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i cant decide
okay ive been with this guy for a year and half- we're from 2 different religions and my mom would like kill me and i know we have no future if we got married or anything in the future. but recently i met this guy who is sooooooooo hot and he wants me and i realy wanna kiss him and stuff like that...and the reason for that is cus the guy i am with doesnt statisfy me sexually i mean he is not attractive and doesnt turn me on.
im really confused i just wanna cheat but i dont know if i should. is it that wrong to satisfy your feelings somewhere else?
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Okay, so let me get this straight. You're with a guy that you have absolutely no future with -- you're from different religions, your parents don't like him, you don't find him attractive, and he doesn't satisfy you sexually. So why the heck are you with him in the first place?
If you don't want to be with this guy, then break up with him; no matter what, he doesn't deserve to be with someone who doesn't appreciate him and want to be with him.
If you break up with him, then you can get with Guy #2 and keep your self-respect -- AND you don't get labeled as a "Cheater."
Either way, don't cheat.
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If you break up with your boyfriend, you kee your dignity and self respect. you also free yourself from a relationship with no future. and you get your mom off your back.
if you dont cheat, and stay together, then your bored with this boy and also, you may get attatched to him whhich wouldent be good because you cant get married anyways. because of your religions.
if you cheat, he finds out, and breaks up with you. the other guy probably wont like that you have a boyfriend. everybody knows you as the cheating liar.
you have three options. id pick the first one
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Don't cheat on your boyfriend. It is wrong to "satisfy your feelings somewhere else" if you are currently in a relationship. You should break up with your current boyfriend because it sounds like you have no feelings whatsoever for him anymore, just because you've been together for a long time doesn't mean you have to be with him for the rest of your life. Feelings die out. It sounds like you like this other guy better than your current boyfriend anyways, you should be with him.
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You definitely should not cheat. Ever. If you know you don't have a future with the guy that you are with currently, why are you dragging him along? That's not fair to either of you. Break up with him if that's really how you feel. As for the other guy, you should form a relationship with him before having sex. People are throwing their bodies around way too much these days. You could have a much more satisfying relationship with him if you took the time to get to know him and love him on an emotional level before starting to be sexually active with him right away. My advice for you is to break up with your current boyfriend and pursue a RELATIONSHIP with the guy that you think is hot. Sex is way overreated and the consequences are too big on a physical and emotional level to have sex without a solid relationship. I know you're probably young and full of hormones, but you need to learn to control it a little bit. You'll have a lot to regret in the future if you don't. Good luck. <3
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If you're losing interest in your boyfriend, then you need to break up with him. Staying with him would only be leading him on, and cheating on him would only make things worse. Break up with him, and then do what satisfies you.
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dont cheat. thats just really mean to do to your boyfriend even if your losing interest. talk to your boyfriend and discuss it with him. you can always be like abby i think we should take a break its just theres this guy and he really wants me nad i want to give him a cahnce but i still liek you alot. its just i dont feel like were getting any farther than where we are. maybe if we take a break then later if we get back together we can have a better relationship.
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