ok theres this boy that REALLY likes me n i dont want 2 b harsh n tell him i dont like him n back off n i have already told him i have a boyfriend!!n he wont leave me alone!!in a nice way 2 tell him 2 back off n leave me alone!
selectopaque answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:32 am: ok. Some guys are pretty dense. If you just try to be nice and let him down easily, he might not get it. He might think that your only saying that you don't like him because you dont' want to hurt your boyfriend. He might not get the idea that you really, actually don't like him.
I would suggest just telling him that you have no attraction to him. Don't try to be nice because he should have backed off after you told him you had a boyfriend. If that didn't work then you have to tell him straight that you just don't like him and he's making you uncomfortable by still hitting on you. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
sEkzIeStLoOzAoX answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 11:42 pm: hun, juss say look i don wanna hurt your feelings but i dont like you uthat way. I feel really bad having to tell you. But im srry i juss dont. I hope we'll always be friends tho. I kno how you feel this guy liked me a lot and it was pretty hard to hav to break it down to him if u wanna more info, ask me for my AIM sn. [ sEkzIeStLoOzAoX's advice column | Ask sEkzIeStLoOzAoX A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 11:24 pm: Well, just be like "I'm sorry, but I have a boyfriend, there are other girls out there for you, I only like my boyfriend." And if he still doesn't listen you can always have your boyfriend tell him to back off (but of course in a nice way haha) Hope this helps. And good luck! =P
superstar10 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:26 pm: well u could have ur boyfriend talk to him. or u could call him or i/m him.just talk to him and be serious about it to. but tell him that u guys would be better off as friends and be nice about it since u dont wanna be harsh. i hoped i helped...rate me please...:) [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
jOrDaN04 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:18 pm: maybe you should talk to him somewhere private, where no one else is around (so no one sees this embarassing moment) or call him, or maybe even talk to him online. and just tell him that you dont like him as a b/f, and ask if you two could just be friends?? hope this works!
dancinchick answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:03 pm: Say 2 him nicely dat u realli dont want 2 go out wit him. Tell him dat ur not his type. Also retell him dat u hav a boyfriend or hav ur boyfriend stand close by. At da beginning of da convo tell him dat u hv 2 talk 2 him but u dont hav much time cuz ur boyfriend is waiten 2 go out. He mite realize dat u nd ur boyfriend r close. Hope I Helped
GC2daMAX answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:03 pm: tell him u just want to be friends. if he asks why say something like "oh because your really cool and i wouldnt wanna ruin it over going out" or just tell him straight out that hes not your type. good luck! [ GC2daMAX's advice column | Ask GC2daMAX A Question ]
hotcherry answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:02 pm: Well..if u have already told him that you have a boyfriend and he still doesnt get the picture...then have your boyfriend talk to him! boyfriends are good at that =D [ hotcherry's advice column | Ask hotcherry A Question ]
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