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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Does anyone know someone with a tattoo who is younger than 16.

Yeah. My friend's dad died last year, so he got a tattoo in his honor and my friend was about 15 when it happened.

Okay. i did type to where you can understand it?!? so i dont know what your deal is.

but whatever i dont give a fuck report me!

i didnt do shit to you

thank you

No. You didn't.

You still had the same errors; if not more; and it was still difficult to read. Therefore, it never changed, and you put it in my inbox to be a dick.

And let's just leave me the same inbox about 4 times, okay? But now since you're being rude, I actually have a reason to. =) Congrats for being LAME!

hey.my name is Amber..
ok---.so i like this dude n he likes me back,but we arnt goin out yet.but what botherz me is that one of my best friends used to go with him not to long ago. well she says shes not mad n that she doesnt care at all.but then i have this feeling that she also wants to cuss me out.but heres the thing i dont git if i feel that way n if she rly does wanna do that i dont git it cuz she broke up with him its realy wierd.

thank uu

Amber♥

If you're going to be a dick & not type properly in my inbox as a joke after I specificly told you that you're typing was hard to read, then don't leave me any god damn inboxes. The next time you do this shit, I'll report you. =)

hey.my name is Amber.i have this problem well i dont know if it is or not but w\e.

ok---.so i lke this dude n he lkes me back,but we rnt goin out yet.but wut botherz me is that one of my best frndz used to go w\ him not to long ago. well she says shes not mad n that she doesnt care at all.but then i have this feelin that she also wants to cuss me out.but heres the thing i dont git if i feel that way n if she rly does wanna do that i dont git it cuz she broke up w\ him itz rly wierd. but can you plz help.=\

thnk uu oh yeh my email is racerchic4390@yahoo.com

Amber♥

Try to spell correctly so I can take your question seriously.

okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?

idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.

is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (:

Yeah, she should be worried.

Penis + Vagina - Condom = Chance Of Pregnancy.

Tell your friend that if she doesn't get her period then she needs to get tested.

now that it's summer, my eating habits are way different.

when i had school, i'd eat breakfast, lunch and dinner (and have a snack) basically at the same time every day.

but now, it's all messed up. i wake up at the latest like 11:00 (today i woke up at 9:30ish though) i usually don't eat breakfast right away, so i won't eat it till atleast 30 minutes later. like today i didn't eat until probably 10:15. plus, i don't always eat the healthiest foods- um today i had pudding..but then i topped it off with cantaloupe and watermelon. usually i'm home alone with my brother so i can eat whatever i want without my parents telling me not to lol.

so from eating breakfast late, that messes up when i have lunch and i won't have that till later either. but dinner i'm ok since my mom makes it.

but lately i've been going to bed really late..like 1 or 2 in the morning. and i'll be up in my room watching tv and i'll start feeling hungry. but i don't want to go downstairs to get food, or wake up my parents or have to brush my teeth again. so then i'll go to bed kinda hungry, and wake up reallly hungry.

so today (it started mostly yesterday), i ate my little breakfast-didn't eat lunch yet.. but now i'm all messed up. like, i'll eat something, but i'll still feel hungry right after i eat it. right now, i feel really hungry. i just ate like two cheese thingies though. it's like nothing is filling me.

i'm hungryy!!!! like i have that feeling in my stomach, but i don't really feel like eating. but i want it to go away so ill eat stuff but it's not going away. so i'll have lunch soon. but idk if it's gonna go away. ah i dont know what to do help me please?!?

When you get hungry & don't feel like eating anything at the time, drink water. It makes you feel full.

okay im a 16/f and im going to hangout with my bf today at the park. and i want to know how do you straddle a guy?

