ok well i hope you can answer ouestions well mine are about sex and well my body #1 the first time tou have sex does it hurt #2 do you still feel it when you wear a condom #3 ok well is it normal for me to feel wet when well im excited #4 is it normal to be scared. and well people call me prude because well im 16-17 and the only thing ive done was kiss please help
#1. yes it hurts if you don't masturbate alot.
#2. yes you feel it when you wear a condom. condoms only help protect against pregnancy
#3. yes when you get excited and get wet it's a natural lubricant. be happy it happens cause some don't have it.
#4. yes it's very normal to be scared.and yes some people may call you prude. but there is nothing wrong with it.
my oppinion is that if you didn't know the answer to #2 then i don't think you are ready for sex
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ok well ive never had birth control and ive never had sex but well do they have to do somekind of exxame and well i dont like docters but if they have to do an externly exame will they break through your maiden head
yes they will have to give you a quick papsmear. they will call it a complete physical. but no they won't break your heimen.
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wow this is really embaressing but is it normal for a gurl to well masterbate and like is masterbation different like does it feel different
when your having sex you know like does sex and 4 play feel the same or different
it's normal for anyone to masturbate. scientists and psycologists have agreed that masturbation is healthy. plus it's the safest sex there is. yes it feels different. but also sex is never completely safe so know the risks
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My boyfriend is at his dads for spring break and his dad lives 3 hrs away from here. I am finding it really hard to get him off my mind. I just lay around thinking of him and waiting for him to call me. But he only calls me late so he wont get in trouble. What can i do to pass the time and get him off my mind?
watch movies. music. hang with friends. job. voulenteer.
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Hi. I always think it's important for me to look prettier and do better than all women I know. Whether they are in my family or not. It's not so much friends, but especially people I hate. Is this normal? What should I do to ween myself off of acting this way?
Thanks
well yes it's normal. you feel inferior so you need to be in the spotlight and the center of attention. well just try and accept that other people do have better qualities than you and you as well have better qualities than others.
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ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart.
maybe he's woowed.lol. just talk to him. ask him and you will know if he's lying or not
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Anyone who has tried over the counter teeth whiteners, can you tell me the best one you have tried (i.e. crest white strips, rembrant, etc.)
thanks!
colgate overnight whitening gel. it works wonders
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i emailed my friend to tell her some really good news (i finally got something i worked really hard for) like three nights ago and now shes finally emailed back. its a reply from my original email and all it says is 'dya know the school website'.
am i overreacting to be hurt like i am? it seems like she doesnt care. there wasnt even a 'congrats' in there.
no you aren't overreacting. she acted very rude
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Hi ive been finding it really hard to sleep for the last few days, can anyone give me some advice on how i might be able to get a few hours at least of sleep thank you..
ill rate hight for good answers
try a hot bath
a massage
sleeping pills
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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah.
just sit down and talk to each other. then the tension should lift. but if you care for each other that much then you should have a healthy relatonship
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So im making a bet with a friend, and if i win i get to make her do soemthing completely non sexual (and i do mean completely) and im at a loss, cant come up with anything. while your answering feel free to make suggestions for her as well, shes having trouble too.
WELL let's try this. for the looser
stand up in the middle of lunch and sing im a
little teapot
wear underwear outside on top of pants all day
long in public
ask a total stranger if he would go out with you
go around dressed like a baby
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so i leftmy binder in my dads truck and he read through one of my notebooks...a very private notebook i might add...he read how many guys ive had sex with and diifernt drugs ive tryed and shit like that...he told me this tonight as he pulled it out of his briefcase....and read me all the passages...how should i handle this...cuz hes not handling it too well...:/
well he shouldn't have invaded your privacy but if you are ashamed or annoyed then you shouldn't have done these things. but just sit down and get everything out in the open. just be totally honest with him
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ok.. so my mom got a boyfriend and shes 48 hes 38 and i am 15 he also has a son who is 7 years old.
well my mom was a single mom ever since i was 3 and as a couple of boyfriends all that she has broken up with .
She basically raised me to hate guys .. i guess
so now that she has a new boyfriend they are all touchy and feely and its is doo discusting. i mean they like do it right infront of me .. i mean i guess they think i should be used to if because im 15..
Or sometimes she will stay out till like in the morning .
I dont knowif this is a question more like i need advice cause im just so fustrated..
ill rate
thanks
well tell her what's going on. she's a mother and she needs to act like one. and be responsible. but she does need to be able to have a life outside of family. so just talk to her.
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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!
well you can't go out with someone just because you don't want to hurt them. he does seem nice and like a good catch. maybe you shoudl just talk with him about it.
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Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!
talk to him and ask him how he would feel about you dating him and if he wants to then go for it. you can't help who you like and your parents will just have to accept that. and plus in a few years he might have a gf or you might not like him anymore
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Hey I need some help.. I am getting sent away soon and I am like in love with my boyfriend.. he is in a boys homeand I'm afraid I am never gonna get to see him again. I am afraid to tell him how I feel.. then there is this new girl coming to our school and she wants to hook up with him and he likes her too... i dont want to leave.. because I don't want to lose him.. please help.. i dont want to lose my baby boi
just ask him straight out about the other girl. tell him how you feel and how you don't want to loose him. just be honest. and ask him if you can keep in touch and ask him if he still wants to go out with you.
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i went to the beach last weekend and got VERY sunburned. my right leg and foot are swollen and hurt very badly, and i have to drive for 2 hours tomorrow. Any way to take down the swelling from my burn on saturday, or to help the burn heal faster? (i've already used aloe multiple times) thanks!
try ice. it should help to bring the swelling down. but wrap it in a thin towel, or a t-shirt. and keep applying aloe
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15/f-i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we were best friends for nearly a year prior to ever dating, we're very serious about each other and he means a lot to me. lately however, i've been thinking about other guys, such as two of my best friends, who i had crushes on in the past, i know that i care about my current boyfriend more than them, and that i don't want to give up what i have with him, but that doesn't stop me from wondering about these other guys that i wanted a relationship with at one time. What should i do? thanks!
just don't worry about it. it's just being curious. but just think about your bf everytime you think of them and how much he means to you. and you could talk to him and be honest because he probably has teh same feelings for other girls.
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i recently got my hair cut but they cut it way too short for my liking, it just reaches my shoulders and is layered all over and i cant do anything with it so i was just wondering if theres anyone out there that can give me advice on what i can do with it or a way of styling short hair really anything
thanks alot xoxo
try culing it outward. use a curling iron and flip it out. very cute and easy
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I'm not sure how many of you will remember but I am the girl who talks to her boyfriend on the phone, and I was afraid that I was caught because we were talking dirty on the phone. The link is [ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=300878 ], incase anybody else wants to answer, but anyway, I am thinking that my mom may not know because she said that nobody thinks I am doing anything, and tonight, I was just talking to him, and she came up in my room, and said, "I came to ask if the conversations up here are clean" And I said yes and asked her why, and she said, "your sister told me to come and ask because I asked her." Ok, that makes me think that only my little sister may know, but I need other opinions on it, because I just need help here, could somebody please just lay out their opinion?
well if you are worried about it then don't do it. or do it in person. but i think that she may know so just ask
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