Whats the best way to dump your boyfriend? thanx
Jus tell him like you dont wanna go with him and why.. jus be real..much luv dez
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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!
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Jus compliment her but be annoying with it.. tell her how you feel bout her be real and open.. yea talkin to her on the phone is a goo way and so is when your with her..um you should also hold her and stuff when you tell her these things so she knows your real with it.. much luv dez
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I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time?
Yes pulling them gradually is better..that way you'll get to know em and you wont jus be goin with anybody..and i think somebody in your social group is a good idea cause then you know things bout them.. and good guy traits is always personality.. you know they have to make you laugh keep you happy when your down..be there when you need somebody.. um looks isnt always something you need but its always good to be attractive to em in somekind of way..and sweetness is always always good.. gotta love a sweetheart but you also want em to be a lil meany when it comes to other people..um well if your close with a person in some kinda way they might become more..much luv dez
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how do you let a guy know that u like him, but now being to obvious but by giving him little hints so maybe he will ask you out?
Jus kinda flirt dont make it anything major.. lik jus do lil things so he knows you like him..much luv dez
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i really dont know what to do...i hate my stepdad i just cannot stand him his such an asshole..and i told me mom and she knows i hate him..and when his friends are over he acts like hes all bad and shit..hes nuthin, and he told me today when its rainin and thundering outside to go and mow the yard...my mom argues with him all the time because hes a lil selfish bitch and he does nuthin for other people...he thinks he gots it all good cause he doesnt have to pay for the house cause my real dad does...i have a choice of moving to my dads house but i dont want to break my moms heart...what should i do?i have really thought about killing him...lol..i mean ill come home with really nice clothes and he'll be like wheres mine..i mean he trys to joke around sometimes but i just want him to know i do not like him...
i feel you on this question.. i hate my step dad one my worst enemys but my story is different on why i hate him..and truthfully i liked him at first but he fucked that up *long story* but anyways um i understand you dont wanna hurt your mom's feelings cause i had the same choice too and i couldnt do it and im kinda a lil mommy's girl.. but for some reason when i get an attitude and be mean to him i feel so good.. i mean i dont even know why i jus do.. like when i get mad at anybody i jus wanna take it out on him.. and i do what ever i can to hurt his feelings cause i know how he is and what can get in his head and hurt him.. but i mean if you wan him to know you hate him be somewhat like that i guess.. and i hate when my step dad be actin fake like we have a great relationship knowing we dont.. but im not sure if i answered your question..much luv dez
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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say?
Well i would act the same way as you if my boyfriend said something mean to me.. i mean that isnt right if he dont like the way you look den he shouldnt go with you or say anything cause girls feelings get hurt pretty easily and we worry bout if we look good for our boyfriends and everything and i would probably feel real dumb if my dude jus busted out with something bout how i look.. um also i think you should talk to him and tell him how that made you feel.. i mean also ask him why he said that bout you.. much luv
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I have been off and on with this girl named Lindsey for about a year we really loved eachtoiher but me being a guiy screwed everything up.I broke up with her because she likes another guy i still love her but her and this guy may go out i dont know what to really do i love her and she doesnt know if she loves me or not help me
Talk to her..much luv dez
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me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?
Well spending time with him isnt bad but maybe too much will get annoying and things will get old and your relationship could end maybe real easy cause of you guys seein eachother so much.. you might get tired of seein eachother everyday.. but always make sure you have time for yourself too..much luv dez
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me and my bf are always joking around, and we aren't serious that much. i feel like i don't know him quite as well as i would like and that we never talk about anything serious. any suggestions?
Well tell him that.. tell him you dont feel like your relationship is serious jus tell him that you would like for you both to be open with eachother..and still joke around and stuff but also have a serious part of a relationship while its not playin around and everything..much luv dez
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hey im 14/f and im 5'4 and im about 100 pounds. I wanna take off like 10 pounds for the summer, but i dont want it to be a rapid change. I was hoping in like 4 months i could loose tht weight. What is the best way to loose the weight but not torcher myself? PLEZ HELP!!
Your weight sounds fine to me for your height and age.. im 16 and 5'2 and weigh 107.. and i know my body isnt perfect but hun your fine da way you are..much luv dez
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does any one no any tricks to making deoderant last longer?? thanks a bunch
Jus keep reapplying deoderant through out the day.. or buy a real good deoderant that is like 24 hours or something.. much luv
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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice...
Wear what you want.. im the same way i usually always wear dark clothes..but i dont get no problems cause i do.. but um also jus keep tellin em to shut up and tell like hey im gon wear what i want eather you like it or not so if your embarassed of the way i dress then dont go anywhere with me..much luv dez
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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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stonecoldmystery
Well people dont have to know what goes on between you might also be better cause he's older then you and everything..also um if you do love him and you know he loves you then you shouldnt regret it ever in your life make sure of that for one thing.. and i dont think if its a bad idea if you have all these kinda feelings and he has em for you too.. and people shouldnt look at you differently you lost it to somebody you love..you didnt jus pick some random person off the street and fucked em..ya feel me...?? go for it and best of luck to you babe..much luv dez
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people at school are starting to say i smell...
i dont understand, i wear deodorant and i wash with soap when im in the shower...i use shampoo and conditioner too so i cant think of what it could be. they have been saying this for a while and i used to think that they said it just to make me feel bad and it is starting to hurt my feelings...what can i do to smell better?
Well if you dont notice it maybe your use to it.. ask somebody you know will be truthful to you.. like ask a parent.. and if your a guy wear colonge and if your a female wear body spray..much luv dez
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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now
Well your cousin doesnt have to know bout you havin sex..it can stay between you and your boyfriend.. much luv dez
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well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?
He probably hasnt done it that much and probably worried about what you think or something.. maybe he'll losin up after a while.. much luv dez
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What are the affects of taking the Morning after pill too late?
it probably wont work..much luv
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im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!
Well you should talk to your boyfriend about this.. i mean tell this guy how you feel about all this..and why you feel this way.. i mean you wanna talk to him before you lose him..and dont let things get old between you all.. much luv
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thanks for the advice i have told him how i feel, i understand that he will find it hard for him to trust me again and he has staed that numerously to me, but i am trying to prove to him that rihgt now he is the one i wnat to be with forever and we have come to an understanding and basically we back together im happy hope this wont reoccure anytime soon.thanks for that but how can i express my self more for him to regain my trust.
Well im not real sure on that um well for one thing make sure you dont fall for somebody else.. um jus be there for him like you always have and also jus be basically the same as you was before all that happened.. much luv
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okay well im 14 and in the 8th grade i started my period in the 6th grade and i only go for 2 days every tiem i have it maybe 3 but i only had it moer then 3 like 2 other times in my life and they were really light.. im not a lil tiny girl but im not fat or anything im just a regular girl and i was wondering if its normal or not, i saw that there was someone else asking that but usally she has it for 5 she said i always have it for 2 :-/ i promise ill rate 5!
Yea its okay..some people arent real heavy.. it okay.. and your lucky to have have it for a short period of time.. much luv
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