Put your legs around him.

well he came home on tue n he took a shower n he never called me let me know where hes at or nothing n i was trying 2 get a hold of him so bad so i called his dad up n he got mad at me n wed he came home took a shower n then left n then thru done the same and everytime when i call him he never picks up he hasn't been home since 3 days now n he told his dad 2-mrow hes commign home n dropping money of 4 his son so i dont know whats going 2 happen then but we r going 2 work things over we are going 2 get an apparment 2-gether n he wants me 2 get a job n drive so hes going 2 teach me how 2 drive but he told me i have 2 trust him with aiden he said i have 2 prove it that i can trust him by letting him takeing aiden out 4 5 days n hes going 2 bring him back that same day but if he dont bring him back say i can get him introuble? he said i can by his ssn n we r going 2 get an apparment 2-gether n c how it goes but frist i have 2 get a job he said n he said i have 2 prove it that i got a job so i dont know i want 2 work things out with him what would you do would you work things out with him or no? he wants 2 work things out now he said 2 me i have 2 have trust in him 5 times 2 let him 2 take my son out then we will work things out n i do want him back cuz i am so hurt and we have a kid 2-gether n hes 2yrs old

First off, don't use "n" for "and" or "2" for "to." Use proper grammar & spelling. Also, use punctuation because you've obviously never heard of periods or commas. This is a really confusing question to read.

okay.there's this chick named olivia.and she is like ew.i hate her.and i don't know her.HAH.anyway.listen.i have my friend haley ok.and like.okay.theres this kid tyler.and haley and tyler were dating 897545456424 days ago.and and he hates her now becauseeee this person named jill...was like.spreading rumors that haley said tyler had sex with this olivia person.and he says its not true...and yeah.so he hates haley and haley didn't even do anything.and so what should she do? i mean he could ruin her high school life considering how he'll be a senior next year..and so what should she do?

Okay.this.question.is.annoying.and.really.hard.to.read.

Don't use so many periods. Use your space bar. Use correct grammar & punctuation AND stop saying like so much. Oh, and learn to spell.

When you can do that, I might take this question a bit more seriously.

I was wondering how long it takes for Tylenol PM to take effect as in make you sleepy. & is it okay for ppeople to just sell it without perscription? Couldn't someone like OD on it [as in the making you drowzy part]and die or something?

Yeah, I know. I wonder about weird things =P

Those medicines are okay for them to sell without prescription because it's there when you need it & you don't need to wait for it to be processed. Prescriptions are harder to get because your doctor may not always give you medicine, & if they did, you'd have to wait for it to be given to you. You can take tylenol whenever you want.

It is possible to OD on those medicines, yes. But it's possible to OD on all medicine, but they can't just stop selling them because someone died. That isn't the companies fault. That's the persons fault.

I'm not sure what you're looking for in the answer, but I interpreted your question as best as I could & that's what I came up with.

so I am 17 girl. I have always had a problem with guys. They all think i'm hot, i have no problem getting their attention. But i am not easy (don't want to give you the wrong impression). I have always treated the guys i'm with extreemly well, (not a bitch, not clingy,..and so on) but the guys always treat me like shit.. and basically just play me, it sucks and 90% of my relationships end up with me getting hurt and them not giving a shit. now the other side of my problem, i get some guys that i am not interested in at all and never have been, obsessing over me. i hate being mean so i have a hard time getting rid of them, but i don't lead them on at all. Do i just let them keep liking me and let them figure it out or do i say something, because so far the ignooring hasn't been working, and the last thing i want is to come off as a bitch. And i don't want the guys i like to think of me as their bitch.. so what do i do?

The reason why guys do that to you is because they don't realize what they've got. Either that, or they know that it's easy to play you & that you won't do anything. Either way, you've got to toughen up & show them that you're not going to take their shit. Don't be a bitch about things, but stand up for yourself.

And if you don't like the guys who like you, just let them know nicely. Just say "I know you like me, but I don't really see you in that way. I think it's better if we're just friends." If they don't seem to get the hint after that, just ignore them. =)

Okay, I need advice right now! Im moving in with my dad. I called him to come get me and my stuff, but i havent told my mom yet, and he is coming in an hour, im just really scared and i dont know what to say... someone help me???? I need answers now!! Please.

