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My face is oily, and I drink a lot of water everyday, and it doesn't help. What should I do to make it better. Please don't say use proactiv or wash my face.

The best way to keep the problem to a minimum is to wash your face with a perfume free cleanser morning and night, so that your skin is clean, but there is no need to scrub it too hard as this actually produces more oil. Choose oil free cosmetics and an oil free moisturiser, especially if they contain alpha-hydroxy acids as these remove dead cells in you skin and improve the appearance of it.

Giving your skin a treatment can also be good a couple of times a week, and for this you don't need to have expensive equipment. All you need is to place your face over a bowl of hot water with a towel over your head for a few minutes.

Certain vitamins can help to give you good skin so supplement your diet with a multivitamin as vitamins A, C, E and zinc are all helpful. Don't allow yourself too much sun exposure as the heat will cause more oil to be produced.

Avoid Vitamin E products, especially in a humid environment - it stimulates oil glands.

Good luck!

♥ Evy

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how should i do my make up for this
i dont like a toonnnn of make up...or basically i dont want to look fake.

i have brown eyes.
lightish brown brown hair
i have a black dress.


any ideas?

thankkksss

Foundation- If you're using powder dont use too much or it'll cake your face and show off any lines you might have. Also, use gentle strokes. If you apply the powder too hard you might rub away bits of the foundation and end up looking blotchy

Eyes-

Mascara- For your upper lashes, move the mascara applicator back and forth at the base of the lashes to put down some color, and then roll the brush horizontally through your lashes. Use full strokes.

Eyeliner- Use two pencils, a lighter and darker shade of the same color. Apply the lighter from the inner corner to the pupil, or just before, and then use the darker pencil to the outter edge (extending it as little or as much as you want). Then smudge the colors using either a good
eyeshadow brush or your finger (go lightly). Begin by smudging only slightly then gradually increase it if neccessary.If done properly this creates a lovely smoky effect using just a black pencil too.

-For cool-toned skin, consider going for pink, light blues, mauves and silver.

-For a warmer or darker complexion you should try colors such as bronze, gold, apricot and caramel.

Good luck!

♥ Evy


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Well a couple of days ago i had sex with my boyfriend and now when i pee it stings and i have a little blood come out thats pink not that its like my period what do you think it means?

It could be a UTI- Urinary Tract Infection. Sometimes sexual intercourse can cause one. Talk to your doctor if it doesn't go away so it can be treated properly.

♥ Evy

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anyone heard of the clothing stores Tellos,Rave,and Deb?if you have,i'd like some help!
Is tellos a good store to buy dance(club) clothes?
is deb and rave?
also,are they similar,or is one better than the other?
thankyou

I've been to all three stores and personally I don't care too much for Rave. Their clothes don't last very long witout getting a hole in them or something. But Deb is a really good store, I'd definitly recommend it!

♥ Evy

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What is the best brand of wax strips to buy for a bikini wax? I don't want the wax-in-a-tub stuff that you put in the microwave. I just want to know about the strips that you put on your skin and peel off! I've heard that Veet has them.

I personally don't use Veet, but I looked it up for you, and it seems to work well. Some people liked it and some didn't. Here's a website of what people had to say about it

http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=80953&catid=36317&trx=29067&tab=1#1

and here's a website for the actual product..

http://www.drugstore.com/qxp80953_333181_sespider/veet/ready_to_use_gel_wax_strips_sensitive_skin_formula.htm

Sorry I couldn't be more help!

♥ Evy

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Tomorow night, (May 5th) Is the Relay for Life in Fayetteville, Georgia. My friends and I would like to attend, not as a team walking, but we saw an arcticle saying that they're are games, boothes, food vendors, carnival things (rock walls, moon bounces ) open and encouraged for the public. My parents want to know about all of this, I can't find a website for the georgia relay for life, I need to know some things about it, like how everthing works, and I would also like to know if it cost anything to get in to it.
Thanks bunch!

Go here! http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&ie=ISO-8859-1&q=georgia+relay+for+life

♥ Evy

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all i want to know is how do you apply eyeliner so it actually looks GOOD. mine always turns out lookinf gothic and i need this for a play tonight. the teacher said that the girls dont really need stage makeup they need just regular. so please someone tell me how to do it well. no websites please unless its a really good site

Well I don't know if you're using the pencil kind or liquid kind but it pretty much works both ways.

