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How should i choose?
I have a boyfriend that i "like." i've been going out with him for a month. And even though he understands my beliefs and opinions, I'm starting to feel that we are more likefriends. But the problem is, i've recently met a guy who i could see actually being with. But he thinks my religion his as he puts it "Bulls__t". Should I dump my understanding boyfriend for my new possible lover?
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If you don't like this guy then why have a relationship with I guy you don't like? Tell him you see him as a friend. But I say don't go for the second guy he he dosn't like your religion then he's not the right guy for you. Just talk to other guys and you might see something great about them and then you might find yourself falling for them!
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Well, if you still like your boyfriend, then you should stay with him. Dumping one guy for another is never the right option because if you do that, then it will probably be done to you, and usually by the person that you dumped the boyfriend for. The other guy sounds like a jerk anyway. If he can't understand your beliefs and the way that you think, then he's not worth a thought of yours. Maybe give it some time. If things end up not working out with your current, then you can look into a new guy, and if its meant to happen, then you'll end up with him. Otherwise, something else much better will come along.
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Well, the second guy sounds like a jerk. I think the first guy is really nice and to understand you and your beliefs is rare, so treasure it. If it were me, I would hold on to him. Also, sometimes friendships turn into relationships. If not, at least you'll always have someone there. Forget about the second guy - he sounds like a jerk. ♥
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hey, well if your new possible lover thinks that your religon is stupid then thats a problem. i would keep your understanding boyfriend. understanding means everything. let him know that he comes off to you as more of a friend. maybe he could change that.
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i think that yoy should ask the boy out that you see being with you and if he says yes then dump your boyfriend you have now if he says no well they dump you boyfriend or dont!!
you have a hard desschurian to make good luck!
hope you pick the write aswer!!!
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No, don't dump your boyfriend. Understanding is everything in a relationship. If someone says something you believe in is "bullshit", then he'll probably think alot of other things you do are bullshit too, and conflict isn't good. If your current boyfriend is more like a friend, wait it out and see if the relationship develops into more than that, sometimes it takes time, you know?
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Not if your religious beliefs are strong.
I say that because the guy you are attracted to and who thinks your beliefs are BS is probably not going to change his beliefs for you.
Once you dump your nice guy, there will probably be no going back. So think good before making a change
that could be hurtful in the future. :)
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