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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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ok lately i've begun doing crunches every night to try and tone my stomach a bit. andf tonight, whenever i finished doing them, i looked at my stomach, there's a bunch of little red dots all over it. i don't know if it's because i'm possibly doing too many or what, but do you know what's going on? should i stop doing crunches for awhile?
Thats completely normal it just means your sweating alot and pimples are forming, (yes you can have pimples almost anywhere on your body.) Nothing to be concerned about.
Okay so i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 17.(he just turned it about a month ago, and i am turning 15 in November).
We are seriously crazy about each other, and if you want to say that a 14 doesn't know what love is, then i'm the next closest thing to it. We've been together for about a year (16 days shy). We want to be together forever. Yeah, you can think we're crazy, it's alright. lol. What i'd like to know is, is it normal to feel like this at an age like 14, and is it realistic that we could last forever?
Aw hun, thats soo sweet. Yes its realistic that that you 2 could last forever, my grandma met her husband when she was 12 and they've been together ever since and shes now 65. If hes a good guy and doesnt smoke or drink alot and treats you with respect and you love eachother then theres nothing wrong with wanting to be together forever. Good luck!
I really want to 'sort of' come out, but my mum thinks that I shouldn't because our town is full of biggots and homophobes. I would only come out on my myspace, by putting bisexual on the sexuality, just so someone might see it. I don't know how to convince her that I sould be able to do so, and I really don't want to do something so big without havin her agreement. Could someone please tell me something to help convince my mum?
Tell her that you didnt choose to be bisexual and you cant help it and it doesn't matter what other people will think and say because as long as your happy then theres nothing to be concerned about.
Ive heard theres a vive prof straightening shampoo or something like that...does it actually straighten your hair or make it less curly?
My friend used it and said it worked, but she has wavy hair its not super curly. It may not work for everyone but you could always try it. If you dont want to waste your money if your having doubts it wont work then use a straighter or blow dry it straight.
ok i have this spot on my shoulder that hurts i didnt do any thing to pull it or hit it ,it just started to hurt it only hurts when i move it and when i dont it feels funny the pains not horrible just kinda hurts what could it be???
Maybe you pulled a muscle have you been working out alot lately using your upper arm strength? Hmm, it could be anything. I would give it a week and see if it goes away and if it still hurts just as bad go see a doctor.
Ok, so this is a bit of a messy situation and any advice you can give will be greatly appricated.
Im an 18yr old female - I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for six years - none of my friends like him. They say hes abusive and controlling. At the moment we are "on a break" but i know that we're going to get back together ... i just dont want my friends to find out becasuse i dont want them to worry about me. Even though my realationship isnt always pretty, i love what i have and im not going to lose it again.
So anything you can say that might help me know what to do would be greatly appricated
thanks
Jenna
If hes abusive then why would you want to be with him. I think you could do way better and find a guy that doesn't hurt you in any way. And doesn't it ring a bell when ALL of your friends hate him?! If they are true friends which they seem to be then they want whats best for you and they dont want to have to know that your being hit and controlled by your boyfriend. Listen to your friends they know what they're doing. I know you should make decisions for yourself but whenever I dont listen to my friends and just block out what they are saying I always end up wishing I would have just listened and trusted them. I dont know how hes abusing you whether its physical verbal or sexual abuse but any of those 3 are bad and if he treats you like that then hes not worth your time. Who are you going to trust, your friends who you have probably known for a long time and know they are always there for you or a boyfriend that abuses you. He may be a really nice guy but the fact is that no one likes him. When no one likes him its obvious somethings not right.. Well thats all my opinion I hope you make the right decision. Hope I helped.
what are going to be some popular shoes for the fall? last year it was uggs and birkenstocks im just wondering what this year will be =] thankss
I've been seeing those Vans that have a checkered pattern and I see them everywhere. I guess you could say they are "in" but I don't like them at all. Basically any kind of flats are in style. You shouldn't just wear what everyone else wears, be the original one and stand out and where what you like not what the crowd likes. What's in and whats out changes really fast and its hard to keep track so your better off with wearing the shoes and clothes that you like.
can u give me 3 question to ask to my crush
or any topic should i talk to him?
please and thank you
1. What kind of music he likes and doesnt like and what his favorite bands and songs are.
2. What he looks for in a girl and turn ons and turn offs.
3. Ask him what channels he likes on tv and what his favorite shows are and if you know one of the shows hes talking about then say you like that show to and tell him your favorite episode.
