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Should such an ignorant people lead the world? How did it come to this in the first place? 82 percent of us don't even have a passport! Just a handful can speak a language other than English.
- Michael Moore
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for the most part, i straighten my hair everyday. in the morning before i go to school it looks fine, but then by like 2nd period[which is like 9:15][i do my hair by 8] its starting to get wavy. it wont stay straight for a few hours. is there any way i can fix this? thanks in advance! (link)
What type of straightening iron do you own? If you don't already have one, maybe you should try getting a Chi. Thats what I use, and it works really well. You can probably get it from a local beauty salon for around 100 dollars.

But if that is what you use and its not working for you, maybe you should take into consideration getting your hair chemically straightened [My friend got hers done. Her hair was really curly and thick before, but afterwards it looked as if it was naturally straight]. Your hair might just naturally be too thick to straighten it with an iron. Hope I helped you out a bit


Okay, this is what is up. I was in a relationship with a 46 year old man...I am 20. Is that weird? I can not get him out of my head. We were dating, according to him, this summer, but broke up around September. He occassionally calls and asks if he can see me, etc. and I would really like to, but I don't know...How do I get this man I love out of my head, because right now a relationship is not possible?

Thanks for your answers in advance.

Jenn (link)
I really don't think that asking someone elses opinion on if its weird or not is going to help you forget about him - nor do I think that someone elses opinion on the matter really... well, matters. Its what YOU think about the situation that matters. Do you think its weird for yourself to be in a relationship with a fourty six year old man while your twenty? Do you think that the age difference is more important then the relationship and the love, or do you believe that age is just a number?

I can't tell you how to forget about him and how to not love him - because thats impossible. If you love someone, then you love them. And thats that. But, I can tell you that if you know that right now isn't a good time for you to be in a relationship, then don't answer his calls. Don't go see him. Kill all contact you have with him. If you wan't to get over him and attempt to move on, then you can't hear his voice or see his face. It'll just pull you in deeper, and make it impossible for you to move on.

I think the real question is, do you want to move on? This isn't a matter of forgeting or falling out of love with him, because that won't happen. Its a matter of moving on, and whether or not you want to. And thats a question that I, or anyone else, can not answer for you.




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