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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal? (link)
well yeah its normal because your periods might not be regular yet. Also if your taking birth control that could mess up your periods!so if your taking birth control then id go see your gyno. and if not then your periods probably arent regular yet.And if your havin sex it could be possible your pregnant but most likely not! hope i helped
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i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me? (link)
ok well first off all...forget wut all of them said because you shouldnt change yourself for guys.Boys like cheerleaders because they were short skirts and act all stuck up!but hey you could try out for cheerleading..that might help and also be more social start being outgoing and hang out with people more(if you arent already) goOd lucK!


Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting? (link)
omg! wut a skank! u have every right to be mad no your not overreacting! shes deff. not a very good friend i woulda kicked her ass!!freakin hoe!


My mom says I may have mono! What is mono and how can i cure it?! I am going to the doctor's today! And i'm a singer and I have aperformance next week do u think i will be able to perform by then or not?? (link)
its a kissing disease very contagious the doc will give u medicine n instructions on wut to do
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Well I have this friend, and me and her both like the same kid..=/ it's confussing because I was going out with hmm May 25th 2004 and then he dumped me on June 25th.. =/ and then me and her stopped being friends for a while.. and they have went out on and off and the off part we went out? we each went out with him 7 times in the past 6-7 months .. it's weird? but he dummped her just yesterday and says he likes me again, and I hate this because me and her are friends now and I had to do the dumping! =( I still love this kid but I am scared I don't wanna loose a friendship =o'( But I love him? What should I do (link)
um if you cant see it then wow..its sorta obvious that hes using you both!


I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?

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lol wow me and you have alot in common my names amanda and i like a guy named justin too..haha neways..id say go for him your friend knew u liked him first so she shouldnt of went for him neways..youve liked him for 3 years wut did she like him for like a week? personally if i was you id go for him you might regret not doing it. goOd luck amanda!
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my son age 9 has had knee pain,where he can not straighten leg for 4 to 5 days.first it was down the front of his leg and muscle at back as well as his knee.now it is under his knee cap. he cant walk properly and it is constantly there.can anyone help me with what might be the cause.he says he hasnt banged it or hurt it.he does suffer from growing pains.should his knee still be hurting after 4 days where he cannot walk prop. (link)
hey i had those knee problems...i had to get my surgically fixed because i had a more servere case of this. You should take your son to a knee/leg specialist so they can examine his knee because eventually by the time he is older he will go crippled if it isnt fixed. ( atleast this is what my doctor told me) i dont think that it would have anything to do with his head or ocd.So if i was you id take him to a knee/leg specialist!
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Does anyone have a tattoo on there lower back? I really want to get one when im 18. Or does anyone have one on their ankle. If so can you tell me how bad it hurt ect. Thanks. (link)
your ankle hurts worse because theirs not fat or tissue my mom has it there n she said it really hurt. also it doesnt hurt on your lower back my parents let me get one and it doesnt hurt at all.


1. I want to go to a tanning bed, BUT, i heard it causes skin cancer, Does it really? Alos, I want to get a tan and I know its fall/winter almost. Would it look stupid? And how much do they usually cost? And do you have to be skinny to go to one? (link)
yeah tanning beds can cause skin cancer in some people also dont go to often because my friend used to go like 4 times every week and it caused alotta medical problems. No it wouldnt look stupid alot of people are tan year round, like me for example, and i dont think it looks stupid. The prices vary from which place you go anywhere between $3 to even $20. No you dont have to be skinny to go to one its just you and yourself in a tanning bed room no one else!
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Do diet pills really work? I know there not healthy or anything. But i was thinking that if I went to my doctor they could perscribe me some healthy diet pills. Has anyone ever took them or a family/friend? And did it actually work. And yes I DO need to lose weight. Not a little about 100 pounds or so by next september or december. --And im also talking about the diet pills you can by in the stores. Thanks! (link)
my sister used them...she lost like 10 lbs in like 2 months..so i mean they arent very fast acting


i like this girl but i don't think i want to go out with her. i don't know if that makes any sense, but thats the way it is. anyway, i told my friend and he asked her if she would go out with me (i didn't tell him to) and she said no. my friend said that he didn't know if she was serious because he was acting like he was joking around and that she might have been too. I don't know wut to think. plz help. and does it make sense to like someone and not want to go out with them?

i'll rate anyone who tries to help (link)
yeah it makes sense to like someone and not want to go out with them. Just because you like someone doesnt mean you want to date them!


