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Q: I like this guy that goes to my school and it is pretty obvious he likes me to. We flirt all the time like MAJORLY flirting so much my teachers can even tell. The problem is he has a girlfriend. But he calls me more then he calls her! The other day when we were on the phone he said that someday me and him will go out. I dont know what to do because I like him alot and its obvious he likes me and I want him to break up with his girlfriend but i dont see that happening anytime soon. What should i do?
I rate well!
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you need to have him make Å decision
he can either have you or his girlfriend
not both
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Q: okay so ijust broke up with my boyfriend a couple days ago cause he cheated on me.
so tonight i decide to go out on a date with another guy. Turns out hes really nice and sweet, but im not going to rush into a relationship. But if
i do decide to go for this boy theres a problem hes 15 and im 13 and hes black and im white.
my mom woulldddd flip see i dont care about the whole white black relationship im not rasict and my mom isnt either she just has always said she didnt want me to date black guys idk why so what do i do
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its been what maybe Å week since you broke up with your boyfriend? i think you are rushing into things. he cheated on you. i think you might need Å little bit of time to just recover, you know accept this new change. get to know yourself. get over any feelings about your old boyfriend. then, you can call this boy back. talk to your mom. if shes not racist why cant you date him? figuire out why she wont let.
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Q: i was just wondering i bought hair extensions. And im getting ym hair curled for prom. The extentions curl right?
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yes, definately they will curl.
they work just like real hair does.
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Q: Well I'm 13 and I am a girl.what happened was my brother found my message to my boyfriend about us planning to kiss. Then He confronted him, and now I think my boyfriends hates me. What should I do?
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you definately need to talk to your boyfriend and explain to him what happened. tell him that its not your fault, your brother found the message. also say that you want to kiss him and that your brother is just being protective over you, trying to protect you.
then, talk to your brother. tell him that you appreciate that hes trying 2 take care of you, but its really not okay for him to go confront your boyfriend to make him feel uncomftorble. i think that its okay for your brother to talk to your boyfriend, but not if it makes either of you uncomftorble.
P.s your boyfriend was a jerk.
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Q: I'm rewriting this question because it got so long. So, I'm 14/f and I'm the cause of most of the problems going on in my house and I'm not being dramatic. I mean it literally.
There are so many problems and situations going on in this house right now and I don't know if I can take it anymore. I don't know what to do and I feel like I'm going to lose everything. I don't know how many more problems I can handle before I literally kill myself. I really can't deal with anything anymore.
My mom feels the same way, mainly because of me. She worries about me so much but I always find myself getting my self into shit and causing my mom to worry and get sad more and more. I'm the center point of her stress everyday and I can't dissapoint her anymore than I already have. I've already hurt her and in her own exact words "Broke her last dream she had" She said, too, that if another problem occurs, she doesn't know if she can do anything anymore [suicide].
But I know that there's going to be problems not too far away. This big, bad secret that I've been keeping has be on the verge of being revealed to my mom once this week and is again on the verge of being revealed right now. I can't tell her the truth because if I do, it would be giving a part of my away and I don't know if I have any more parts of me I can sacrifice for her. And I really don't know what the fuck I'm suppose to do.
I don't want to add onto all the problems that I'm 85% sure I have depression, bipolar, and ADD problems. I don't know what to do at all anymore and I need someone to help me get through this and just listen to what I need to say.
Don't say "Oh, you're only 14, you're not depressed and you're overreacting" because I WILL send you an e-mail with detailed parts of all the problems going on.
Can someone please give me their e-mail address that I can contact? Or AIM? I'm in great need of help and I'm just really overwhelmed by everything.
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i have yahoo
xo_babes
im here if you need me
im sorry that everything in your house is so difficult
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Q: In Beyonce's song Suga Mama, in the begining of the song she says damn that was so good I wanna buy him a short set. This is a really dumb question but whats a short set? lol
Thanks!
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im think that she means hes so good i want to get him stuff. a shorts set like when your at a store and you buy a pack of like 3 shorts thats a short set.
im pretty sure that she says "i wanna buy you a sugar sack"
but you could be right!
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Sugar+Sack
[here on urban dictionary it says what a sugar sack is...theres only one definition so i dont know how right it is but its a shot!]
lol not a dumb question at all!
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Q: F/14 -Him- M/14
Srry It Is To Long.
So there is this boy. if you read my last Question then you should know alot.
okey well that thing is im not sure if i like him. see one min im like i love this kid and then the next im like ahh go way kid.
but i dont know how do you know if you like someone?
yeah i know that i like how he is soo sweet and funny and all that but how do i know how i feel about him?
Please Oh Please Give me some advice!!
cause im going crazy anything will help at this pont.
