How can I keep my boyfriend attracted to me? Like wanting to hang out with me, basically NOT wanting to break up with me? I know be myself, but I always fear he wants to break up. I don't know why, it seems we're spending less time together. Help?
If you keep worrying about him breaking up with you, you'll never fully enjoy the time you DO have with him. Plus, he'll notice and think youre clingy and he might break up with you for being so scared of him breaking up with you. IF THAT MAKES SENSE? haha. Im just saying, its going to end eventually, but why think about it? If you think things are getting a little rough, try to do something REALLY spontanious. Keep the spark alive, like its the first date. Take him somewhere interesting like a fancy dinner and get all dolled up for him. Be sexy and cute and act like you just met him. Ha :] Hope that helps.
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How does someone know when they get closure (not feeling as if they have to keep posting and reposting their problems) concerning their problem(s)on a site like this
I think someone reaches closure when they feel at peace with whatever their problem is. They can finally feel past it and they are able to move on and keep going in life. Im kind of confused at what youre asking, so I hope that helps :]
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With a musical theatre audition coming up: I'm looking for ways to improve my performance skills. It's at my highschool that has an outstanding program and although I've been casted in two of the plays as ensemble, I feel like my position was a last resort for the director. I'm a weak dancer and just very unusual with my movements, yet for auditions I'm convinced that I present myself well and characterize to an extreme. What are some risks I could take to let the director know I'm really serious about being casted?
Im also into musical theatre. Know that its very competitive, especially if you go to a high school with an outstanding program! The only way youre going to stand out is if youre really good. And the only way to be really good is to PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. Youve heard it over + over, but its true! Watch movies that are also musicals. Try to teach yourself dance moves. Maybe you could make friends with some of the other people that are trying out and ask them to teach you a thing or two. You could really learn a lot that way. Practice characterization (becoming the character) in the mirror or to your parents, stuffed animals, anyone that will listen to you. Speak loud and clear during your audition and show a lot of confidence! Also, show you really want to be there. Come to the audition ontime, and be very serious during the audition so he takes YOU seriously.
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well im not fat i weight 49.1 kg and liike im ok not to fat adn not skinny but i hate my flabs like they arent that bad but i want to lose them adn im to lazy to go excercis and i want to make my thighs a liitle bit thinner plz give me some tips
xOo =]
Okay, please dont listen to the person below me. DIET PILLS ARE DANGEROUS. Most arent approved by the FDA and have so many deadly things in them. (cough, Ephedrine.) So, dont do it please! The only way to lose weight is to cut out all the junk food out of your diet. Also, I know youre too lazy to excercise, but its the only way youre going to lose the thighs. Even if you eat healthy, those thighs will go NOWHERE if you dont run or do something. P.S. excercise doesnt have to be such a horrible thing. Put on music and dance crazy (thats excercise, too!) Or try to find a workout you like. Get a trainer. Or a membership to the gym. If it means so much to you to lose weight, you have to put the laziness aside. :]
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How do you look more feminine?
I'm not talking about clothes or anything related.
I'm talking about the face. Any makeup tips or hair styles (heart or oval shaped). Eyebrow shapes? PICTURES PLEASE.
Every time I look in the mirror.. I don't feel or look like a woman.. even though I have C cup boobs and whatnot.
It's just my face that's bothering me. I was never mistaken for a boy .. I don't know what's wrong with me.
Well, girls faces are usually very cleaned up. Im glad you mentioned eyebrows!
Heres some tips on eyebrows:
Here's How:
1. Pick a natural light source for your tweezing.
2. Place a warm washcloth over brows for 5 - 10 minutes.
3. Exfoliate brow with a washcloth to help free up any (potential) ingrown hairs.
4. Pull skin taut and remove offending hairs as close to the root as you can AND in the direction of the growth.
5. Close pores with an astringent when you have completed the session.
It should be like an arch, starting at the beginning of your eye to a little past the end of your eye. Not too thin eiether!
To look more feminine, you should also wear makeup, obviously. Dont go too heavy at first if youre not used to wearing it. Essentials: Foundation, blush, lip gloss, eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara.
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(my chest)
im super flat,its not even funny. how do you get bigger boobs, without getting plastic surgery and such. is there anything natural you can do?
and please don't say i should just accept myself, and live with it.