Last year i was at my mom's friend house and her daughter, a senior at the time, wanted to put blonde highlights in my hair, my hair was dirty blonde at the time. then those started looking bad so i colored it brown. But that is wearing off and i have no idea what to do. I don't really want a big color change but i want to go back to blonde. We can't match the color i have now bc it got really bleached .. i guess you could call it.. from the sun. I'm pretty tan.. and i really want blonde hair.. like back to dirty blonde hair. But i don't want to be another fake blonde. Is being a fake blonde that bad?

ps.. looking back at pictures the color before it was sunned looks soo bad!!! o and sorry for the longness!!! (link)
you wont really be a fake blonde because you were blonde before go for it!it might look better if you get your hair stripped tho!goOd luCK!


beginnin of last year me and this girl became very close. we are alot alike and we even look alike so when we hang out people ask if we are sisters or whatever. but recently shes been actin weird. im a grade higher than she is and a freshmen. whenever we are with my guy friends she changes and makes up lies to impress them. also we were together last weekend and the guy im currently interested in called. me n him talked for a while then she wanted to talk to him so i gladly agreed not knowin how it would turn out. she became extremly flirty and all "i love you i love you aww hahaha" and she knows i like him she even told him she drinks which she doesnt and that she is expiranced with guys... which she is not. this isnt the first time this has happened. first time it wasnt only the guy i liked. it was my current boyfriend please tell me what to do about this. thankssss =) (link)
wut a whore...she just wants attention..tell her to guy stand on the corner and find her some guys and to lay off yours


see i have this friend and my friend stick up for my worst enmey instead of me!! and i am super angry!!! what should i do??? (link)
wut a bitch she isnt really your friend


I'm making an all time favorite country c.d. and i was just wondering... what are some good/classic country songs that I could put on there? Thanks in advance! (link)
whiskey lullaby! by brad paisley and allison krauss everybody loves that song
Suds in the bucket-sarah evens
save a horse ride a cowboy-big & rich best song ever
i cant really think of alot of them now but if you leave one in my inbox or IM i can give you some more! IM: blondii14697


if a guy was to ask u out and u havent talked to him for three years how would you like him to do it? (link)
um...anyway i guess..as long as it wasnt in a note or something like that he cant seem shy to talk to me


i have a crush on this girl..Chrissy..... she knows i like her but i am too shy to talk to her and ask her out... does anyone have any advice for me to get over it and talk to her or give me something to say to her to start a convo.... please help me out ... thanks - (link)
deff dont talk to her about school..girls hate when guys start talking about school when they cant think of anything else to say it makes em sound like nerds


Ok. My cat Zoey will not stop pooping on the floor! She has a litter box and all she does is poop on the floor right next to it. She's not a baby, shes almost 4 yrs. old and she's always used the litter box fine, just recently she has started doing this, her litter box is clean because i clean it at least once every two days and i dont know what to do with her anymore, she has done this at least 10 times. I know that like putting their nose in it and saying no works on dogs but does it work od cats? Please if anyone knows anything i can do then tell me! Thanks in advance! (link)
hahaha ever wonder y most ppl dont have catS?


I'm 15/f. Ok, so my sister recently had her Bat Mitzvah and a ton of family cane up. So this one family, who is related because their mom is my mom's cousin, and their dad is my dad's friend (before they were married), and their kids are my 3rd cousins. Well they have two kids, one whho is my age and didn't come to the Bat Mitzvah, and one who is 13, 8th grade. So this kid came over to our house after the party with a ton of my other friends, and we all had a blast. The problem, what if i like him? I don't want to because many people will find it gross. I know it's not incest because sometimes first cousins don't even count as incest. Also the fact that he is two years younger. Some people find that really wrong. The next time I'm going to see him is at his Bar Mitzvah at the end of November. I don't know what to do. We had a great time together, and my friend wanted us to "hook-up." But I don't think he hates me, i think he thinks I'm kind of cool. When we were surfing vodeo clips he kept saying, "I think you'll like this one" I mean, if feels like he would be perfect if he was my age and not my 3rd cousin. Are these feelings gross or weird? What should I do? please help. I'll rate. Sorry it's so long. (link)
even if he is your 3rd cousin hes still your cousin so thats still incest but hey if you really like him go for it dont care what other ppl think you cant always go by what ppl think or say

sorrie your wrong actually a cousin is a cousin 1st second fifth-teenth! but hey if thats the way you feel about it then go for it!


I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to? (link)
yeah its true but its just a lollipop its not like your getting a million dollars or nething




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