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i shave with like normal razors like not like with the expensive ones. its weird that like.. when i shave, like say under my arms, they always leave like little black spots where the hair use to be and the next day it grows like 1 mm. is this suppose to happen? or can i make it all disappear so i don't have those black hair dot things at all? please help me

oh everyone i know has those bumps. yeah they look kinda gross but there nothin u can do about it other than shaving them everyday.

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its about spring...and summer is about to come....i want 2 start wearing halter tops and tube tops...the thing is my back and my chest!!....i have real back acne scars mostly on my back....n its starting 2 get worse on my chest!...does anyone know anything that i can help cure this??....is there anything that can clear up scars...or is there just stuff to help frum preventing them...

o gosh! i say go see a derm and your problem is probably hormonal so scrubbing like crazy with a million different things wont help you. you will most likely be on a prescription and taht will help clear it all up for ya.

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Is Ellen Degenirus a lesbian? I dont know! Help!

yeah she was with rosie o'donnell...i think they "broke up" tho. her show is hilarious...

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i need some backup for this:
this "Gangsta rap" dude at school slapped one and punched another girl in the middle of the hallway two days ago. needless to say he got suspended. I work with one of the girls and the guy. he is a lazy grocery bagger, she's also a bagger.
Question: need opinions from both sexes on the issue of "guys can't hit girls". personally, i want to thrash him within an inch of his life, as do most of the other guys i have talked to. is that a bad thing?
other info: he's done it before, and has had his ass kicked multiple times for it.
did i mention that he also dresses like a drug dealing lowlife? oh yeah i did, stupid kids trying to live like gangsters in suburbia.
-hilter

i hate when guys hit girls. it doesnt show strength...its a weakness. this guy should be in juvie...i mean seriously guy like that never make it big in the world anyway (being in the suburbs doesnt help much) hahaha if all the other guys what to beat him that bad...well, he prolly doesnt have any "homies" to back him up so id say get your gang together and beat the living hell outta him. it might get you in trouble but in some ways, its worth it. ah thats all i can think of...luck.

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Today im going out with this guy i like and i dont know what to wear hear are ideas from what i have (Where going to the mall)
Abercombie skirt thats white and says abercombie on the back with blue top short sleeve.
Green Capris with a brown shirt shirt logo(One bad'69 with a car on it looks pretty cool)
A pink straped holter to with capris that have a pink like stiching
Or blue jean pants with one of those shirts
thznk yall

where/what are you guys doing? if your gonna go to a movie or something wear the skirt. if its something active, wear the blue top and jeans.

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umm i know i prolly sound really dumb, but what is grinding?!? please answer! ill rate high

a lot of ppl ask that question...your not dumb lol. its basically when you "grind" against preferably a person of the opposite sex even though i have seen a line of straight girls do it at dances. back 2 front..that should explain it.

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ok so im homeschooled... and next year i'll be going into 9th grade. I'm still deciding if i should keep homeschooling or go back to public. All my fiends want me to go back. I want to too but then i have two places i wanna be at.. I love being homeschooled and all but i feel like im missing the socializing... so im not sure which i should go to...
what do you think?
plz help i needa know!
i rate

i'd go with going back to public cuz i would feel kinda out of the loop if i wasnt there with my friends. just go with whichever you like best...thats the most important thing.

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This probably sounds really gay. But im OBSESSED with the computer. I mean im on AIM from 7 in the morning during school and until 930 - 10 @ night. I waste practically my whole day on it when i dont have school or something. I just want to get away from it and do something else but i can't! i

lol! i have the same problem sometimes! just get together with friends or the ppl you talk to online so u dont have to be online to talk with them. computers are very lovable tho... just turn it off...show it that you are more powerful than it!

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I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?

He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken.

if i were you, i would TRY to love again. love is a beautiful thing. its been 9 months and you should consider yourself lucky to find a guy like that. enjoy every moment while it lasts and dont think too far into the future.

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I am very good friends with this guy and have been interested in him for a while. Last summer he started watching me and other people would tell me that he was doing this it has progressed to a mutual flirting as well he has told me that if anyone would notice what I wear it would be him. He told to call him if I need anything or ever just want to talk and has told me that he would be offended if I needed help and didnt ask him because he wants to be there for me. He gets upset if he feels people misuse me or if they make comments that arent called for. Does he like me and if so why hasnt he asked me out?

well yeah he definatly likes you. sometimes its hard with those guys. a friend of mine also said that and i just thought he was bein nice then he admits he likes me so im like wow. he might be a bit shy or just not comfortable. if he keeps sending the signals, ask him out...i used to not believe in it but girls can do that!

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Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
please help i rate 5s for average answers.

xOxO

well ill give you my situation that you might be able to relate to: my school doesnt allow make up or handbags during the day so you cant really touch up. so try using a powder foundation which usually lasts, water proof mascara and maybelline unstopable eye liner or just something water/sweat proof. try and everlast lipcolor by cover girl. hope this helps!

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My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore.

well honestly i avoid it all together until she asks where they are...then i postpone it a bit and say theyre "in my drawer" or "a friend borrowed them". it might not be the most honest thing but shell never know WHEN you lost them. or you could just 'fess up and be sad about it and shell get the idea.

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I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =)

lets go, yeah, 1, 2 step, goodies, ice ice baby (old school)... tahts all i can think of right now...ill add more later if i can think of any.

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you did answer a question i asked on here

ok i told u mine...whats your sn?

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hey you seem to give reallly good advice. can i have your aol sn? by the way my name is james.

hey..umm well i guess if u actually ask questions on here ill give it to you...

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on AIM, when you put your cursor over someone's screen name, it says "Service, Warnings, Online Time, Capabilities" right?

Well when I put my cursor over my best friend's screen name, it says all of those things, but the last thing says "Comments: BFF"

She said she didn't put it there, so how did it get there? Is there a way to give certain people secret messages when they hover over your screen name? If anyone knows, how? Thanks

i usually put who the ppl are cuz i dont really know what theyre supposed to be...you right click on their sn and "store/edit comment" then you put in w/e.

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i play basketball and i was the third leading scorer last year on my team. number one rebounder and number one all around defensive player. but my dilema is i really want to play golf which means i cant play bbal couse htye over lap. i cant make a decision.

i honestly would go for *bball* but its a hard decision only you can make. i had to do that but i ended up playing both which was really hard.

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I'm going to be applying for a job soon, and on my resume..do I put on there that I do a lot of community service hours or does that not matter?

i say go ahead and throw it in. it shows your a hard worker and a resume you basically get a chance to brag about yourself so go for it.

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Well for the past year and a half or so, we've been working on re-decorating my bedroom. Right now I have one of my bedroom walls a hot pink colour and the rest are white. I wanted to accent my room with lime green, so that there wasn't so much pink. I'm painting my closet doors in that sublime green colour with hot pink stripes down the middle of each of them, but I wanted to add more green into my bedroom. My idea was to put some sort of design in the corners of my walls like right at the top where the corner of the two walls meet the ceiling. My only delema is, I'm stumped as to what design I should use in those corners. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what the design should be in the corner? I'm open to any ideas! Thanks!

im into hearts, stars, n swirlies and either one of those painted lime green would be cool.

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the hair on my legs grows back so fast. ill shave with a brand new razor then the next day hair is back. how do i keep hair away for a long time.
ill rate!!

you dont have to be perfectly smooth all the time. you can go 1 or 2 days or just every other time you shower. it sucks to shave everyday! just wear pants of put on lotion after you shave.

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