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What should I do...?


Question Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 7:46 pm

Well I'm 13 and I am a girl.what happened was my brother found my message to my boyfriend about us planning to kiss. Then He confronted him, and now I think my boyfriends hates me. What should I do?


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luvbug555 answered Friday May 25 2007, 9:56 am:
you definately need to talk to your boyfriend and explain to him what happened. tell him that its not your fault, your brother found the message. also say that you want to kiss him and that your brother is just being protective over you, trying to protect you.

then, talk to your brother. tell him that you appreciate that hes trying 2 take care of you, but its really not okay for him to go confront your boyfriend to make him feel uncomftorble. i think that its okay for your brother to talk to your boyfriend, but not if it makes either of you uncomftorble.


P.s your boyfriend was a jerk.

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AskJR answered Thursday May 24 2007, 7:49 am:
Hey, the conversation was between your boyfriend and you and not your fault your brother found it and did his "protective" brotherly duty...

...tell your boyfriend about it-- the truth, that he found it and only is protecting you from it as ANY brother would have...

Ask your boyfriend what HE would have done IF his sister had that message...would HE confront her boyfriend in order to protect her? Of course he would.

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L0V3_AlL_TH3_WAY answered Thursday May 24 2007, 7:02 am:
aww =/ that sucks.

first talk to your boyfriend. explain that this isn't your fault and you didn't even know he saw. and tell him that your bro was prying through your personal business and you're sorry if he's embarrassed and that you'll be more careful next time.

now about your brother. tell your brother he has no right prying through your personal business and if he doesn't stop, you can just as easily pry through his. then change your myspace password and make it REALLY hard and whenever you leave myspace, log out of myspace so he can't get on.

sorry you have to go through this =(
i hate sneaky brothers!

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confusedemokid13 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 4:35 am:
kick your brothers ass. then tell your bf that you hate your brother and ask him to ignore the whole thing.

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