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Loner
I'm a LONER,a LOSER,a complete chatter box, and people think I'm anoing,I don't have any cool clothes either,Ialso don't stick to anything a start for exsample:baseketball,music lessons...! How do I make friends or even have them to want to be friends with me and maybe get a guy too like to go out with me? P.S. I'm 13 years old, Female,and super shy.
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heya,
well first of all have some confidence in yourself as this will really help you make friends; and make them want to talk to you.
You need to join in with conversations... and make the effort to get to know new people, they'll appreciate it and it's a great way to make friends.
If you have confidence in yourself and are proud of whatever clothes you have; you can make them be cool! You never know, you might even start a new trend :-)
Try and talk to the guy you like, casually drop comments into a conversation, smile and just be friendly towards him.
hope ur ok, and that this has helped.
feel free to get in touch!
XxXxX
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A shy chatterbox. That's new. But...... You just have to do things, talk to people, but keep the talking down to... well, not rambling. And you have to find things you really enjoy, and you'll stick with them. Hope I helped some.
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First of all, you seriously need to start thinking better about yourself!!! If people seriously think of you as annoying then maybe you should try to be a little more mature. Maybe even meet new people so you can start all over again. And for not sticking to anything i know that's hard. I've played the violin for almost 7 years now and practice for about 5 hours a day (in summer). But it takes discipline. Try something new and tell yourself to stick with it and give it time. You might just end up luvin it!!! And for a boyfriend, be yourself and it'll happen in time, dont worry!!!
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heres a couple of things first :
1) your not a loser
2) who cares if your a loner?
3) chatterboxes rock!
4) you dont need cool clothes to have good friends
5) you dont need a popular hobby to have good friends either
ok all you need to to is strike up a convo. try some tv show, music, a movie you saw, what you did this weekend. theres bond to be some reaction to the convo that makes you say something next. believe me it sounds gay but it works.
dont ever and i stress on the EVER try and change yourself physically or mentally just ot have friends or a b/f. be yourself. believe me youll get friends and eventually a guy will like you for you.
alrite :)
hope this helped
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I know all 2 well what it feels like to grow up alone. It is not fun, and can cause major repercussions. the key to it is stay true to your self, try hard to motivate your self so u can gain more convince. one you have that people will notice and begin to hang with you.
best of luck. it is not easy but it is possible to over come it. I'm livening proof of it.
~Teen Guru~
Let me know if I helped you in anyway.
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well i used to be shy and how you can become more confident is start asking people if they would like to hang out or something and that is how you could actually make friends believe me some one would be your friend
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Assuming what you mean by "sticking to things", I think that you should try talking to someone. what I mean by that is, I know that you are super shy, but so was I. But I made friends quickly. Do you know how? I used my anoying talent to be funny. I was always making jokes. I was the second class clown. There was a boy named Nate that took the place of the class clown, but that was because I still wanted to get good grades. He was always in trouble. So first you have to get over your fears. here's how. When your family is going to go somewhere, ask if you can call the place and ask some questions. Then you will learn how to talk to people. Now you try talking to people at school. Here is a hint; People like to hang out with a person that is always happy, no matter what. (That's me) I'm not saying you can't be sad every once and a while, but if something like a bad grade hit's your scedual, don't get all mad, make a joke about it. Make people understand that you will be there for them if they ever have any problems. Other than that it is up to you. You are the only person that can get over your fears. So get rid of the shy thing and stick yourself out there. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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well, you basically need 2 change yourself. stop being shy and become more bold and outspoken. go shopping for a new wardrobe. and dont always do all the talking, take turns, you listen and the person talks and vica versa, its all about 50 50 here. you need to present yourself differently and boost your self-esteem and confidence. but at the same time remember: dont do anything to make yourself feel comfortable, do not exceed your limits
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hey sounds like a sad thing but IM on aim and i can try to help ya out- sweethang1768
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ok your a chatterbox or your super shy? pick one.. if your a chatterbox than your gonna have 2 shut up sometimes. people who talk a lot arent always annoying its annoying when you dont let the other people talk... n if your shy jus find one person to open up to n she/he will introduce you 2 other people you can open up to n so on jus b yourself!
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Dont have such low confindence in yourself. You have some personal issues so fix it. If you know by being a loser and maybe not very nice to people fix it. If people dont like you because you are annoying .. then work on that too. Just think that you can be a better person. At school, just talk to people in your glasses, lunch, whatever. If people see that you are friendly they will like you. The reason that you dont stick to baskeyball or music or anything else is becuase you dont try. You get bored of it! Find something that you LOVE and stick to that. You just have to find your best interest and hobby && something that you are good at. Okay now about the clothes. Middle school is tons of drama && bitchy girls will talk about your appearance and the clothes that you are wearing. Thats how my school is. Most of them are.. Anyways.. just come to school with a whole new image && personality. You dont have to spend tons of money on new clothes if you dont want. Grab some magazines and see whats in and what style you like. That will help you out on what to wear. Mix and match things you already have with new things. Wear a little make up if you dont like it that much && do your hair nice. Just be more outgoing. If you talk to people at school and when you go places you wont be so shy. About the guys.. the one that likes you for who you are will ask you out. You just have to be patient for that. Good luck!
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BE YOURSLEF. ONe say, just start a convo. with someone...this school yr is a new yr.. go ahead adn change yourself.. then people will love you... reading the Clique Books cna help A LOT too! Flirt with guys.. and your there! PLease come to me for any more questions.. or IM me at xo3maris3ox... please! PLease rate me!
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