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Crushes
15 1/2 Female.
For the record I have been kissed many times, and have had a boy friend (if you want to call him that) before.
I can't help but wish I could find a guy that would like me for me and would always be with me. Yes, I realise this is most girls dream but I can't stop thinking about it.
I have a huge crush on guy that works at the local grocery store but I think he thinks I'm older... (I tend to get told I look older then I really am) I have a couple other crushes but the guys are younger then me. Like 2 years younger.
Now, if I were reading this question right now I know how I'd answer it but i'm hoping some of you have different ideas then me.
Should I just let myself stay up all night dreaming about having a boy friend and feeling stupid that I'm thinking that or should I take a stab and really introduce myself to Billy (safeway guy)?
Any opinions are welcome but please TRY to write in english.
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i know exactly what you mean and im a 14 year old guy (exceot replace the dreaming of a guy to a girl lol) but why not.. go for it, for all you know he maybe your future husband so take risk go for it (weird to think about, the person your talking to could be your future spouse) well anyway i think its pretty normal to feel that way...or maybe im just a girly man lol but i say you indroduce yourself to the guy
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Take a stab at it and introduce yourself to him. You definately won't get a boyfriend by sobbing about it. What do you mean by write in English? Just wondering. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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I want the same thing this isnt an easy thingto obtain my Answer go out with someone who is older. im 15 and im dating a 17 yearold. Dating is the first step yo uwant a grown p realtionship you have to do your part dont expect a bf right off the bat You need to date first. Start talking to guys and hanging out with them...Give Bully a chance tell him your interested And that youd like to hang out with him give him your number and ask him to call when hes free if he never calls he never calls no big deal. Be much more upfront to get what yoiu wnat is to tell people waht you need, if your having a smooth conversation be the one to brake away and say that you are interested in hearing more give your number and smile and walk away. youll be suprised how quick you will find What your looking for
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I'd take a shot at it. You miss every shot that you take, so if you just dream all night, I can guarentee you that he'll never say yes. Besides, dreaming about lost hopes happens to cause a lot of depression. You don't want depression, so it would be better for you to try it, just so you get you mind off it.
Yet, if you want someone who likes you for you, I suggest that you try doing a blind relationship. You need to meet someone in a way that they don't see you. This can be through phone, IM, or E-Mail. Do not give your picture or anything else to this person. It will allow the person to get to know you, and eventually ask you out. They will like you for you, and only you. Then you meet them and stuff...
-Steven
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My theory on love is nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go ahead and introduce yourself to Billy, as well as other guys. They're not going to know that you're looking unless you give it a try. Even if it doesn't turn into a relationship, you have at least had the opportunity to meet someone new. You never know; many male/female friendships grow into a deeper relationship later on.
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