If it's the pencil kind, make sure you sharpen it to where it has a decent point. Otherwise it'll go on dull and darker/thicker.

If you want it to a thin/natural kind of look, start from the inside of your eye (where your nose is) and lightly sweep it to the side outwards. (towards your ear) Sorry if this is confusing..

If you want a thicker line, build it up gradually.Start at the middle of the lash line and draw towards the outer corner. You can extend the line slightly past the outer corner of your eyelid if you want.

Also you could try using two pencils - a lighter and darker shade of the same color. Apply the lighter from the inner corner to the pupil, or just before, and then use the darker pencil to the outter edge (extending it as little or as much as you want). Then smudge the colors using either a good eyeshadow brush or your finger (go lightly). Begin by smudging only slightly then gradually increase it if neccessary. If done properly this creates a lovely smoky effect using just a black pencil too.

If you think eyeliner's too much, or you can't get it right, just use mascara. It makes your eyes look darker just by itself.

good luck!

♥ Evy

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I'm a beginner I guess.
I'll love any good websites that improve a singing voice, warm ups, breathing tips, throat remedies..
And if you have any tips yourself.. :]
I'll also like to know what songs are easy to start with. Someone suggested songs from Wicked?
Thanks :]

I'm not sure how well these websites will work for you but I read some of them and they seem like a lot of help & it's worth a try!

http://www.knowledgehound.com/khhow2s/singbett.htm
http://www.fabjob.com/popstarsample.html

http://www.dogandponysound.com/sing_tip_singmag9.htm

http://a2z-singing-tips.com/

Good luck!

♥ Evy

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I have tons of friends, but not in my class.
Well, what I mean is, I'm with the same group of people in nearly all of my lessons. I have a few friends in these lessons, one is my best mate, but I'd really like to be friends with all of the others.
When we started high school a couple of years ago, I suppoe the reason I didn't make friends with many of them was because I was shy, and I'm not sure how to just start making friends with them now.
They've all got their own groups of friends, and I don't know how to just suddenly start being all friendly and stuff.
Have you got any ideas?

Always have confidence and don't be afraid. Be friendly to them and smile a lot. Start off with small conversations if you're too shy until you feel comfortable with them. It's ok to not be friends with everyone..they all started out in the same situation as you are in if they aren't in it now. People change, your friends are going to too. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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K, so I got a visa check card. I kind of understand it, but I don't...LOL
Can someone tell me what it can be used for?
My mom isn't really doning a good job. Haha

A Visa check card is a type of “debit” card that looks similar to a credit card but acts like a check because the purchase amount is deducted from the cardholder's checking account.

At restaurants and other merchants, simply hand your card to the merchant, sign your receipt, and go. At grocery stores and gas stations, select "Credit" on the keypad and sign your receipt. The amount is still deducted from your checking account

Advantages of a Check Card:
-Quicker than making a trip to the ATM, more convenient than writing checks, and safer than carrying cash.

-Accepted at millions of merchant locations worldwide.

-No need to use your PIN—just sign as you would for any Visa card.

-Visa check card purchases are automatically deducted from your checking account, so there’s no interest to pay.

-Simplify your record-keeping—your monthly statement provides you with a detailed record of all your transactions.

♥ Evy

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every so often after i go pee, it feels like i still have to pee,but i dont.its not exactly a burning feeling, but sort of.what could it be?

thanks.

It could be a bladder infection, or any infection of some sort. It would be best to talk to your doctor about it. The sooner the better. Good luck

♥ Evy

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heyy ok i need to get a tan like really bad whats the fastest way to get one (no fake tans please!) if i go outside in the sun do i wear sunscreen? if so do i wear a lot of a little? or should i use tanning oil? ill rate 5's! please help!

When I lay out I don't use sunscreen, but ive been doing it for a while. I wouldn't if I were you. However you DO need to use oil. I use 'Hawaiian Tropic Dark Tanning Oil' and it works wonderfuly and fast, and you can get it at target for about $5.

♥ Evy

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im 16, male. i have been out with this guy before, andi broke his heart. i still love him and he says he still loves me but he has a boyfreind. i would do anything to have him back but he says he just can't trust me. were getting along great now but i still want him back.

The best thing at this point, would probably be to just be his friend for the time being. If you're getting along great, leave it at that for now. You don't want to mess things up and possibly push him farther from you. Give him some time, if he's with the other guy there's not much you can do but wait it out. You never know what might happen in the future..good luck!