How long has this been planned? If you've been planning to move out & go live with him for quite some time, then you should've told your mother a long time ago. If this is a spur of the moment thing, then tell her now.

Either way, she's going to get pissed at you, but she can't stop you. I think you should tell her & sacrifice the relationship you & her now have. Good luck living with your dad!

I'm an 18 year old female.

I met a guy through my online school a year ago (when I was in high school). We started talking on the phone a lot sometimes 8 hours in a day. At first I thought of him more as a friend but as time went on I started to have romantic feelings for him. I know that sounds weird since we've never met but I felt that way nonetheless.

Now it's been 6 months since we started talking, and I love him very much, but not as a boyfriend type.

First off he's not at all what I'm physically attracted to (he's red haired fair skinned and thin build I prefer dark hair dark features more muscular build), but I'm not that shallow so I convinced myself since I loved him for who he was on the inside that the outside wouldn't matter. However now I'm finding myself wishing he looked a lot different, and it bothers me more.

Secondly I'm a libra and he's a scorpio, and whether people believe in the zodiac or not fact is our personalities sometimes clash so badly we have outrageous arguments on the phone.

Thirdly, well really the fact is he's not the guy I dreamed of. He lives three hours away and he wants to get together soon, and his mom wants to bring him (he's not 18 yet), but I don't want to. The thing is I love him so much, but I wish we could be friends. But he wants something much more. I know if I break up with him I'll lose him as a friend and I don't want that he's like my best friend.

What should I do?

If you cannot see this kid as your boyfriend, then you need to be honest with him. You're being honest with yourself, so he deserves the truth. And I'm pretty positive he expects it from you.

Astrology is a dumb reason for a break-up. Just because your zodiac signs don't match doesn't mean he's a horrible person. Arguments are normal & healthy for a relationship. Don't blame them on the zodiac signs & astrology.

But, still. If you don't like him in that way anymore, then you need to be honest with him & let him know that. You may lose him as a friend, but at least he'll know the truth & you won't be leading him on.

Okay, I just made a new website for teens. Well, actually, I moved the original website to a new one and made a bunch of changes to try to make it look more "teenish"...

Please honestly critique it and tell me what you think.

www.freewebs.com/bt4t

If you want people to take your site seriously, take the music off. Unless it's MySpace or a music site, music bothers me. This is a serious site, notice how there isn't music? Yeah. Take the music off.

Also, make the font smaller. I know some people may have bad eyesite like myself, but I don't need huge letters. Maybe a size 10-12 font would be good. If someone complains that it's too small, move it up to 14 & keep it at that.

If you want people to visit your forum or chat, just have a link to it. The whole "CLICK HERE TO VISIT OUR FORUM!!!!" thing is pointless. Just have a link in the sidebar called "Forum," and "Chat."

I honestly think the site needs a lot of work, but it's a good idea.

Why is it so bad to exercise before I go to bed? That's the time when I usually want to?

Your muscles are supposed to be relaxed when you go to bed because it makes it easier to fall asleep, and you're a lot more comfortable.

You can always exercise before bed, but it's healthier for your sleeping if you don't. =)

does smooching causes pregnancy?

No.

Unprotected sex causes pregnancy. Kissing can lead to sex, but it doesn't cause you to get pregnant.

I'm really confused and worried about my vagina. I don't know, I just don't think it looks normal.

On the lips, it's a brown color, and I don't think it should be. And my actual vagina is closed, i guess. Like, it doesn't look like a hole, and it won't open unless i physically take my fingers and open it. Because there's like a piece of skin that's over my vagina, almost. And there are these two little pieces of skin that are coming out of it.

I'm just paranoid now, because I can't put a tampon in unless I hold it happen, and how can I have sex is my vagina is like, closed?