Theres no magic way to get bigger breasts without plastic surgery of course and Im pretty flat too, so I know why its annoying to have people say "JUST accept and LOVE yourself." blah, blah, blah. Truthfully, the way to get boobs is to gain weight. But then of course you gain weight EVERYWHERE. Arms, stomach, legs. But still, gaining 10 pounds will definitely give you some more breast! When you gain weight, your breasts are the first noticeable place, luckily. Also, if that doesnt work, theres always a bra. Bras are key - the right one that is. I love push-up bras because for flat chested people you can really look like you have a lot there! Also, layering shirts can make the appearance of bigger breasts. Ive also heard of "natural bras", theyre usually clear plastic or tan and they look like shoulder pads except theyre meant to go in your bra and give you extra stuffing. Hope that helps you.
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hi, i need a nickname for my boyfriend. if you need some information about him, here it is. he's soooo sweet, he calls me babe, cutie and, hun. he's like the most perfect guy ever! but we dont officially go out yet, he hasn't asked me out. but we talk about everything, and he says he really likes me and i know thats true, and i like him too.he also says that he's falling in love with me. so, plz, can u give me a nickname for him? p.s, i know this is too much info about him, but i needed to get it off of my chest!
thankx, bye!
i'm 14 and a girl.
Sweetie.
Muffin.
Dear.
Bear.
Cuddle bunny. (hahaha)
Baby.
Babe.
Hun.
Cutie pie.
Cutie.
Yeah, sorry if those are wicked/too corny :]
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whats an orgasm?
simple answer: Climax a man OR woman reaches during sex or masturbation.
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I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind.
I have the same problem! Its probably because youre not busy. (I eat when Im bored all the time. Bad habit.) And Ive found that if I keep myself busy, food becomes less of a constant want. I was about to say need, but you dont NEED the food. You need food, but you dont need chocolate ice cream, a bag of chips and 3 yodles. ;] ha. You can keep busy by excercising, hanging out with a friend, taking a walk, dancing, listening to music - ANYTHING that interests you. And try to stear clear of the kitchen of course. Try to mentally tell yourself you dont need it, youre just craving the TASTE and remind yourself its a proven fact cravings subside after 15 minutes! So wait it out.
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hey..does anyone know the diet Beyonce went on to lose weight for her move "dream girls"...i remember her saying it on a variety of talkshows but i cant remembre the specific name
thanks
I went on a website and got an actual quote from Beyonce about her diet to lose weight for "Dream Girls."
Speaking at the Cannes Film Festival Beyonce told the Mirror: “It was so difficult, I was starving for six months but I made it through.
“I fasted. I literally fasted. I drank a drink that gave me all the vitamins I needed and I didn’t eat for fourteen days and then I just drank protein shakes. I was hard, I felt weak, but I did it.
BUT..I wouldnt suggest it because..
She added: “It wasn’t healthy, though."
So basically, think of another way to lose weight, PLEASE!
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I'm 14 and I have a problem when talking to boys. Whenever I see guys checking me out, I get really nervous and run away and hide until he goes away.
But if I ever do get the chance to talk to a boy, my mind goes blank, and I can't think of anything to talk about except my cat. I'm always a weird, annoying dullard around guys, even though I'm not like that at all around other people.
How can I get over this and behave normally around guys, like other girls?
Me too. :] I guess I just try to think of guys as NORMAL people. Theyre nothing special, just human! Try to talk to boys as you would talk to girls or your friends. Just be laid back and relax, dont stress. Its when you think too hard about how youre going to act that you say something stupid. Try to plan things to say before you go up to a guy to try to talk. That way your mind wont go totally blank. And stay calm!
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I have a friend that says why dwell on the past (such as negative comments that were made, anything that upsets you) when the present and the future will bring so much joy. Do you agree with what my friend says and what is your reason for agreeing or disagreeing?
I definitely agree. Whats in the past is in the past and theres nothing you can do to change it. Dwelling on it will just drag you down and make you depressed. If someone says something about you, its easier to just forget about it and shake it off and keep moving forward! Live for whats in the future, not the past.