Just ask and talk about anything thats on your mind. It doesnt need to be rehearsed. The best questions and converations are ones that are natural and come from your heart not when you practice what you're going to say. Its more special if you let it flow so just ask questions and talk about topics that are on your mind at the moment and you should be fine.
16/m a couple of days ago i asked this girl out and she said that she only liked me as a friend and she wanted us to get to know each other better first and then maybe we could try it. i'm ok with that but i dont really know how to get to know her better or anything i dont know what to do. any ideas?
Ask her if she wants to hang out so you guys can talk and learn more about eachother. You could go to the mall movies bowling ice skating wherever you think she would like to go. Make sure your really nice to her and be confident don't act all nervous around her. Become best friends with her and tell eachother all your secrets and talk on the phone 24/7. Compliment her alot but dont sound obsessed. Help her when shes sad and comfort her. Invite her over to your house to watch movies and just hang out. Just be yourself and maybe even hug her every once in a while to let her know that you really do care about hwr. Don't rush into this relationship yet. When you feel you guys are really close then make another move. If you have more questions then ask.
There's this girl... and last year she bothered me/ called me names ALL year (she was in 3 of my classes). And the other day I was at my highschool for preseason soccer (we haven't started school yet) and she happened to be there for school pictures. She comes up to me and says, "Hey you ugly a** b****!" I was kinda mortified, if you know what I mean. And I really don't want my 4 high school years to be filled with being bullied around. I mean I'm tired of it and not really sure what to do or who to talk to...
Don't worry, your problem can be sloved but you have to tell someone. I would tell either a teacher or the school guidance counselor and they will probably call your parents and notify them and trust me whoever is bothering you they can suspend them and they will call the bully's parents as well and the situation will be handeled. If you don't speak up you will have to live with this for a long time unless you move. Tell an adult you trust and they will help you. My friend had a bully and she told a teacher and they had everything dealt with and now the bully is too scared to even come near my friend. ♥
whats a good picture editing program that i can download off the internet?
Paint Shop Pro X is personally the best in my opinion and you get a 30 day free trial but once the trial is up you're out of luck unless you want to buy it for around $90.
ok does anyoen have or know and myspace sites for aim profiles?? or any site for cute aim profiles??
liek for example one like this:
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=90468927
but just not that one lol.
thankz a tonz :)
If you go on buddy4u.com look at the top profiles and almost all of the have aim profiles and they are really good ones and orginal. Just click on a profile and look for where it says aim profiles if they have any and find one you like. I think its better then the myspace sites that have them but thats just me and if you're confused about this I'll help you. Hope I helped.
So theres this girl in my grade, and i am trying to figure out whether she likes me or not. here are some reasons why i think she does
~She always waves to me
~She told me to call her once when i got back from vacation to ask how it was
~ when i called her she said a greeting so quickly its as if she planned it.
~she asked me if she saw her wave and from the bus.
well> do you think she likes me?
Aw, babe she must like you alot. If you are already good friends with her I would flirt with her back. If she waves, wave back. And call her more often and talk longer. You should ask her who she likes and if she asks you should tell her the truth and tell her straight forward that you like her. I think you should be the one to ask her out because its obvious you guys have feelings for eachother and theres no reason to wait another minute.. Good luck!!
Is it normal as you get older for the feeling of being uh..horny to increase?
and what can be done to stop the feeling.
How about masturbating? It's a save way to get the hornyness out of your system haha!!! Or if you dont want to masturbate you could try doing things to get it off your mind like playing sports,video games, watch tv listen to music anything to keep you busy!!!!
