I like this guy that goes to my school and it is pretty obvious he likes me to. We flirt all the time like MAJORLY flirting so much my teachers can even tell. The problem is he has a girlfriend. But he calls me more then he calls her! The other day when we were on the phone he said that someday me and him will go out. I dont know what to do because I like him alot and its obvious he likes me and I want him to break up with his girlfriend but i dont see that happening anytime soon. What should i do?
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:19 am: Well, he deffinitly seems to like you. You need to tell him he needs to sort stuff out with his current girlfriend. Evidently, he's going to break up with her soon if hehas such great feelings for you. If he doesnt break up with her soon, he might be playing you. Ask him when is someday, and why not now. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
kenzieloveshim answered Saturday May 26 2007, 11:06 pm: Well, this guy obiously likes you a lot. If his girlfriend found out that you guys had something going on (which she might) then she would fall into peices. Since he said that someday you and him will go out, then all you have to do is wait. I know it's hard, from my experiences. But it's well worth waiting. I waited for my boyfriend for 2 months, and we are still together now, and it's been 4 months so far. So what im trying to get through to you is that if you wait then it will be worth it all the way. :D [ kenzieloveshim's advice column | Ask kenzieloveshim A Question ]
Depressed_Poet answered Saturday May 26 2007, 11:02 pm: If he says that to you, that just screams how loyal he is. Who knows? He could be doing the same to 600 other girls. Metaphorically speaking. Anyways, if you did end up going out with him, he could end up calling other girls, too. Talk to his girlfriend about this. Maybe after hearing the news she'll get mad & break up with him. But that sounds like a mean plan... but she needs to know. Then if you're REALLY sure you're still interested, ask him out. But I really think if you did, it would make it look like you lied about everything to get him. And chances are, he would deny all he's said. Get them together with you in a conversation & say:
"You guys, I really don't think your relationship is working because... " and explain what he's done to you. I mean, it would be more concincing because who would do that in front of the person you're talking about, if it was a lie? [ Depressed_Poet's advice column | Ask Depressed_Poet A Question ]
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