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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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does anybody know any good lipgloss/chapstick/etc...brands or flavors that work well while kissing? I'm looking for something that is moist like chapstick, flavorful, and looks good...i'm actually more concerned with the moist and flavor thing..any ideas? thank you.
I RATE HIGH

If you are going to buy lipgloss, don't buy a sticky kind (I think everyone knows the difference between sticky and good lipgloss) but back to the point. Most of them arn't made to have a smell/flavor but smell/probably taste really good...

1: MegaBrilliance LipGloss-Wet'n'Wild
2: Naturistics Lipsicles-Rasberry Riot (Its comes in a tube which is why is it called lipsicles)
3: BeautyTreats- DAZZLINGlipgloss (I have the red, but there are many other colors)
4: LipGlide Sheer (from Revlon)- Sheerly Blossom
5: Glasewear- dazzlers

There are probably a lot of good ones out there but these are my favorites of the ones that I have, good luck!
Ashley♥

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if my period wasnt late at all and its only just started and not really really heavy does that mean that im pregnant?

No your not pregnant, because as long as you have your period you can't be. Hope I helped!
Ashley♥

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what does gut mean?
like... " gut from the side"

Like cut, stab etc. Because have you even heard "gutting a fish" (I know it sounds gross) but ya that's what it means.
Ashley♥

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are? boobs fat?

Haha yes.
Ashley♥

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how do u clean out your computer without deleteting files?

I have this McAfee thing and I right click the icon, then go to virus scan. It scans all my files and if there are any found it cleans them or I have the choice to delete them. Sorry I can't help with another company
Ashley♥

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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week?

No, it's not that much, your old enough and its safe, sounds fine to me!
Ashley♥

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ok for english i have to write an easy on how to play a game. i choice any game that i want except i want simple game that i can write a 5 paragh essay on can someone help me? i would like to know a game and how to play it. i will give 5's to all

Haha duck duck goose! It would be soooo easy, you should do that.
Ashley♥

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i'm dying my hair red. what is a good kind of dye to use? my sister is going to do it. and it needs to be inexpensive from walmart.

Use Herbal Essencess, it's really good.
Ashley♥

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I want to know if it's possible to answer feedback once it's on my column, and how you do it. I want to give the person who gave feedback to my answer to their question some more advice but don't know if or how I can.

Thanks

Kizlode

Go back the question you answer, click answer, then your old answer will already be type in. You could just add on for additional information.
Ashley♥

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http://tinypic.com/i5tawn.jpg
First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM

OH MY GOSH! HOW CUTE! I absoulutely love your puppy, awww. lol, okay sorry. I read the answers before me and I think peanut was cute. Here are some names.
+peanut
+teeny
+waldo
+mocha
+biscut
+ted, teddy etc.
+jack
+lemon
+tiny
+luey

I don't know, I tried lol. These are just names I think of when I see him.

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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?

Yes, it is very cute to think about but when you really think about it. Your 14! Your either still in middle school or just starting high school. Plus I don't even know if there is a place that will wed two people under 18. Also don't wait untill he is 18 because you will be 16 and thats illegal so just wait until you are both adults and KNOW FOR SURE you wanna spend the rest of your life with him. He proposed over the phone?

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is there anyway i can get checked for stds without my parents knowing? or the heatlh center letting them know?

Yes, docters are not legally aloud to tell them unless you say it is alright. So just go to your nearest health clinic. Good Luck!
Ashley♥

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what is better for music for an ipod :
ares or limewire.. and why

Limewire is better because it is pretty fast and it is just better lol.
Ashley♥

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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this.

It is totally up to you but I think you are making a bad decision. Having your own baby is EAY different then babysitting. How are you planning to pay for the baby's clothes, food, toys, bottles, crib, diapers, plus all the stuff you need. If you have a baby you won't go to collage. And you said your parents don't love you, well then who would help you with the baby, and where would the father be in this kid's life? I just think it is a bad idea. Wait untill you are out of collage AND MARRIED so the baby can grow up with both parents knowing it is loved.

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im doings a essay for school that has to be size 14 but what font can i use that makes its bigger because like arial size 14 and tahoma size 14 are different because it can be the same exact essay and the tahoma one will be a page longer because tahoma is wider than arial (thats just an example) but does anyone know the biggest font?

+Cobalt
+Bangle Wide
+Beach Extended
+Broadcast
+Chaz Extended

Those are some good ones because they are either wide or just bigger. Also, make the title really big and use bold. That should help you have to write less lol.
Ashley♥

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My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)

Oh my god! Okay, I'm just going to tell you what I think happened and not lie. I think he used you. I mean if he keeps breaking up with his ex then getting back together, it was obviously going to happen again. I think deep down you still had feelings for him and thats why you went to his house and all that, you made those feelings stronger then once he was done with you he went back to his ex and you got hurt in the long run. It sucks but that is what I think happened. He got bored with one girl, went to the next, then went back. I'm so surprized that you would handle it so well. I would be so sad/mad/every emotion lol. But ya, my advice, don't talk to him at all/or a LITTLE because this whole thing might happen again
Ashley♥

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whats a really good liquid eyeliner under 7 bucks?

Prestige Cosmetics Liquid for $5.99
Ashley♥

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i'm going to a green day concert in december and i realise there'll be thousands of people there but my friend and i were wondering whether there is ANY CHANCE of getting our cd signed. like, could we leave it with security guards and pick it up later?? or wait around long enough afterwards and go ask the band ourselves?? i dunno, we're not too fussed but we're wondering whether to try or not. thanks.

I wish it was that easy! There are like 27348467362903784 people at those concerts and unless you have backstage passes then you would have to wait in line for HOURS if they were even signing. Good luck though, maybe you'll get lucky
Ashley♥

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What would a 14-15 year old girl think if they saw the guys cock jus the shape of it from your shorts, cause theyre basketball shorts. Would they think its gross, hot!, orweird ?

Different for each girl, I think wierd, but some girls think its hot.

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Me and my boyfriend recently broke up, and he already has a new girlfriend. There's this guy I've been talking to, but we're only friends. We've hung out ALOT, and done some stuff. I have the choice to have sex with him, and I think I want to. But people say he has herpes, and I'm not sure if he does or not. Should I ask him? Or just go for it? And if I need to ask him..what do i say?

You need to DEFINATELY ask him. DO NOT take the risk of having sex with him if he does have herpes. Also, it does make a difference how you ask him. DONT SAY: "People are saying you have herpes so I need to know before I have sex with you" because it would be awkward. Say it more casually and more sensitive. Like: I like you A LOT and I really do want to have sex with you but I can take the risk if you have herpes, you can understand right?" Good Luck!
Ashley♥

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