♥ Evy

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I'm usually either very lethargic or very pissed off in the morning and I figure I can fix that by adding something a little more enjoyable into my routine. I'll wake up earlier if it seems worth it. Does anyone have anything special they do in the morning that helps them not be a zombie/grump? (Note: going to Starbuck's every morning and other such expensive things are a bit out of the question).

Whenever you wake up go for a run & then a shower. You might not enjoy running but it definitly makes you feel better and it's healthy for you. I used to do it before school and it made me wake up faster and it was easier to function throughout the day. So obviously, the better you feel the happier, more pleasant you'll be!

♥ Evy

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Lately me & my boyfriend have been having alot of fights. I dont want to break up with him because I love him heaps & I dont want to lose him. But he has been acting like he doesnt care & everything. Just want someone to help me get through this before I do something wrong. What should I do?

Almost every relationship has its up and downs. If you want it to work, you have to make it work. Don't just give up when it gets tough. Communicate with him and let him know what you're feeling and find out what he's feeling. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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i have i red dot on my nose ive has for a few years. The doctor said its some type of mole i guess. My parents want me to get laser sergery. The dot is only less than 1/4 inch. Does laser surgery hurt more than a shot? They say they'll put numbing cream on it, but that never helps completely.

I've had something similar to that on my hand. They put a shot in the area around it to numb it, and it didn't really hurt at all. I'm guessing that's what they're going to do for you, except using cream. Then they just burned it off. It was a weird laser thing. I'm not sure if it's the same kind as yours, im sure it isn't but when they were done i didn't feel any pain at all. Even during it i didn't. I was somewhat queazy howver, just because i watched them do it. But i suck at that kinda stuff. ha.. anyways you'll be fine!

♥ Evy

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my boyfriend is really nice and ok looking but his teeth are crooked and pretty yellow. should i tell him or keep going out with him? and when he wants to kiss me i am scared. what should i do?

It really shouldn't bother you considering he's your boyfriend. Teeth definitely aren't the most important thing in the world to judge someone by. Don't be intimidated by his teeth, maybe he's not able to get to a dentist. If you're afraid of hurting his feelings by talking to him about it do what the person below me said. I think the best thing to do is just look past it. It's what's on the inside that counts.

♥ Evy

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Hiya again, were going out one day next week with the band. Do you think that we should just talk and get comfortable arond each other? x x

Yea definitely. Don't try to rush things or even be too forward. I can't exactly tell you how far to go or anything because i don't really know how comfortable both of you feel with each other so far. When you're with him, you'll know what to do. If you aren't comfortable doing something, don't do it. Just have fun and get to know each other!

♥ Evy

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What exercises can I do to remove fat off of my love handles/sides?

You can't choose where the fat accumulates on your body, and you can't choose where or how quickly it will come off. If you have a healthy diet and a good cardiovascular exercise it will help them go away, along with any other body fat you may have.

-burn more calories
-tighten abdominal muscles

Also here's a website that shows you several exercises you can do for them: http://www.howtobefit.com/love-handle.htm

♥ Evy

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somehow I always end up having really short relationships. Half the time its because of me I end up breaking up with them. And when I mean short I mean days/week or two. I dont kno whats wrong with me. I want a lasting relationship. Maybe my standerds are to high. It just seems to me that I need a guy that will be there for me because im so clincaly depressed I cant have them not call for days or not see them for a long time its just to hard on me.

I just broke up with my bf and now i feel bad because what if he was suposed to be mysoul mate? but I couldnt stay with him because I questiond him and I questiond being with someone
else...

Whats wrong with me? what should I do?

I really want someone to be there for me. A guy I want a bf that will last.

Most of the time the harder you look for someone, the harder it is to find. There's nothing wrong with you. I don't know how old you are, but this could just mean that you really aren't ready for a relationship like you think you are. People change and its ok to not be with someone forever, especially if you're younger. You have to go through different people to find out what you like and what you don't like. You can't just want something to last, you have to try to make it last and put everything you have into it. You're gonna have your ups and downs but you have to work through those. Don't just give up if something isn't how you like. No one is perfect. If you meet someone and you don't like something about them, give them another chance. Get to know them before you get rid of them. There's no way you can get to know someone in a couple days. It could take a while. If you don't think you're ready for a relationship, make new friends. Ones that will always be there for you and that won't hurt you in the long run. Just give yourself some time. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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