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i really dont know what to do...i hate my stepdad i just cannot stand him his such an asshole..and i told me mom and she knows i hate him..and when his friends are over he acts like hes all bad and shit..hes nuthin, and he told me today when its rainin and thundering outside to go and mow the yard...my mom argues with him all the time because hes a lil selfish bitch and he does nuthin for other people...he thinks he gots it all good cause he doesnt have to pay for the house cause my real dad does...i have a choice of moving to my dads house but i dont want to break my moms heart...what should i do?i have really thought about killing him...lol..i mean ill come home with really nice clothes and he'll be like wheres mine..i mean he trys to joke around sometimes but i just want him to know i do not like him...
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be honest with him ..tell your mom that you want to live with your dad and that you dont want to break her heart but this is what you want to do. tell your mom that he is only wit her becuase he doesnt have to pay for the house.
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I think you should talk to your mom about how you feel. Make it clear that you really think he is a piece of shit. Try to get her to understand that you don't think he is the right choice for her. About moving in with your mom or dad: Ask if you can live with both. Like one parent for 1 month and the other parent for another. Besta Luck
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call me and ill have my special friend shove a crowbar up his ass
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be honest with him ..tell your mom that you want to live with your dad and that you dont want to break her heart but this is what you want to do. you could just ignore him and brush him off eveyday but sometimes thats hard to do. get to know him maybe he isnt is bad as you think
i hope i helped a little bit* <3 michelle
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Tell your mom hes using you. If he doesnt have to pay for the house like you said, he doesnt want to contribute to your life. He doesnt care about either of you if he cant pay for the house, and since hes not, hes just going to use you 2 because its a roof to live under and doesnt waste so much of his preciouse money. Move out and go to your real dad.
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i feel you on this question.. i hate my step dad one my worst enemys but my story is different on why i hate him..and truthfully i liked him at first but he fucked that up *long story* but anyways um i understand you dont wanna hurt your mom's feelings cause i had the same choice too and i couldnt do it and im kinda a lil mommy's girl.. but for some reason when i get an attitude and be mean to him i feel so good.. i mean i dont even know why i jus do.. like when i get mad at anybody i jus wanna take it out on him.. and i do what ever i can to hurt his feelings cause i know how he is and what can get in his head and hurt him.. but i mean if you wan him to know you hate him be somewhat like that i guess.. and i hate when my step dad be actin fake like we have a great relationship knowing we dont.. but im not sure if i answered your question..much luv dez
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Tell your dad whats going down and I garantee your dad will go over there and beat his ass which he deserves if i was your dad i would
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talk to your mom about it... tell her that if he doesnt leave you will move to your dads... and that should make her think twice... tell her you cant stand it anymoer... tell her what he says to you... and tell her that you want him out of the house cuz hes an ass and he doesnt do anything to help provide for the family and that she needs a man who will be there to help provide for you guys not just live of you guys! if u need anymore help just ask. hope i helped
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You're right, he does sound like an asshole. You should try talking to your mother again and tell her the things that your stepdad says to you. If your mom and your stepdad argue a lot, you should tell your mom that you two shouldn't be arguing and that she needs to kick him out because he is ruining your family. Talk to your stepdad and tell him that you don't like it when he tells you to do stuff that you shouldn't do at a particular time such as mowing the lawn when it's raining and just by joking around. Tell him that he needs to think before he says or does anything. If you don't want to break your mother's heart, then you should stay at your mother's house but I think you should take a break and live at your dad's house for a little bit so you can clear some things up and feel better. You and your mom definitely don't deserve your stepdad in your lives because she shouldn't be arguing with him all the time and he shouldn't be mean and rude to you. Just think and decide how you want to handle this.
-Karen
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It sounds like he's screwing up everyone in your family. He seems like a real ass if you ask me. I think you should talk to your mom about this and tell her how much you hate him. Tell him all the things he does/says to you. She's the only one that has the power to kick him out. You should still talk to your step dad about this. Tell him how much you don't like him and how much he hurts you. Tell him you find he's screwing up your family because of his cocky remarks. Maybe if he knows someone hates him, he could change. Just tell him all the reasons why you dislike him. Maybe some of them reasons will hit him hard and get him thinking about things.
♥ Krissy
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well if you dont like him, and your mom aruge with him all the time, kick him out! hes got no right to be mooching off of yur family! your mom must really like him or sumthing. but i would bring it up with your mom more often. she's the one with the power to kick that bastards ass outta the door. now go get yur house back!
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