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feeling up
15/m
i always see these questions about people making out and feeling each other up and such. . . .
my question is how would one go about this without seeming too aggressive or, even worse, looking like a sleazebag?
i'm just asking because i want something to make making out a little bit more interesting, and i've read all these things about "oh, you should feel her up while you make out," but i don't exactly know how to go about doing that . . .
i know it's kind of a weird question but i just don't want to seem like a jerk to my girlfriend. i mean, we love each other a lot and i don't want to jeopardize it. . . .
thanks in advance
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Okay, Sparky 1 has a point about letting the girl call the shots, but if you always do that, a girl will think that you're not that interested in her because you're not making a move.
Before you go under her shirt, you need to see how she reacts to you touching her on top of her shirt first.
To go about doing this without seeming like a 'sleazeball', start by having your hand on her waist. While you're making out, slowly drag your hand up towards her breast. She'll know what you're going for, so she'll stop you before you get there if she doesn't want you to touch her there.
Hope this helps you!!
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Three words...
Giver her control.
Girls love it when they call all the shots..so u no..let her make the moves on u..let her command you..ask her what she wants you do to..it's the easiest way..cus u can never go rong.
If you don't wana do that bring it up in conversation..not in an obvious way though!
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hey well just kiss her and start by puttin your hand on her waist. SHe might move your hand herself like tellin you thats ok to do because you really dont want to feel her boobs and such if she doesnt want that. Talking it out is good because wen your in a relationship communication is key. Always have communication. Ask her questions and see if she would mind or not and tell her you didnt want to see like a sleaze. But feeling up usually happens in the moment its just the passion thas goin on wen it happens. Be romantic girls love that i kno i do. i like bein passionate and everything so just be like that and im sure everythin will be fine. Ok well i hope i helped?!? if you need anythin else then you can write me in my inbox!
-katelyn
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Apparently you haven't had sex, and maybe not ready to take it to that level. At 15, I don't believe either are ready to and shouldn't, but I'm old-fashioned.
As far as making out and feeling up (I hate that expression-- it sounds slutty and immature).... don't disrespect her by doing it.
Kiss, feel her leg and thigh, caress her back and lower back, be romantic and gentle, allow the moment, the passion, the romance, to build.
Wait for her to make the first "feel" for a signal to move to her breasts or another area.
And not in public. It's not only disrespectful to onlookers, but to the both of you. Ever hear the expression, "get a room!"
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if you go about it slowly, shell move your hand if shes not okay with it.
or, you could always tallk to her about it. ask her if its somthing shed thing would be intresting or not.
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