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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..

-confused

ur rite u cant just move one in a situation like that. i know kinda wut u mean to. i know this guy and ppl dont know him the way i know him. when he yells at u think about y he is doing it and u say that when ur with him he acts like he likes u. well talk to him then about the internet situation. i hope i helped...please rate me

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ok theres this boy that REALLY likes me n i dont want 2 b harsh n tell him i dont like him n back off n i have already told him i have a boyfriend!!n he wont leave me alone!!in a nice way 2 tell him 2 back off n leave me alone!

well u could have ur boyfriend talk to him. or u could call him or i/m him.just talk to him and be serious about it to. but tell him that u guys would be better off as friends and be nice about it since u dont wanna be harsh. i hoped i helped...rate me please...:)

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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do?

if i were u i would tell it to him straight. i would say "i dont want ur drugs and if u loved me u wouldnt be forcing them on me." but thats just me. anayways if he did like u alot he wouldnt be asking u to do something that u dont want to do. anyways im sure u will make the rite decision....good luck and i hoped i helped...

P.S. rate me if i helped thanx

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hey katey im 14 years old. i just got back from this away camp. while i was there i met this boy and we toatally hit it off. right from the time we met we flirted and hung out the whole week. when it was time to say goodbye it was so hard for the both of us. i talk to him online and the phone but its not the same. he lives 5 and a half hours away in virgina and i live in pennsylvania..we like eachother alot alot.how do we keep a great strong realationship if we never get to see eachother?

its tru if u dont see eachother it is hard. but communication it the key.rate me please...:)

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i am to obsessed with dieting im 16 5'0 and weight 114lbs i think i am so fat even thought every1 thinks im not...i dont no why..i work out 4 times a week..and i eat really healthy...but lately i havent aten to healthy..my friends all think im ganna become anerixic and im scared 2..i check every label carbs calories everhything it drives everyone crazy and its starting 2 drive me crazy what should i do?

anyways u are not fat. there are ppl in my grade that weigh that much and they are only 14 yrs old. anyways y check the labels for nutrient facts? that is a little weird especailly ur age. i no it wont help when ppl say ur fat. cuz im going through the same thing. listen to ur peers they know u. but u know ur body. its tru if u dont stop becoming body consious something bad might happen....i hope i helped....good luck

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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?

wow thats a long time for a boyfriend not to call. but anyways u could call him or just talk to him in person about it. if its bathering u that much than tell him how u feel about it. i hope i helped.

P.S. if i helped rate me please...thanx

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dO yOu knO sOme gOod sOccer drills? thanxx

well if ur really into soccer theres this saying to do 1000 touches a day. my friend does it and she said its really easy. u dont have to count. just dribble for like 20 minutes. u can do it. that and u can kick the ball against a wall; if its in the air dont use ur hands, trap it with ur body. i hope i helped....Me


P.S. if i helped rate me please....thanx

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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!

-so confused-

the best thing in this situation is to talk to them about it. it sounds like they are just jealous cuz u picked the one friend instead of the other. talk to them and see why it was such a big deal. cuz the 2 grls have each other to hang out with and the one grl has no one. so im saying u picked wisely. i hope i helped.

P.S. if i helped rate me please....:)

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I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?

well if u like him talk to him. ask him some things and mayb after awhile he will like u back. who knows....i hope i helped

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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap

well im sure everyone has already told u this but talk to her. just tell her wut ur feeling about the whole situation. and mayb that is just how she is. she just likes hanging out with the guys. some ppl are like that. but if u do start dating a guy or seeing him or w/e and u think she is gonna just go between them. and dont take that from her if she keeps doing it. but then again u shouldnt let a guy come between to really close friends. so its up to u.

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this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok?

w/e he doesnt deserve u if he is gonna treat u that way. u r better than that to even think about taking him back. i wouldnt even think about it. anyways i hope i helped. please rate me...:)

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I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it....

i know exactly wut u mean. i always mess up or do something wrong and i cant stand that. wut u should do is if u have a boyfriend or even a bestfriend confide in them. tell them things. mayb they will understand and help u out with some of ur mistakes. but i know its harrd to live with some problems; but there is always some one u can talk to about them.

P.S. if i helped rate me....thanx

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okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do

okay first of all figure out if ur friend still likes her ex boyfriend. but if he doesnt like u back it shouldnt be that big of a deal. if ur friend still likes him, i wouldnt say anything. does he know? if they have been broken up for longer than a month it should be fine. but if its sooner than that id give it time, cuz some ppl still might regret it.i hoped i helped.

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well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !!

mayb he doesnt want his grl to be jealous of u. but tell it to him straight. if u dont like it lay it out for him. i hoped i helped...

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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!!

pop it then keep it clean. that or u could use some kinda face wash.
rate me if i helped....thanx

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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU

ok i dont know wut exactly to tell u butt im gonna try to give u something. u cant exactly make ur friends beceom bi or lez. its there decision. but dont force anything out of ur friends...cuz i dont think they will like that. i hope i helped but i dont think i did. thats just a hard situation.

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Are monkeys really cool? or is that just your opinion?

i would have to say that, that is an opinion.

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WoW, i rEaLLy nEeD HeLp,

i just got over a really bad break-up, and im still hurting, i like him alot but he doesnt like me =/ i was so upset i cut my self,ill NEVER do it again, but i dunno what to tell him cause hes just one of those people that say o and cool not the person too really care, but he was a good boyfriend, and made me happy and i really already miss him..and its been like 4 days, and i really want to go back out with him, but we fight alot, is there any certain thing i should do to get him to talk serious, cause i REALLY wanna know if i have to let go for real this time...

there is know way of forcing him to have a serious conversation. just sit him down and talk to him about it. tell him how u feel. ask him how he feels.

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I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..?

just give him hints and things that u like him. and mayb he will get the idea.
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I have been really stressed out.....and i get jealous when im Ex-Girlfriend talks or hangs out with guys but then i am starting to like this other girl but i still really like my Ex-Girlfriend! What should i do??????????

P.S. i am 14 years old and a male

find out who u like more. and mayb who u would have a chance with. dont force anything. just let if flow.

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