-- So Over It.
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i go through the same exact thing
i think if your love like fades, then you dont really like him.
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Q: Well one time I was wokring on my project so hard that I skipped lunch. The day after, I wasn't even hungry at lunch time anymore and no matter how hard I try to eat, my tummy won't let me.
I just don't feel hungry anymore, i feel so full all the time and now it takes me an hour to eat my dinner.
Something wrong?
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if this has just been over the past few days, you might be sick. see if you have any simptoms because when your sick, you lose your apetite.
also, stress can make you not hungry. its the end of school, we all have finals, your probably stressed out. maybe try to relax.
maybe your not getting enough sleep and its macking you nocious.
maybe you really are anorexic.
either way, you should keep an eye on things. see if you get yor apetite back. try eating your favorite foods. talk to your mom about it maybe?
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Q: 15/m
i always see these questions about people making out and feeling each other up and such. . . .
my question is how would one go about this without seeming too aggressive or, even worse, looking like a sleazebag?
i'm just asking because i want something to make making out a little bit more interesting, and i've read all these things about "oh, you should feel her up while you make out," but i don't exactly know how to go about doing that . . .
i know it's kind of a weird question but i just don't want to seem like a jerk to my girlfriend. i mean, we love each other a lot and i don't want to jeopardize it. . . .
thanks in advance
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if you go about it slowly, shell move your hand if shes not okay with it.
or, you could always tallk to her about it. ask her if its somthing shed thing would be intresting or not.
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Q: I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.
Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.
If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.
You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)
This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.
Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!
Everyone will receive feedback.
Thank you!
P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.
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i love Pasta and french fries!!
i dont know another 13 yearold girl who dosent love fries or pasta!
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Q: I've noticed that I hardly get excited over anything,nothing seems all that interesting,and it's pretty much IMPOSSIBLE for me to cry.How can I sort this out.Maybe find something that I'm passionate about,show some character,be something besides a total robot.
I want to go through all of my options before I see a doctor or something.
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see how much it will take. if you really really cant get emotional, goo see a doctor.
i cry a lot when im over tired
try getting angry at somthing. a concept that you can fix. once you fix it, youll feel relieved.
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Q: im 15 female..the first boy i gave my heart to was in october last year..its been about 6 months and we're not together but we both love each other. i have another boyfrined right now that im not really into, he doesnt treat me right.
anyways..all i seem to think about is my love everyday every second every minute...and he doesnt call me everyday and that gets me mad/sad and he doesnt have a cell and he knows i dont have his #. i was just wondering why i cant get over him i know he loves me and cares about me and i appreciate that soo much from him .....im going crazy lol i love him soo much.
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i think hes probably playing you.
he wont give you his number
but he says he loves and cares about you? if he really does then why arent you going out??
you are the person that you can listen to most. if that makes sence
everytime your thinking about him, say "NO NO NO NO NO" out loud. then allow your mind to think of somthing else.
erase him from your memory
you will forget about him but it will be faster if you make yourself
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Q: dont assume that i am belemic or anything, i just really need to throw up sometimes. its not cause i want to just that i feel sick to my stomach and i feel tons better when i throw up. its not like beleuma. i just can't throw up though, like i have stuck my fingers down my throat but it wont work, what can i do?
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go to the doctor
im not assuming ur bulemic
but you could have a stomach problem
you should definately check it out
like soon
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Q: Can people with REAL relationship experience please answer? People that have been in serious relationships that lasted more than a few months? Thanks.
I'm 17/f and he's 21/m. We've been together since July 5th of 2005. It's the first serious relationship each of us has had.
Everthing was going wonderfully between us until the beginning of this year. We fought over stupid things. I kept getting really angry with him because he wouldn't go get a job and all he cared about was playing his computer and video games. He IS in college though and is going for internet security, so that was a good thing. Most of the time we worked through whatever problems we might have had, though. I really got better at respecting his hobbies and such. Plus he finally has a job now. Okay.
Lately though, I just feel like I don't want to be around him because I know it will be boring or he'll just make me angry in some shape or form. I don't want to hang out with just him because I know we'll just sit around and be bored because there's nothing to do.
Whenever he calls to say goodnight or something, sometimes I don't even pick up the phone because there's nothing to talk about or I don't even want to talk to him.
The point I'm getting to is that I think I might be falling out of love with him. I don't know if maybe it's because I see him too much or what, but I see our relationship more as really best friends instead of loving boyfriend and girlfriend. I know I care about him because I would never want him out of my life.
So my question is, how do I fall back in love with him? How do I make our relationship more fun and loving? We've been together for nearly two years and I can't figure out a way to keep things as lively as they were the first few months we went out.
