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Paranoia about my body


Question Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 1:37 pm

I'm really confused and worried about my vagina. I don't know, I just don't think it looks normal.

On the lips, it's a brown color, and I don't think it should be. And my actual vagina is closed, i guess. Like, it doesn't look like a hole, and it won't open unless i physically take my fingers and open it. Because there's like a piece of skin that's over my vagina, almost. And there are these two little pieces of skin that are coming out of it.

I'm just paranoid now, because I can't put a tampon in unless I hold it happen, and how can I have sex is my vagina is like, closed?

I don't know. Is this normal? Or does it sound normal, at least? I've actually tried googling for pictures of regular vaginas, that's how paranoid I am. But i just get really innapropriate pictures. I know this sounds really weird. But I don't think this is normal? Well, is it? 14/f


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rubytuesday answered Friday July 20 2007, 12:38 am:
The piece of skin over your vagina is probably your hymnen. That's what a hymen is- and that is why it hurts and bleed when you first have sex because that piece of skin, the hymen, is broken.

The other piece of skin coming out, are you talking about the clitoris? The clitoris sticks out. As far as the opening, this is normal. You are still a virgin and are only 14.

And don't worry about the sex and tampons and all that yet. I know you want to be like your friends and all that, I was young once too. But trust me, you have plenty of time, there's no need to rush.

All the girls that I know that rushed into sex before they were ready regretted it like hell the next day and wished they could take it back.
This is NOT a lecture, just some friendly advice from someone who remembers what it was like.

Hope this helps. :)

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christina answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:21 pm:
I'm not absolutely sure if that's normal, but if you're concerned, see your gynecologist. They're basically the only ones who can tell you what's wrong or whatever.

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You_Got_Advice answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:19 pm:
hmmm if you're that concerned about it, ask a doctor or a gynocologist(sp?). hich is the vagina doctor. they would know best. at this point talking to your mom first would be a good idea.

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