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HELP ME PLZ
Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv
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Talk to your parents and see why they won't let you have a boyfriend. If its a dumb reason, explain to them why you should be allowed to date and that you love him. If they still won't understand, I say date him anyway. It is wrong to be sneaking behind your parents I agree. But if they don't approve, you should respect their decision. They're doing it because they love you. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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At 12 you dont need a boyfriend. No 12 year old needs a boyfriend. Even if your almost 13. But the fact is, most 12 year old girls have boyfriends, little puppy love relationships. As long as it stays innocent, I dont see a huge problem with it. I don't know what to tell you about your parents, because sneaking is wrong but at your age its gonna be hard to convince them to let you date. My advice to you is to just relax, and chill out. Dont be so serious about this. You're very young, and you have so many years ahead of you to worry about guys. Dont take this one so seriously.
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For all you people that said you shouldn't have a boyfriend at 13. Shut up!!! you can have a boyfriend you should just make sure it doesn't get serious. Also remember anything you do with him could give you a bad rep and make you look like a slut. Anyway,
with parents you have to ease into trust. You could ask them if you could have a boyfriend but not go out on dates and then once they get used to that ask if you could have group dates with friends. or like if you wanna go to the movies your mom could come and just not sit with you. Remember your parents love you a lot and thats why they are doing this. they want to protect you. I think you should act more responsible and then your parents will let you do more stuff.
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You may not want to hear this, but oh well. You're 12. You don't need a boyfriend. At 12, I thought I wanted one too, but now looking back on it, I just think it was the stupidest thing ever and I even regret going out with those guys. What was I thinking?! Here's another tip, you're 12.. I doubt you know what it really means to love someone like that.
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You need to tell your parents how you feel. Telling them whethe or not you've been sneaking around is your desicion. I do suggest though you tell them you feel mature enough to have a bf et cetera...
If they don't listen to you and you end up still sneaking around I suggest you tell the 'rents what is going on. Your trust will be completely ruined if you keep it up for much longer. Think of how hurt your parents will be when they find out. And imagine their reactions if they find otu FROM SOMEONE ELSE! Trying not to be jerky...
*emster*
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Haha. You're 13 years old. No, you dont love him. Go ahead, get pissed off at me, go ahead. I just said it, you dont love him. You'll break up soon. Just give it a couple months..if that.
I'm not being rude, just telling you the truth.
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Well for starters i think you should talk to your parents about it. Ask them WHY you cant have a boyfriend. If they question you about having one, tell them the truth. The worst thing you can do is deny that fact. If they get mad at you, tell them that you're practically a teenager and it should be YOUR decision to have a boyfriend or not. My parents were the same way but i did talk to them and it worked so i hope it helps you. =)
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well just tell your parents stright up be like i am not two i am 13 and i need freedom i am only a kid once!! be like i am not going to do any bad with him i dont see the problem!! i hope i helped!! <3 stacey
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If you are going to be 13, then you are underage. You should not be on this site to begin with, due to federal laws. I'd advise that you delete this question due to that.
However, I would listen to your parents. You are too young for a serious enough relationship, and it is just puppy dog love. You want to have a much better relationship, and that doesn't happen at 13. 13 is 2 weeks and a breakup. I'd wait and make it more special. Like at 15 or 16.
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first sit down with your parents and try to convince them to let u have a boyfriend. after that, if it doesnt work then just keep sneaking it. ive done it too, but only once cause he was 16 and i was 13.
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tell your parents you think you are old enough for a boyfriend just convince hem its not like serious forever stuff they will let you hope i helped
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been there, done that. dating behind your parents' backs just causes a big mess. it's horrible. try sitting down and calmly talking with your parents about the situation. if they still don't want you to date, you shouldn't. trust me, it ends badly.
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