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Q: I need advice on how I can start a petition. I need to know how I officially and legally start it and who do I present it to. How do I organize it? As you can see from my title, the purpose of the petition would be to have some sort of ruling against out-ruling the pledge of allegiance in schools or changing it.
Anyways, do you think because of 'under God' that after over 200 years, the pledge should be changed or withdrawn from any school. Why or why not? Thanks in advance.
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The way to start a petition is simple. You need a sheet of paper to write it on, and then just obtain signatures. I made one in an attempt to bring down the weight of class participation on grades... Anyways, here's the steps.
1. Date. Date the time you started the petition, and the time you ended it.
2. Write down your cause. Say "We, the undersigned, believe", and explain exactly what you believe. This would be pledge of allegiance and stuff.
3. After the petition mission is written, start numbering lines for signatures. 50 is a good number to start with, and then increase it be double each time you reach the goal (100, 200, 400, 800, 1600). At 1600, you probably are good to submit it.
4. Attend public events, and obtain signatures from people there. Attend churches and attempt to obtain the signatures at them as well. Go pretty much anywhere to get them. They come quicker than you think. Just ask someone if they'd be willing to sign a petition to (Insert what you want here)
5. Get others involved in the process. Power in numbers=More signatures
6. Submit the petition to the government, be it your school, your town, or whatever you want. Remember that the higher up you go in power, the more like something will be done, yet you will need a substantial number of signatures (School is probabably 400-800, Town is 1600-2400, State is 100,000-200,000, Federal is around a million.)
7. Wait for a result. Make sure to bother them a lot for an answer.
-Steven
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Q: 14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!!
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No way. B is considered average size. C is large, B is medium, A is small. And it seems like you're not done yet. so, you are fine.
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Q: Do you believe in Intelligent Design or evolution?
If you believe Intelligent Design is an adequate critique of evolution, then tell me what designed the irreducibly complex designer, please. I'd really like to know!
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The creator is not alive. He's a spirit. And spirits are neither born nor die. He was not created, he just is. He is everything. He's the ground, the planets, the emptiness, and you. Yes, you are a piece of god. And the creator just made himself different, giving up parts of himself for you.
And everything cannot be created or destroyed, according to the laws of science. So, he didn't need to be created according to science. Actually, God created science for us to better understand his ways.
-Steven
(How in the world did a poll like question get rated a 3?)
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Q: 15 1/2 Female.
For the record I have been kissed many times, and have had a boy friend (if you want to call him that) before.
I can't help but wish I could find a guy that would like me for me and would always be with me. Yes, I realise this is most girls dream but I can't stop thinking about it.
I have a huge crush on guy that works at the local grocery store but I think he thinks I'm older... (I tend to get told I look older then I really am) I have a couple other crushes but the guys are younger then me. Like 2 years younger.
Now, if I were reading this question right now I know how I'd answer it but i'm hoping some of you have different ideas then me.
Should I just let myself stay up all night dreaming about having a boy friend and feeling stupid that I'm thinking that or should I take a stab and really introduce myself to Billy (safeway guy)?
Any opinions are welcome but please TRY to write in english.
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I'd take a shot at it. You miss every shot that you take, so if you just dream all night, I can guarentee you that he'll never say yes. Besides, dreaming about lost hopes happens to cause a lot of depression. You don't want depression, so it would be better for you to try it, just so you get you mind off it.
Yet, if you want someone who likes you for you, I suggest that you try doing a blind relationship. You need to meet someone in a way that they don't see you. This can be through phone, IM, or E-Mail. Do not give your picture or anything else to this person. It will allow the person to get to know you, and eventually ask you out. They will like you for you, and only you. Then you meet them and stuff...
-Steven
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Q: i need help with one math problem on my homework:
Mr. Alvarez withdrew from his saving account $25 per week for each of 8 weeks. He then had $1,623 in his account. How much did he have in his account before he made these withdrawals?
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Well, you don't know how much he initially had, right? So, assign that "X". He subtracts $25 for 8 weeks. That's from the initial value of x. So, it's X-25(8). After that was done, he had $1623 left in his account. That is the result of the operation. X-25(8)=1623. That's the hard part.
After that, it's simply algebrea. X-400=1623, and add 400 to both sides to get 2023.
If you need any more help on math, I am in precalculus. :)
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Q: I'm a 15 year old girl. I am depressed. And I'm not talking about depression that has been going on for just months. Its been over a year. and it's getting worse by day. The latest thing I hace done to my self when I had gotten angry was cut all my hair off. I'm scared!!! I've tried to commit suicide before. but thank god i made it out alive. I cut and burn myself. I dont do it because i want to or because I wanna try it. I never believed in hurting my body. I always am thankful for being healthy and alive. I never went one night without thanking god for all the good that he has done for me and my family. I go to therapy but i feel as if its not helping me. I have tried asking god for help and still am. But I am not seeing results. I am trying to be patient but it's hard. My parents are diagnosed with depression. but don't take it seriously. They think I am just crazy!!! I thoguht I was too for a while until it really hit me that I had a real sickness. I believe that I got it from them. But I don't care how I got. All I care about is getting effective help. If I don't get some soon I'm gonna end up hurting myself Badly. AND I DON'T WANT THAT!!!! I had a bright future ahead of me. but now i just don't see it. I wanna get my life back and be the person I really am. I know I was created for a reason. I know I am worth something!! but i need help fast. I am not crazy I just need help before I end my life when it's not time for me. I am too young and don't wanna waste every day of my lfe doing nothing. Because every second that goes by brings me closer to the end of my life. I wanna have a story to tell about my life when i get old.I wanna see myself old. inshallah!!! and I don't ever wanna see anyone experience this problem not even an enemy.
