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Bullying
There's this girl... and last year she bothered me/ called me names ALL year (she was in 3 of my classes). And the other day I was at my highschool for preseason soccer (we haven't started school yet) and she happened to be there for school pictures. She comes up to me and says, "Hey you ugly a** b****!" I was kinda mortified, if you know what I mean. And I really don't want my 4 high school years to be filled with being bullied around. I mean I'm tired of it and not really sure what to do or who to talk to...
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Don't worry, your problem can be sloved but you have to tell someone. I would tell either a teacher or the school guidance counselor and they will probably call your parents and notify them and trust me whoever is bothering you they can suspend them and they will call the bully's parents as well and the situation will be handeled. If you don't speak up you will have to live with this for a long time unless you move. Tell an adult you trust and they will help you. My friend had a bully and she told a teacher and they had everything dealt with and now the bully is too scared to even come near my friend. ♥
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Hey i had a bullying problem only i didnt handle is so well,(a guy kept makin fun of me having glasses..i was okaay with that but then gr grabbed them and took em off...so i jumped on him and got em bak) anyway DO NOT and i repeat DO NOT do what i did just take it lightly you get people like that in the world hat havnt got anthing better to do than make fun of people just shake it off dont take it seriously, talk to friends about it, or a teacher you feel close to.(i prefer tho choose 1 of those mean teachers with a short fuse that everyones scared of) if you live in the uk. try calling child line its free (0800 1111) they also have people that can help.....hope i helped and id just like to say yure extremely brave for addmiting you have a bullying problem (bullys are jerks) and talking helps. oh and i forgot to say try not to make fun of the bully back no matter how easy :D or how badly you want to , it always makes it worse, if you have a school councellor halk to them. chanses are if u sort it out sheel stop immideately....m sure your not ugly...i bet she is:D
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Well, I think it's really brave of you to open up. A lot of people are afraid to admit they are a victim of bullying. And although sometimes, there is a cause for it, sometimes you are just targeting when you have done nothing wrong. Don't feel alone; it can happen to anyone. Here is a really good site on bullying and included is a confidential hotline you can call:
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Like it says on that site, tell a trusted adult. School districts take that as a big deal. The don't tolerate it. So speak up. Tell a school principal or counselor or even your soccer sponsor.
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