I love him, and he loves me. he has a bf and i broke his hea
Question Posted Wednesday May 3 2006, 4:20 pm
im 16, male. i have been out with this guy before, andi broke his heart. i still love him and he says he still loves me but he has a boyfreind. i would do anything to have him back but he says he just can't trust me. were getting along great now but i still want him back.
VainTaraLynn answered Friday May 5 2006, 12:57 am: Well sweetie, since he doesnt trust you your going to have to put your feelings on hold for a moment. Take the time to prove to him he is able to trust you, as a friend. Be there for him, and let him know you're there if he needs to talk. That's the best way to gain someones trust back, by provin yourself worthy of having it back. Dont pressure him and make him feel bad because of your feelings.. that might cause him to get confused & distance himself. Just talk to him, and establish a really good friednship.. then if things start going bad with him and his boyfriend, you can be there to pick him back up again. If you two really love each other, you will end up together. & if not there is always going to be someone out there that will be with you forever. :) [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
xLiisten2urheart answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 6:06 pm: hmm. i would just keep it going and like don't push it or anything cause you dont want to loose him. and i dont think you broke his heart if he still loves you!
xEVYx answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 6:04 pm: The best thing at this point, would probably be to just be his friend for the time being. If you're getting along great, leave it at that for now. You don't want to mess things up and possibly push him farther from you. Give him some time, if he's with the other guy there's not much you can do but wait it out. You never know what might happen in the future..good luck!
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