So..there was this party that was happening.. my boyfriend invited me but I had to go out of state for a sports related conflict. Anyways, he told me he was going to go without me because it was one of his best friends parties.. so, reguardless, he cheated on me (not only nonstop-make out- but fingered and felt up a girl)- keep in mind he was drunk. it still questions me though- how do you get so drunk you forget about your GIRLFRIEND completely?? Should I stay with him or not? He claims it was because he was so drunk and horny, but he really does love me. TOUCH CALL. Thanks in advance.
Wow this is a really tough problem that you have. I forgive people a lot, but in situations like this I don't think I could go out with someone knowing that he cheated on me. And the fact that he got so drunk and he didn't know what he was doing shows he has no self control and I think a guy needs self control because I wouldn't want my boyfriend at parties without me drinking and doing stuff with other girls. I would definitely talk to him about it. You should probably forgive him if you're a forgiving person but you have 2 options. 1. You could give him a second chance. If this is the first time hes ever cheated on you give him 1 more chance to redeem himself but if he does it one more time you should dump his ass. or choice 2. If you feel that hes just going to keep doing this to you and cheating then theres no purpose of a second chance you could just dump him now. I'm a nice person I would give him a 2nd chance but I only give people one more chance if he even kissed another girl then he would be gone in my book. But if hes the type of guy that has cheated on ALL of his past girlfriend then you should dump him now. I don't know him so I'm not sure if hes a good guy. If hes known for cheating on girls then please get him out of your life now he'll only cause trouble. But if hes a really good guy that has a good reputation and he has a goal in life and doesnt do drugs or bad stuff, then maybe it was just a mistake. You have to make the right descision, and don't be afriad to dump him because theres plenty more guys that would treat you better. Best of luck to you.
Hi, I'm 5' 6" and weight 122.5lbs. I still have some extra belly and thighs and calves and I want to get rid of them. I've lost almost 5lbs in two weeks and I still want to lose more. Is this healthy?
Yup, thats healthy in 2 weeks the average is like 6-7 so you're doing very good. You can keep losing weight but I think you only need to lose like 3 more pounds not much at all. Make sure you don't over do it.
my ex-boy & i dated for about four months. we broke up in february. we barely talk. he recently went off to college & he imed me today asking me if i wanted to hang out. what does this mean? is he just trying to make me feel better? what?
Aw, maybe he misses you and wants a relationship again or he just wants to be plain friends. You should ask him to find out the truth. ♥
well im 13/f and i haven't gotten my period yet. i guess i have big boobs i'm almost a B. ALL my friends have got theres but i dont know when i'm going to get mine, i hope soon. help me...
Trust me, be happy you didn't get yours yet because its a real pain. I bet your friends are all jealous and wish they were you! Some girls don't get theres until 16 so you know what you have a while to go before you should be concerned. You'll probably get yours around the same time your mom or another female family member did. Never go by friends because everyone develops differently and boob size isn't always right either. Hope I helped..
13/f
i want to try out for cheerdancing but before that, my coach says i have to focus on my weight. she said i was too heavy but i'm still able to do stuff like cartwheel, handstand,etc. does anyone have tips on how to lose weight in a healthy way?? i'd appreciate it. by the way, i think tryouts are gonna be weeks from now.
tnx in advance!:)
I'm going to make this short and simple so you don't get confused, just eat healthy (no or very little junkfood) and only eat rougly around 1,500-1,800 calories a day and excersize and do lots of cardio like running swimming walking etc. and you should lose weight fast. ♥
what are some things i can do to keep myself from being bored? besides tv, computer, and music. and excercise. i ALREADY do that.
LOTS of ideas would be helpful!
16/f
oh yeah and im grounded so i cant hang out with friends. thats why im bored.!
- play with your pet if you have one
- read books
- read magazines
- watch movies
- draw
- make up a dance
- write a song
- try on all your clothes in your closet and come up with new outfits with them
- if your birthdays coming up then make a list of what you want
- write a poem
- make jewelry
- make a craft
- bake something
- make purses out of ducktape!
Hmm, thats all I could think of right now but I'll edit my answer as I think of more stuff.
♥