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Q: I don't know what to do. My friends are coming to pick me up to go to the local theme park around 9. and my mom is going to pick me up from the local theme park around 11. I work at the theme park, and I have work tomorrow @ 10, but it is about 30minutes away. So I dont know if I should go out tonight with my friends to the local theme park? a tun of my friends that work there will be there, and i really wanna see them. but i am also going to see them tomorrow at work, and i will see them after work too, because i want to stay up there late.
tonight i will only be at the theme park for about 1 hour and 30 minutes. I guess i am just nervous, because it is the first time for me to be going out with these friends, and i also wanna talk to some of my friends @ work but i am not 100% sure if they will be there or not.
I have a boyfriend, and I dont want him to worry becasue I am not home. And I also dont want him to think that i am going there to cheat on him..
so, the main question is... Should I go or should I stay home?
-Kelsey-
(k2204)
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Go! Live it up! Live your life a little. Have fun! Everyone has to work once in a while.. so go and have fun yeah you may be tired tomorrow but have some coffee. If your boyfreind does think you cheated on him.. TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND IF HE DOESN'T BELIVE YOU HE IS A BAD BOYFREIND! they need to trust you and you need to trust yourself. It's good you are going with different people too.. expanding your closet... go and have a ball.. you deserve it!
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Q: I am kind of scared because one of my friends got sexualy harrassed today, a guy lifted up her shirt in the hallway. One of my friends says that her boyfriend tried to rape her or sexually assalt her in the bathroom, she wont tell me if thats true. What should i do to get her to answer me, and what should i do about her harassment??
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Tell someone. Tell your mom or the guidance counselor about the harrasment. About the rape or sexual assualt. Sit her down one day, make sure you guys are great like no freind problems or anything. (a good place is outside for the air) Start talking about something similar to the rape subject and then say is it really true you were raped. You can tell me the truth... If it's true and she is all upset about it.. tell your mom or tell her mom or something... things like that need to be known.
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Q: Well, I am scared to death of my mom for no apparent reason. I am scared to do school work while she is awake because she might get mad at me. I hate to ever get money from her. It is so bad that I fear to even get a ride from her because I have this big fear of guilt. Isn't that hopelessly pathetic? I don't know why but I feel that if I let her do anything for me, that I am being a shitty child. Please someone else tell me that I am not just crazy or weird or someone else tell me that they have this issue.
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No, i dont have this issue. My mom does a lot too me.. maybe too much. But, I know someone that does. My freind won't ask her mom for anything. Her mom is great, careing and loving it's notlike she abuses my freind. She just always says, I can't ask my mom to drive us becasue she is too tired. Or something.. we know she is lying but whatever. Your not a shitty child by asking for a favor.. maybe your mom will be happy to help you out and being more part of your life. Just ask for something (not too often but enough to feel equal with your mom)
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Q: well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help..
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I always turn to my best freind. I tell her everything. SHe knows averyone problem in my life and my insecurites. She's always there. I know if your a guy it may feel weird... but it could always help. Friends are meant to be there for you... so take advantage of it and talk to them.
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Q: Hi. I'm 13/m and my sister is 14/f. Last night she was IMing a friend from another state who said he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. Then they got into a discussion on why it's right or wrong to have sex before age 16. My sister believes that she should wait until she is 16. I belief any pre-marital sex is wrong, and I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married.
Later in their conversation (I was being a little brother and looking over her shoulder) he said that my sister's boyfriend wants sex too. My sister said no, but the other guy was just like "ooooooo yes he does". Then I remembered that theory that all a guy ever wants is sex. Hence, the song Punk Rock 101 by Bowling For Soup: "She thinks that it's love, but to him, it's sex!"
I don't trust her boyfriend. I've transferred a call to my sister, and he really didn't sound all that great. Also, my sister refuses to let me meet him in any way. He can't come over, because I just can't meet him. I tried to IM him. My sister told him to block me. What the hell?
I'm afraid of two things: number one, does he want sex? Saying no is probably harder than it sounds... and number two, will this change her image of him? Will she be consious of the fact that he may or may not want sex? I know if I were in her shoes, I would. I don't know... I'm just worried for her...
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I'm a younger sibling too. I hear about some similar stuff as well. Due to it is you sisters life, you should let it go. It seems to me that she knows that she wants to wait. It is illegal though to have sex before the age of like 16. So, I would only get involved if your sister's boyfreind is hurting her in any way... emotionally or physically. I don't think that will happen though. Maybe you could say to her yeah I read it's illegal to have sex before 16 and maybe she will think yeah I should hold off. This is a tough situation. It seems like her boyfreind isn't too great either... I would want to meet my boyfreind's siblings... so all in all stay out of this so far unless it gets really serious. If you have any more questions just write them to me, xomarisox.
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Q: My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do?
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Call her up. Say, look I'm sorry. I shouldn't have taken it so seriously. I hope you can forgive me. She probably will!
