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Hmm..


Question Posted Thursday November 4 2004, 8:00 pm

Well I have this friend, and me and her both like the same kid..=/ it's confussing because I was going out with hmm May 25th 2004 and then he dumped me on June 25th.. =/ and then me and her stopped being friends for a while.. and they have went out on and off and the off part we went out? we each went out with him 7 times in the past 6-7 months .. it's weird? but he dummped her just yesterday and says he likes me again, and I hate this because me and her are friends now and I had to do the dumping! =( I still love this kid but I am scared I don't wanna loose a friendship =o'( But I love him? What should I do <l3

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PerkyPeacock answered Sunday November 7 2004, 1:03 pm:
he's playing the both of you... let him go, he's not worth your time. tell him that you may one day reconsider going out with him providing he grows up and learns that girls aren't toys.

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alisonmarie answered Friday November 5 2004, 7:15 am:
This guy doesn't like either of you enough to commit to you, so why are you letting yourself in for this emotional rollercoaster?

Your friendship is constantly at risk, and so is your heart. On again, off again relationships don't work - I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's a fact. It's often a sign that the people involved aren't ready for a relationship, or that they simply don't want to date a particular person.

This triangle isn't fair to anyone involved in it. If this were me, I'd push aside my feelings for this boy and respect myself. I would not be okay with this sort of situation, and I don't think you should be, either.

You are loveable and deserve a guy who recognizes it.

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pInKlIpGlOsSxO answered Thursday November 4 2004, 9:20 pm:
Ok .. well i think .. mayb u shuld ask her about it. Like if she has a problem with it..like still likin him.. u shuld jus wait till she gets over him. And then u can go out wit him wit no fears of loosein ur friendship..
<3 hope this helpped

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday November 4 2004, 9:16 pm:
um if you cant see it then wow..its sorta obvious that hes using you both!

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xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Thursday November 4 2004, 8:54 pm:
Hun, he sounds like he is a playa to me! Can you and this guy just be friends so you will have 2 friends and not lose one of you girl-friends?? I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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