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why does this happen to me?
so I am 17 girl. I have always had a problem with guys. They all think i'm hot, i have no problem getting their attention. But i am not easy (don't want to give you the wrong impression). I have always treated the guys i'm with extreemly well, (not a bitch, not clingy,..and so on) but the guys always treat me like shit.. and basically just play me, it sucks and 90% of my relationships end up with me getting hurt and them not giving a shit. now the other side of my problem, i get some guys that i am not interested in at all and never have been, obsessing over me. i hate being mean so i have a hard time getting rid of them, but i don't lead them on at all. Do i just let them keep liking me and let them figure it out or do i say something, because so far the ignooring hasn't been working, and the last thing i want is to come off as a bitch. And i don't want the guys i like to think of me as their bitch.. so what do i do?
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One way for you to not get hurt in a relationship is to find the right person for you. Someone who can treat a girl right. Someone who would love you for who you are, and not what you look like. As for the guys obsessing over you, you should just try to 'ignore' them, not intentionally like ignoring, but just try not to do anything that would make them like you more. No guy should think of their girlfriend as their 'bitch' because I think that 'bitch' is a harsh word and I don't tolerate with it.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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The reason why guys do that to you is because they don't realize what they've got. Either that, or they know that it's easy to play you & that you won't do anything. Either way, you've got to toughen up & show them that you're not going to take their shit. Don't be a bitch about things, but stand up for yourself.
And if you don't like the guys who like you, just let them know nicely. Just say "I know you like me, but I don't really see you in that way. I think it's better if we're just friends." If they don't seem to get the hint after that, just ignore them. =)
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Well you are going for the wrong guys then. If you keep getting hurt, maybe you should try going for a different type? Maybe one of those guys that you haven't looked twice at. Most guys will care when they hurt a girl, but the ones that don't get the most girls. You just aren't going for the nice guys because most girls don't.
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i think you should try to go out with a guy you wouldn't normally date. maybe one of them that obsesses over you. i think you'd be surprised. and if the other guys think you're their bitch, slap them in the face and walk away. because you deserve better. plus, a lt of guys in high school are immature pigs. just remember that haha
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