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You need to think for a while on what are your problems, and why do they make you feel depressed. Then, you need to come up with solutions for each problem.
Depression is a side-effect. I never saw depression as a problem, it just results because of multiple causes. Eliminate the causes, and you no longer have depression.
I will be willing to talk to you for months if neccassary through E-Mail (sbloemeke2@yahoo.com). Just send me what problems are causing your depression, and I'll help.
I know a lot about depression, due to the fact that I have been depressed for 9 months. Almost 10. Suicidal 3 times, attempted once, etc. Yet, I fidn that the more that I deal with my problems, the better they become rather than trying to deal with the result.
-Steven
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Q: I am 13 Male
When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website
I rate Fives
PLEASE i am desparate
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A lover is one who will worry about the girl's needs, not his own. You want her, no doubt. However, you also know that she wants another boy. She would be more happier with that boy than you, just because it is what she wants. If that's the case, you support her decision. Let her know that she should go with that boy. Then, after the relationship is done, and you are ready to ask her out, let her know of the sacrafices you have made. Let her know that you gave her up for her own happiness. It would be romantic.
-Steven
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Q: Hey does anyone know if the listerine for whitening your teeth really works?
thanks
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I have not heard of it working yet. So no, most likely.
-Steven
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Q: Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl.
Well I have my first boyfriend now but that's not what this is about. Well you see my friend is feeling left out because both me and our other friend now have boyfriends and she doesn't. She has liked this same boy for three years now but nothing is happening between them. He hardly even looks at her anymore. She doesn't want to give up on him because she knows she won't like any other guy. I keep telling her to go up and talk to him but she is the shy "wait for him to come to me" kind of girl. I feel bad for her but I don't want to break up with my boyfirned just because she is feeling left out. She has met and gets along really well with both my boyfriend and our other friend's boyfriend but she never wants to go anywhere with any of us. I would never put my boyfriend above my friends and my boyfriend understands that. We ask her to come to football games or movies with us all the time but she thinks she'd be getting in the way. What should I do?
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You should try to encourage her and boost her confidence. You need to let her know that she needs to take risks to get anywhere in life, and that she should make a reasonable attempt at getting a boyfriend. Let her know that if she does not try to get a boyfriend, she will never have one.
With her going with you places when you are with your boyfriend, let her know that you honestly do not care if she makes out with him, you just wouldn't mind. (Note: Of course you WOULD care, it would be used in exaggeration...) Invite her to another movie, and if she declines for such a reason, explain to her that you want her to go for her own enjoyment, and that believing she'd become intrusive is no excuse.
-Steven
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Q: When a guy says maybe does it usually mean yes? Like my one friend asked the guy I liked if he'd ever go out with me and he said I don't know maybe. So do you think that means yea since to guys maybe usually means yes?
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Yes, it means it will be a yes. I have never heard of a case where it is a no. It means taht he has some feelings for you, and those feelings only grow once he finds out that he likes you. That leads to a dating.
-Steven
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Q: Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv
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If you are going to be 13, then you are underage. You should not be on this site to begin with, due to federal laws. I'd advise that you delete this question due to that.
However, I would listen to your parents. You are too young for a serious enough relationship, and it is just puppy dog love. You want to have a much better relationship, and that doesn't happen at 13. 13 is 2 weeks and a breakup. I'd wait and make it more special. Like at 15 or 16.
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Q: My boyfriend always seems so sad and depressed.. What are some things I could do to cheer him up? Like little or big things, doesn't matter.
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Hello! If you want to cheer him up, usually the best way is to confort him with the issues he already has. Let him know that you are there for him if he needs you, and any time he needs you.
However, most people who are like this constantly are beyond your aid. There is a disorder called Major Depressive Disorder, which I think I cans ay your boyfriend probably has. They cannot handle most problems, and it leads them to believe that their lives are terrible. Usually, you want to take these people to a psychologist. I'd advise it.
