I have tons of friends, but not in my class.
Well, what I mean is, I'm with the same group of people in nearly all of my lessons. I have a few friends in these lessons, one is my best mate, but I'd really like to be friends with all of the others.
When we started high school a couple of years ago, I suppoe the reason I didn't make friends with many of them was because I was shy, and I'm not sure how to just start making friends with them now.
They've all got their own groups of friends, and I don't know how to just suddenly start being all friendly and stuff.
Have you got any ideas?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xEVYx answered Thursday May 4 2006, 5:48 pm: Always have confidence and don't be afraid. Be friendly to them and smile a lot. Start off with small conversations if you're too shy until you feel comfortable with them. It's ok to not be friends with everyone..they all started out in the same situation as you are in if they aren't in it now. People change, your friends are going to too. Good luck!
SqueakieSquid2323 answered Thursday May 4 2006, 5:48 pm: Maybe you could start to get to know one or two of your classmates and then invite their group out with your group. That way everyone knows at least one person and hopefully everyone will meet someone new. Try to be more assertive and step up and talk to people. Spark a conversation about shoes, or clothes. Friendship takes a while to make so don't feel bad if you guys don't hang out right away... it may take time. Good luck... I hope I helped! [ SqueakieSquid2323's advice column | Ask SqueakieSquid2323 A Question ]
alliesadvice answered Thursday May 4 2006, 5:44 pm: hmm maybe you should invite them all to hang out or something or if your birthday is coming up soon then invite a lot of the people to your party and then socialize with them and you can become freinds.. if your still too shy for that then just talk to them about stuff during school and you'll fit in just fine
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