time to both of you.

to guys like the happy trail on girls. im asking as a majority of guys, i know every guy is different but im just wondering

I doubt it. Most guys I know prefer hairless girls. The only place for a girl to have hair is on her head, eyebrows, & eyelashes.

I'm looking for a crash bandicoot tee shirt, I tried google and didn't find anything. Does anyone know where I could find one? I'd like to avoid ebay if possible. Thank you for any help.

You actually may be able to get one at Hot Topic. They have shirts with Ninja Turtles & whatnot, so I don't see why they wouldn't have a Crash Bandicoot Tee. Check there.

basically i suck at holding a conversation. whenever i talk to someone, i come up short for things to talk about. and when i do talk, its usually about something boring lol. so what im asking is for advice on how to create conversation and keep it going so im not boring. thank you!

Talk about:
- Music.
- Sports.
- Movies.
- School.
- Friends.
- Family.
- TV.
- Life.
- Personal Interests.

There's a lot of things to talk about with each of those subjects, so there'll never not be anything to talk about.

Most of the time i give my bf blow jobs and wen he cums i let him do it on my face but lately he has been wanting me 2 swallow it and i have never tasted it and im afraid it will be disgusting and i will throw up everywhere so are there any ways i can practice swallowing cum. thanks in advance (14,f)

Just sallow it. You're gonna have to do it sooner or later, so just do it now. If you get sick, then don't do it anymore.

okay so im a 16/f and my school is going to start on august 27th. and im going to be a junior. okay so at my school i get made fun of alot for being skinny and because i have alot of hair on my arms, legs, armpits. i mean its not like i don't shave or anything. i wax it but it grows back. and because i have alot of hair and im soo skinny thats why alot of people don't like me. its becuase i don't fit in. but i don't care about fiting in, i just want to have a group of friends to hang out with. i want to go back to school knowing that i have friends. but alot of people at my school are fake, do drugs/sex. and all that stuff. i mean how do i make friends when no one even wants to talk to me because im the school loser?

Join a club or do a sport or something. Clubs & sports are easy access to making friends.

If people don't accept you for who you are, you shouldn't wanna be friends with them anyways. Just be yourself though. Start shaving & waxing & do what makes you happy.

First of all, I am Gina and im almost 15 years old. I have a boyfriend of almost 2 months. He lives 60 miles away from me. I am a girl and i am straight. I want to tell my mom that i had sex with him, but she would flip. I know that i shouldnt lie to her, but i want to see him again. How can i tell her that i did?
PLEASE help....

"Mom, I had sex."

Does anyone here have permantely(sp?)straight hair aka chemically straight hair?

i want to ask you some questions

I don't. I was thinking about it, but this girl who works at a salon told me it ruins your hair, so I honestly don't recommend it. Your best bet is to just straighten it like you usually would.

I know cartlige piercings take around 8 weeks to fully heal.
But does anyone know if chlorine water or salt water will do damage to the healing process?

Nope, it won't.

I pierced my own, & went swimming & it didn't do anything to them, so you should be fine.

I need help on how to deal with being labelde as a whore because im still a virgin

You can't be a whore if you've never had sex.

13/f
my bf wants to finger me, and i was wondering after we get naked(do we do that?)
wat position do i go into for him to finger me?
thx

You basically just lay there.

Also, just to be safe -- make sure you're ready for this. I know you're thinking "it's only fingering, we're not gonna have sex." but that isn't true. Foreplay & lots of other things can lead to sex & 13 is really too young to be doing any of that. Doing things like this can be regretted when done at an early age, so really think this through & make sure you're ready.

OK so i'm almost 14 i take choir at school and drinking dairy products lowers your voice like your vocal range you can go as high and i usualy drink alot of milk so i was wondering if anyone knows how i can make it so i can go higher when i sing ????

Drink water. or ask your vocal/choir teacher what drinks are good for your voice. They would know.

I'm sorry I didn't re-answer you when you asked this in the feedback. You can edit the question but it doesn't notify the questioner, so they don't usually know if you edited it or not.

im already pretty skinny but i would like to get my abs and my legs toned. how can i specifically do this? all i have in mind is crunches... thank youuu

Crunches are good. I'm not sure whether you're a guy or a girl, but my guess is that you're female.

I'm not sure if you're into skateboarding, but it's a good sport that helps to get abs. There's so much bending down with the tricks & whatnot, that you end up building abs & fairly quickly.

Other than that, do crunches & try not to eat junk food so much. Drink water/milk & maybe do some lunges.

what are some good things to keep a convo going with a guy? just some easy topics i guess. not like stupid ones just ones you'd normally talk to with a guy. thanks!

Here are some topics you'd discuss with a guy to keep the conversationg going:

- Cars. [Talk about your favourite types.]
- Friends. [Do you have the same ones?]
- Movies. [Ask him what movies he's interested in seeing.]
- Music. [Ask who his favourite band/artist is.]
- Food. [Ask his favourite food.]
- Sleep. [Do either of you like/love sleeping?]
- Family. [Ask about his favourite cousins or something.]
- School. [Do you like it? What's your favourite class?]
- Summer Plans. [Ask what he plans to do this summer?]
- Interests. [Talk about everything both of you like in general.]

There's lots of topics to discuss when talking with a guy, you've just gotta think of them. And it's not usually hard.

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