-Steven
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Q: 13/m I know I'm going through puberty. I just know it. I'm starting to feel the true emotions (love, rejection, jealousy, etc), and I'm starting to be cleverer (I'm starting to beat my dad at chess, which I haven't done for 8 years.) But despite these mental changes, I'm still physically the same. I mean, sure, I've started to get erections, but it's not like I'm showing that off at school! It's really annoying, how I have the highest voice in the school, and I'm the shortest guy in all my classes. Facial hair, I really don't give a damn, but now a few people think my high voice is annoying, and it annoys me too, and also my parents don't believe that I'm in love because I haven't shown any physical signs of puberty, and thusly I can't have had any mental either. What should I do? (Note: Smartasses get 1s and WILL be reported)
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You're going through changes whether you notice it or not. I was an early bloomer, I started in 4th or 5th grade. However, most men do not start until 7th grade, your present year. It goes until 17 or 18. Just wait. You are the norm, maybe a tiny bit slow. You will change in about a week or two.
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Q: ok this may sound really conceited, but my mom is like 58, but she still looks like she's 35. no plastic surgery, nothing. i'm kind of pretty i guess, but not like gorgeous. but there are girls who are absolutely gorgeous at my school, and their moms are really old-looking (no offense!!) and not that pretty. neither are their dads, but mine isn't that special either. how come it's like that?? =/
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Heredity. There are genes for every attribute, such as size breasts and stuff that distinguishes a girl as pretty. They hide in one generation, and show up in the next. That's why some things skip a generation.
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Q: What are some signs of Breast Cancer and Can u be 13 and get it??? Thanks in advance!
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Breast cancer is generally detected if you can feel a hard lump in or on your breast. And yes, you can be 13 and get it. Go see a doctor, they'll help.
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Q: How long into a relationship would you wait to kiss [peck & make out] with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Thanks.
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I'd say about a month. Then you know the person enough, and it's about time you showed some affection.
-Steven
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Q: hi i usually ask a lot of questions on advicenators, but i hate getting the email that says i got an answer. is there anyway i can stop getting the emails?
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Go to your profile settings, Part II, and change the responce.
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Q: Why can almost no-one on Advicenators spell correctly? It isn't really that hard, and don't use the excuse that people are young, because I'm not at all old and I can spell without too many mistakes, or none at all.
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They don't because most of them are just used to chatroom speak. It is quicker to write some things in leet or in shortened versions than others. And typos do come for some people.
Though I must say that these requests seem to be more correct in spelling than the last site I was on. Some requests there were unreadable even for me. "Like, i sk8, n i fll of mi bke. i scrapd mi kne, n i ned srgry. wat do i do?" :)
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Q: hello! i am 13. im having my second child (i had my first when i was 11, her name is Amy). For my first baby, i told my parents and they were so happy! They felt stupid because they are going to be GRANDparents at 26 but i told them its not a big deal! So when i had Amy, it was totally natural! I felt so good and proud. The two of us have been living at my parents house for 2 years now. The father of my Amy, is now the father of Tommy, my bun in the oven! ;) I love him so much and he loves me. My parents love him too. He doesnt have any parents really. Well he does, but he runs away and stays away for a really long time. He is 11 right now. I think he should come live with me, amy and tommy! i havent brought it up with my parents yet though.
i thought it was the coolest thing that amy and her dad were so close in age, because they would probably be really close. Amys 2 and she can talk really well. She LOVES her dad and me.
my problem is, will Amy feel left out? will tommy not like his daddy or me? tommy's due date is tomorrow so for moms out there, you kno that my stomach is rubbing agenst the keyboard right now. but it feels good, i love pregnancy!
anyway, me and my boyfriend are geting married in one year. im so excited!
so just please answer my questions. thank you. sorry for the lenght. oh, tommy says thank you as well (he just kicked. . .twice!). oh and amy says hi as well! ;)
thanks again, bye!
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I am going to try and answer as best as I can, although this is one of the questions that I am a bit shocked about, as it is really rare...
First, he definately should take up full time residence with you. He is the responsible father, and for any good parentage, he must constantly be there. Ask your parents.
Amy will feel left out, as all firstborn do. I felt left out when my sister was born, and it ALWAYS happens. To deal with this, you need to work on them both, making sure that they get close to equal attention. Naturally, give what's necassary to the second, but try to spend as much time as possible with Amy. If the child hates Tommy, it happens. Just let it be, as siblings do hate each other.
I don't like the idea of living in a playhouse because the children NEED a good enviorment. It may not supply the best enviorment in a playhouse, like it would be missing heat, quality of life, etc. It would be more like living in a Teepee...
And my advice on birth and the last days of pregnancy is to just remember that you should go on the medication to aide you, and any offered, as people have died without it.
-Steven
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Q: when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down?
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From many, many rejections I've had to face (7... :( ), I can say that the nicest way is to say "I'm sorry, but...", and add a nice little excuse like "I am going with some of my friends" or "I want to enjoy this dance alone".
Hope this helps!
-Steven
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bio
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THE PENGUIN RULES ALL! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! *Cough*
Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
Oh, and I'm a L1 moderator, which means I rate questions.
Don't hesitate to IM me, I'm usually on. If I'm not, just drop one in the Inbox!
Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.
Ask away!
-Steven
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: NJ Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 13, 2005 Answers: 509 Last Update: October 30, 2006 Visitors: 39449
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