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When looking for a guy, what type should you look 4
I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time?
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Yes pulling them gradually is better..that way you'll get to know em and you wont jus be goin with anybody..and i think somebody in your social group is a good idea cause then you know things bout them.. and good guy traits is always personality.. you know they have to make you laugh keep you happy when your down..be there when you need somebody.. um looks isnt always something you need but its always good to be attractive to em in somekind of way..and sweetness is always always good.. gotta love a sweetheart but you also want em to be a lil meany when it comes to other people..um well if your close with a person in some kinda way they might become more..much luv dez
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I think that the way you pull boys is fine cuz if thats how you work then hey, thats how u work.But i think a guy has to be CUTE definitely and he has to know how to treat a girl and he has to be FUNNY or atleast ADVENTUROUS and he cant be all stuck up and he shouldnt have a bad ego. Hope I Helped.
GOOD LUCK!
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yes it is the right way..thas what i do anyway
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I'd widen your serach first dont go with people that are already in your social group look around. Everyones different. There isnt a type that you look for because one person might have one quilaty you want and another have anotehr quality just go with the flow and things will soon happen. Hope its ood advice. xx
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well everyone's different. one guy might be perfect for your friend but not for you. and you can date anyone you want to. dont let people tell you otherwise. its your choice not theirs. and people look for guys in different ways. do what you think is right. this might be confusing, but friends will help you out too. take me for example, my friend tryed to protect me from this one guy im dating. and i understand that she was protecting me, but my feeling for him were much stronger. so im still with him and we've been goin out for 1 1/2 yrs. he has hurt me a few times, but i love him too much to leave him. friends will be there to protect you. good luck and i hope i helped any.
~Kare
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the right way is your way. if you like to edge them on first than that how you do it. their is no right or wrong way. unless you like a freak or some jerk, not sayin you are. usually it's better for the person to be from your social group because that means he's got things in common with you already and you know eachother so you wont have those "dramatic pauses". a good trait in a guy is to see if he likes you more for who you are than just looks, and you also have to like his personality for it to truely work. srry i dont get your last question cause it's like worded wrong, but i hope my other info helped you.
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