At this point, I'm not sure a "break" would work for us because I'm going to college in the fall. If we took a break, that would be it and I know we'd be done. So that's a last resort.
I know that deep down, some part of me needs to stay with him and keep loving him because I'm asking this question. I want to find that part of me and bring it out. I want to be just as much in love with this man as I was the first time I told him.
Any advice?
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you dont have to listen to me because im only thirteen and i dont have a lot of experience.
i have had a boyfriend for the past year though. if that helps.
anyways, i think anybody who can consideer the situation objectively can help.
think about what you used to talk about. was it more getting to know eachother? if it was, then maybe the apeal of the relationship was getting to know a new person. if it is, then try to get to know a new part about him. ask him for his opinion on a world crisis or philisophy.
if you used to talk about him in college, maybe you just liked that he was older and had more experiences? if this is true then you can talk to him about his first year of college and ask for his advice.
if you used to flirt like crazy, then maybe you should go back to the old flirting teasing.
some things dont last foreever. your young. you have the rest of your life ahead of you. if you and himdo break up, you will have plenty of time to meet new people.
and you can always stay friends with him..
good luck!!!!!
everything will work out for the best.
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Q: The skin on my face is starting to peel, and I'm not sure why. I'm out of my face scrub so that isn't an option. What can I do to smooth my skin?
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try baby oil before you go to sleep.
just a little bit
and if you have dry skin, not oily skin, you can put a little tiny bit on in the mornings too
try not to sleep with the heater on if you dont have to.
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im not exactly sure what a Cantillion is. if your sure of the spelling then i cant help. if it could be spelled Cantlon then it means a hottie.
if you read it somwhere, could you write the sentence? or if you heard it. just too see how it was used so that maybe we bould figuire it out better.
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Q: i cant stand it anymore. i want it to be over and i dont feel like waiting for it to 'get better'. i just dont want to feel teh pain anymore and im going to end it. im so sick of nobody listening to me and telling me im stupid and not to 'talk that way'. i just need someone to lsiten. i need someone to ehlp me.
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heyy. i dont really know what kind of pain your talking about but id like to hear about it. just drop me somthing in my inbox. im here. for whatever you need. im so sorry that you feel like this. ill do anything to help. just lemme know what to do.
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Q: Yesterday night i threw up. I'm not really sure why but it was really terrible.
Ever since then, i haven't really had much of an appetite. It makes me feel kind of sick to look at certain foods. SO i haven't really eaten much today at all. Some goldfish, ginger ale, and a soup at hand.
It's giving me a really bad headache not eating very much, so i'm really just looking for some light, non salty foods that will still fill me up without making me feel sick. Thanks.
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to me it sounds like your really sick.
Mayb you hav the stomach flu? you should take your temperature and maybe go to the doctor.
its not good to throw up randomly!
you should probably drink Orange Juice or Gator Aid or somthing. to get fluids in your body.
and eat saltines or crackers or wheat thins. they should stay in your system.
Grahm Crackers maybe.
ohh making me hungry!! yeah anywayss, that should be good!
feel better!!
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Q: okay ive been with this guy for a year and half- we're from 2 different religions and my mom would like kill me and i know we have no future if we got married or anything in the future. but recently i met this guy who is sooooooooo hot and he wants me and i realy wanna kiss him and stuff like that...and the reason for that is cus the guy i am with doesnt statisfy me sexually i mean he is not attractive and doesnt turn me on.
im really confused i just wanna cheat but i dont know if i should. is it that wrong to satisfy your feelings somewhere else?
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If you break up with your boyfriend, you kee your dignity and self respect. you also free yourself from a relationship with no future. and you get your mom off your back.
if you dont cheat, and stay together, then your bored with this boy and also, you may get attatched to him whhich wouldent be good because you cant get married anyways. because of your religions.
if you cheat, he finds out, and breaks up with you. the other guy probably wont like that you have a boyfriend. everybody knows you as the cheating liar.
you have three options. id pick the first one
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Q: I have naturally straight hair, and recently got a perm for the first time. My hair stylist did a great job, and the perm turned out fine and everything, but now I miss my straight hair. How long does it usually take for the curls to lose their form? And what does anyone reccomend I do in the meantime?
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you could flat iron it
or brush out the curls, and then rub smoothing stuff through it so it dosent poof
ask your stylist what she suggests
maybe you could give you somthing for it
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bio
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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings
TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!
you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose
killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives
a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.
theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet
ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Planet Mars Occupation: Being a Princess Age: 13 Yahoo: Member Since: December 26, 2006 Answers: 588 Last Update: July 1, 2010 Visitors: 26999
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