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Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do!

Well, that is disterbing... would moving on and going to a new guy help any??
H.I.H. simone

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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!

Play games with him. Or watch a movie. that always works when i babysit ma two boys next door.
simone

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I have short finger nails and I need to know a way how not to get nail polish every where aroung my nail, and I use dark colors so it's hard. Does anyone out there know how to do this? If so please help!
♥Jess

Start off using some lighter colors like a green, blue, purple, red or somethin. Then when you think you have a hang for it try the darker.
HTH
simone

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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me?

Meet with him and talk about what hes like and see if you have any similarities. Then if you think he's a really good friend tell you friends that hes actually not that bad of a guy, and that they shouldnt listen to rumors.
H.I.H.
simone

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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!

uhh... well i dont know but he could be?

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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!

Well i get M magazien. it has fullsized posters and small posters... It also has some stuff on the back (pics)
H.T.H.
simone

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I am a 14 year old boy who will get a caniche toy poodle in less than two months and I am very, very happy about it but there is a problem. Waiting is killing me. Those two months seem like eternity for me. What do I do to make me feel like the time is going faster. Hope you know what I mean.
Any advice will be appreciated.

Id be the same way!
Ocupy (sp?) yourself with something that you enjoy doing, or just chill with your friends. lol
simone

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Hey every1,
This is miSSc and I need some advice about my singing...I can sing, but my vocal range (singing range) is kinda limited and my voice cracks sometimes when I go high. I know most of you will say that I should get voice lessons but...I don't have time for one. I use to take lessons but I had to give up because I started not having time for one. So...got any tips? I want to improve my "chest" voice. The highest note I can hit is a high "C" but I want to go higher with out straining my voice and not cracking either. Please help me!!!!
Sincerely,
MiSSc

Practice everyday. It will warm your voice better and then it will be easyer to sing high. Trust me i know lol I do the same thing... but practicing every day will definatly help you voice to high notes. Good Luck!
simone

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Ive been singing since i can remember. I can hit any note, and i can do that thing that christina aguilera and whitney houston do. I REALLY wanna get out of where i am now, and my parents arent helping. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get myself a record deal? this sounds stupid but im serious about being a professional singer.. i write my own songs and play the guitar with most of them.
THANKS SO MUCH

Try going to a recording studeo and see what they think... but make sure its not like crappy or anything cuz you dont wanna get cheated. How ever that would work...
You could also (if you have enough guts to do this) randomly sing in the crowd or try going to tallent shows. There might just be a record dealer there...?
simone

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I'm trying very hard to learn the drums. (I'm trying to teach myself) if anyone out there can tell me what all the drums on the set are called , or knows any site that can help me, id be very happy. Thanks!!
-Janine-

Hey there drummer...lol
Well here are the instrument names:
High Hat
Simbol (Crash)
Simbol (ride)
Snair (sp?)
Bass Drum
Tomb (Bass)
Tomb (2) i dono the exact name for those...
Theres also more simbols and tombs (i think) but you can always go to a music store and check those out.
hope that helped alittle more...
simone

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heyy, i started guitar a few months ago and im havin sum truble gettin the really fast, like quarter knotes and 1/2 quarter knotes down i just cant get my hand to go that fast! lol any1 hav any addvice??

Uhm... you could try doing some finger exersizes?
lol H.I.H.
simone

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ok, i really like to sing, im ok i guess... but id really like to get better on my own w/o voice lessons or w/e. r there ne good methods for strengthining my voice and making it sound better?
*~*thanx a ton*~*

It helps if you turn the radio up loud and sing to it for a while. Do this everyday and your voice will improve and become stronger. It worked for me, why dont you give it a try?
Hope that helped.
simone

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ok well ive been singing,acting, and dancing my whole life..i now believe im ready to get out there and be big but i need some people to tlel me how to and also i go to a voice teacher but if theres any voice warmups or voive advancers please tell me...just tell me anyhting aboiut dnace, theatre,SINGING, and modeling thanx x00x luv yah

Well with the singing, since i sing too i'd practice everyday if you can just so your voice improves fast and you get better at it. i usually sing to other music, but i dont know what you do so...if what your doing helps keep it up. And if you wanna get somewhere you could try going to a recording studeo and see if they would let you rent the room or w.e.
H.I.H
simone

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now. We dont get to see each other that much because we go to different schools, but im going to his school next month so things will get better. Well this weekend he wants to do somthin, but its up to me to find out somewhere for us to go on our date. We went to the movies last weekend so i want to go somewhere new. So if you have any good date ideas, please help.

Depending on where you live you could go to a Six Flags, Main Event, Movies again (lol) the mall, rollerblading at a park (if you like doing that) Go to the lake or somethin and rent a boat. Um... what else...You could go bowling (?) where else i dont knoe but i hope i helped. Good Luck!
simone

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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??

How old are you?
and i dono... sry

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ok so i like this guy jake and he liked my friend Ashley. I would talk to him and tell him what she said about him and all. And basically Ashley hates Jake now because he lied to her about not going out with this other girl Brittney. I know that Ashley doesn't hate but she does really dislike him. but see i like Jake. And i really want to go out with him and flirt with him too. but if i go out with Jake then ashley is going to get mad and tell other people. That would ruin my rep. and maybe our friendship. I really like him but should i go out with him and continue to flirt with him?

Well if you really like him then go for it. Don't worry about your rep. Once you get older you'll start to loose it anyway. But if you really really like Jake then flirt with him and w.e. Dont worry about it so much.
H.I.H.
simone

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!!

I'm not sure if you want one or not but if you do tell him to wait a few years. If he can be patient then he'll understand.
H.I.H.
simone

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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop

well lets just say that all guys tend to look at other girls but that doesnt meant that he doesnt love you. And dont worry as much on how you look. If he said you pretty he probably means it. So just cool down a little and dont concentait on how u think you look as much.
H.I.H.
Niki

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what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?

Well the age might seem alittle odd right now but if you like him go for it!

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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?

wow, kool a musician... but anyway my advice... lol.
It seems kinda hard to tell but he might want alittle more space, but to me it sounds like he's waiting for you to make the move. So call him when you think the time is right.
simone

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