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http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y170/ForBiddenKiss09/random%20and%20symbols/symboldc.jpg
whats that?? ive been seeing it everywhere..
SU-FI (super finger) started by my hero, Dane Cook. :]
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this isn't a question, it's a request-but please don't delete it.
Can people please stop finishing every answer with "hope i helped" obviously you hope you helped, and whether you say that or not doesn't change whether you actually DID help. please, for everyones sake just answer the question!
You obviously have OCD. Rate me a 1, I dont care. I know you will. Its just is it really a big deal? I say it, and I do it to be nice. Its better than just leaving the answer bland. Its nice to close it with a "hope I helped." I agree its annoying, deal with it.
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i keep hearing this song and i love it.
its on that nike and ipod nano commercial thing and it's called "Here it goes again"
whats the artist?
Here it goes again by OK GO.
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hey wat are sum ways to masturbate
um, are you a boy or a girl? just go to this website: www.mymasturbation.com
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I have a boyfriend that i "like." i've been going out with him for a month. And even though he understands my beliefs and opinions, I'm starting to feel that we are more likefriends. But the problem is, i've recently met a guy who i could see actually being with. But he thinks my religion his as he puts it "Bulls__t". Should I dump my understanding boyfriend for my new possible lover?
Well, the second guy sounds like a jerk. I think the first guy is really nice and to understand you and your beliefs is rare, so treasure it. If it were me, I would hold on to him. Also, sometimes friendships turn into relationships. If not, at least you'll always have someone there. Forget about the second guy - he sounds like a jerk. ♥
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i've had sex once
when i have it again
even though i popped my cherry the first time
could i still bleed the second time?
and will it hurt again
wb :) xo
It really depends on the person and what happened during sex. You will probably still bleed a little, just not as much. But maybe not. But theres a bigger chance it will hurt. Its only your second time.
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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair?
Hey, Im probably going to give you a really long answer (Sorry for that) because Im 15/f with red hair, too! :] I think redheads in pop, teen culture like movies are portrayed as fat, frizzy hair, braces, freckles, glasses, etc. And the pretty popular girls have straight, blonde hair. I dont know why people make a big deal out of red hair, Im sure youre gorgeous. I think older people appreciate it more unfortunately, though. Kids in my school almost never compliment my hair (its like a curse) but older people always do. And when youre older and out of highschool, guys will think its hot! Right now, they want what everyone else wants. (Jessica Simpson, Jessica Alba) So, pretty much anyone who doesnt fit that category is out. I dont think redheads have a celebrity to be their idol. Theres sooo many blondes and theres sooo many brunettes. But, the red heads are like Debra Messing, who I love but shes what, 40? & Lindsay Lohan who is always ditching her red hair for blonde or black. Guys are afraid to be different and as much as you dont think, they care about what their friends think. So, if they tell their friends theyre going out with a redhead, he's afraid they'll be like, "Ew. Firecrotch." Even though they probably wont! I think that guy is shallow, and Id call him out on it when you see him (If youre comfortable to.) Ask him why youre hair color matters. Im sorry this happened..its happened to me many times. But I KNOW in the end redheads WIN. :] Our hair color is rare and when youre old, everyone wants to suddenly look different. Plus, the best part, red hair color stays longer. My dad is a redhead and he is 53 with only a LITTLE gray. I hope you feel better. ♥
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theres this boy I like and he likes me and we've been talking.
I'm feel awkward about how jealous I get when he talks to other girls.
I never go up to him and complain about it because I know its not like that.
But,I've known him for a long time now and I just really love him but I hate these other girls who talk to him.
is this is big problem or what?
because I hate feeling like that.
Its another reason because I know these girls like him so I kinda just want to hit them or something hahaha like I wouldn't do that but i just feel like it.
:/.
Anything to help me stop from being like this?
Haha, no worries. Its TOTALLY normal to be jealous..when you like someone a lot the reality that you cant just have them because theres competition out there can be really, um, sad and scary. Unfortunately, the reality is theres always going to be other girls around, even if you were going out with him! Just try to make yourself stand out from the other girls. Try to be unique and different from all of them. I know its hard, but you have to forget about the other girls. If its meant to be and he likes you, it will happen no matter how many girls are hitting on him. ♥
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