I don't know. Is this normal? Or does it sound normal, at least? I've actually tried googling for pictures of regular vaginas, that's how paranoid I am. But i just get really innapropriate pictures. I know this sounds really weird. But I don't think this is normal? Well, is it? 14/f

I'm not absolutely sure if that's normal, but if you're concerned, see your gynecologist. They're basically the only ones who can tell you what's wrong or whatever.

i mean like tons of years ago, when God made people, he made Adam and Eve. Then they had children, who had children with their.. siblings (is that right? i mean nobody else was around.. or was incest okay then?) who had children with THEIR siblings, and so on. so then after tons of years it comes to today.. does that mean that Adam and Eve our are like great great great (etc) grandparents? cause then like everyone in the entire world is related, am i correct? but that confuses me.. because some people say that we all evolved from monkeys. i kinda believe it but i kinda dont, since i am a christian and i believe that God and Jesus are real. I mean the entire universe must have started from something.. however i dont understand where God came from. Who made God? can you put the answers in simpler forms, too? i am a 13 year old girl.. i read like some children bibles, but the big bible confuses me.. and i dont go to church very often cause we barely have time to in my family with a little baby, my mom who works at night, my dad whos starting a business in a different state.. so yeah. i really want to though, and i pray and thank god when i can. (usually before i go to bed) anyways thanks for answering my kinda long question.

PS. i have one more question. where did Satan come from? did god create satan? can you explain to me all that happened with that? and i know that jesus like was born in bethlehem to mary, then later was put on the cross, then went to heaven then came back. so doesnt anyone like know what heaven is like? why didnt they ask jesus what it was like and stuff like that? and how did jesus die the second time? and where exactly is heaven and hell? i hear its on earth according to my mom, like they are the spirits living among us. its just kinda hard to grasp

I'm not going to shove my beliefs down your throat, but I'm going to give you my opinion.

I used to think that the Theory of Evolution was load of shit, and I thought there was no way in hell I was ever a monkey. However, I recently watched a movie called Walking With Cavemen on the Discovery Channel, and it made very valid points as to why the Theory of Evolution could be valid. Not only do we share 99% of the same DNA, if you look back on the people that have inhabited the Earth before us, we looked like them, and they were indeed apes.

I was born/raised a Catholic. When I was 13-14 years old however, I came to terms with the fact that God isn't real. He couldn't just create himself, so how in the world does he get here? He doesn't. He's just some false being that people made up because they wanted something to believe in while they lived. However, God was said to be an evil man. I mean, he gave women their periods because Eve is a dumb bitch & ate the apple after he forsake her not to. Although a punishment is good, is that really how you want your God to be? It's good to listen, but it's good to think for yourself too.

The people from ancient times made God up. He does not exist, and he never will. Another reason why people made him up is because they wanted to feel comfortable knowing they were going somewhere after death. However, they know exactly where they're going. THE GROUND. That's where I'm going when I die. I'm not going to hell. I'm not going to heaven. I'm going into a casket & then 6 feet under.

The story with Satan is that he was a fallen angel who was evil so "God" damned him to a firy pit for all of eternity. Honestly, if you need the answers to these questions, ask your priest. This is really diffucult for me to explain seeing as how I'm 16 years old, and I'm just giving you my opinion.

lets say you were going out with me would you say im pretty ...or fat??

heres my link:

http://www.slide.com/mscd?pxcid=nFE7FaWfGOKBFiZSt6-jrMZ9yeyB1LJkFwA9MCVY7ZjzLlPszA3OtdH0IcYXQABt&pxciid=

I think you shouldn't post questions like this on here.

We're not a site that rates you. We don't care what you look like. Wanna know if you're pretty? Ask your guy friends or go to hotornot.com.

&& he asked me to hangout, ii felt bad but ii had to say no, cause ii'm wiiht my cousiin, btu ii really liike hiim and he doesn't know iit. but ii thiink he iis going to calii thiis weekend so ii won't see hiim for liike a week. ii def. blew iit diidn't ii? uhh ii hate thiis!!

&& ii totally thiink you should stop typiing that way! iit's really annoyiing.

Just wait until he gets back. And type properly. That makes you look like your keyboard is broken, and a moron. I'm gonna lean towards both.

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