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Q: Does anyone know if they sell the black ipods?
And if so,do you know how much?
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I dunno but maybe like $200... and for like this worranty an xtra $50
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Q: about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation.
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If your period was late then yeah, you are prob. pregnant. The test may be able to find out if you are pregnant. If you are pregnant.. do something about it! If your not.. be careful in the future!
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Q: I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help!
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Thats tough...I went through something similar to that.. I think you should tell your mom and have your freinds around (they can back you up and make you feel comfortable) When you are wiht your freinds and your mom at the same time say : Mom, is it OK if I have a b/f and can date? : If she says yes, say something either you can tell a white lie like becasue this guy asked meout and I really like him and your freinds can say yeah they would be sooo cute together. Or you can say that you have been with him for 4 weeks... Hope I helped! (Always respect your mom though if she says no)
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Q: if you finger yourself do you loose your virginity?
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No, you need to have sexual intercourse to lose it.
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Q: My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG)
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Yes its normal... I weighed that much then too. It may be becasue shes athletic or likes to excercise.. if you think she does have an eating disorder.. talk to her about it. If shes a true freind she'll understand that your just caring for her!
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Q: Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya!
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Xanga is your own website that you can make... www.xanga.com
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Q: i dont tan very while and i just wanted to know any good tanning oils that like actually work. i go tanning in the winter but it like doesnt seem to work! lol so any good tips on how to get tan? i have like fair skin
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I tried Tanning Oil once... DONT USE IT. It didnt' harm my skin but it can harm others..
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Q: ok heres the 411. i like this guy. no one knows and i dont plan on telling neone ...but i need advice. he means a lot to me. hes like one of my rlly good friends. hes also older than me. and me.. well i have never liked neone older than me. i have never had a b/f but some crushes all ending up in hearbreaks and i rlly dont want this one to end up in a heartbreak. does neone have ne tips, advice, nething on what i can do. i dont have much time cuz school starts soon and then im so busy and hes in college so yea.
thanks a lot
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No matter what... unless you guys break up for a reason that doesn't upset you..ex u like someone else... then don't go out with him! I was always scared of heartbreak but if you always play it safe... you won't ever have a true..loving blah blah relationship! College is hard to deal wiht too. Rate me please. Good luck.. always!
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Q: Iam always nervous and deppressed no one around me like family,friends,stuff like that can tell. I have no brothers or sisters to help me,I'm scared of life to and of the devil I think I want a Theropist but I'm scared if I tell my parents i'll get in trouble and they wont belive me. I am 13 and female, I'm also scared of the fact of becoming one of those teens who get soo stressed they move things with there mind and don't even no it, and some of those kids become Excersist.
P.S. I'm that teen who is a Little too skinny.
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OK heyy I'm back... I bet it will be hard to tell your parents you want a theropist.. try writing them a note and telling them or email because maybe its hard to go face to face... ask for a theripist that is young and can understand you. Try relaxing and doing what you like to do! I don't know but please please please IM me at xo3maris3ox!!!! I am on now and can help you!
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Q: I'm a LONER,a LOSER,a complete chatter box, and people think I'm anoing,I don't have any cool clothes either,Ialso don't stick to anything a start for exsample:baseketball,music lessons...! How do I make friends or even have them to want to be friends with me and maybe get a guy too like to go out with me? P.S. I'm 13 years old, Female,and super shy.
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BE YOURSLEF. ONe say, just start a convo. with someone...this school yr is a new yr.. go ahead adn change yourself.. then people will love you... reading the Clique Books cna help A LOT too! Flirt with guys.. and your there! PLease come to me for any more questions.. or IM me at xo3maris3ox... please! PLease rate me!
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Q: I really want to have a party, but the thing is i am kinda afraid of having one. not afraid like afraid of spiders and i am just worried that people might not like it, or think its dumb or whatver i just am too stressed thinkin about it. should i just go ahead with my plan or what? and also, should i have a big party (which was my original plan) or should i just have a small group of my girlfriends and go to a hotel or something? ideas? thanks
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Both sound great.
If you want to be funn and adventurest have a big party.
If you want to keep it small and feel comfortable... just have your girlfreinds.
The party won't be fun if you are worried if it may be dumb or not. If you do end up having a big one, ask people on advienators what fun party themes and stuff they had... I hope it helped! Rate me please!
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Q: can someone plz give me some site for icons that have like celebrities on them like paris hilton and jassica simpson and people like that.. thanks
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www.iconator.com it always works for me! PLease rate me!
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Q: I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks
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Wow. Tell the cops. Or tell your freinds. Tell your mom. You need to tell asap. Pick up that phone and dial 911!
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Q: OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer
please tell me what to do
P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing
I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time
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Aren't you a lil young for having sex?
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bio
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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 3, 2004 Answers: 395 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 25953
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