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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

i am 13 and i really like this guy anthony
1.what are some was i can make him want me??
Like today at school i wore a shirt that showed off my chest. You can see my bra and the sides of my boobs. Well today in class since my friend sits next ot anthony i leaned over on her desk so he can see my chest and he was looking!!! for now on i am wearing more revealing shirts!!
2.i mean i just want him to ask me out so i can hug him and kiss him and hold his hand. I want to do this as soon as possible,especially the kissing and the hand holding. But i never kissed a guy before. but i want this kiss to not just be a peck on the lips i want it to last over 1 minute and i want it to be as described:
first we are walking at school all alone with no one around hand in hand. We walk very slowly. We go behind the handball courts, we stare into each others eyes do a half smile. And then ill say o its cold outside and hell give me his sweater and get closer and grabs me as our faces are getting closer and closer and we kiss. It will be lasting over 1 minute with open mouths and if he wants to put his tongue in my mouth i will slowly let him and make my tongue touch his. And while we are doing this i will have my hands on his hips constantly moving and his hands will either be on my waist or starting at the waist and moving up slightly touching my breasts. By then my shirt would be half way open. And after we are finally done we slowly break our lips apart and ill say i love you and give him a quick kiss on the lips.it will be the best time of my life so far i am only 13 but that is how i would like my first kiss to be and i would like it to be with anthony or with alex but i really wish it was with anthony, well does that sound like a good first kiss.
love always anthony b.
Julie

hey hun! WOW your first kiss is already planned. that is cool but it might not always end up like that. i dont think it would be a good idea to wear shirts like that because then you will get him attracted to you in the wrong way. he will want you for sex and nothin else. and you shouldne be diplaying yourself as a slut. it really isnt cool or right. i know my first kiss wasnt planned out. it was unexpected but still romantic. i will charish it forever. i think you should figure out a way to talk to him and find out how he really feels about you.

*~Stephanie~*

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i have to meet my boyfriend's parents tomorrow. and tips on how to make a good impression?

everyone below covered it much but i just got to add one thing. Be yourself. dont try to be soemthing your not. act like you normally would but be poliate and proper about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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what clothes are the hottest?? i am a male!!

it all depends on your style and what you like. i personaly like a guy who is a lil preppy that wears dickies, and south pole tops that dont sag to show there boxers. but most guys like wear g-unit,dickies, shaddy, sean jones and stuff like that hhope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it bad to give a guy head if you have cuts in your mouth? bc someone told me you werent supposed to and well like i accidentally bit the inside of my cheek and it bled and welll im hanging out with my boyfrind tongiht so i was jw?

I wouldnt do anything like that. if u made it bleed you will have a higher risk of gettin any kind of diease and hiv.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it a turn off if girls dont shave?

it really is what the guy lies. some guys do like it shaved, others like it trimed. it all depends on the guy.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am short for my age. I'm 14 and 4'11". I try to look at the positives but it's hard sometimes. Do guys like shorter girls? I feel like they won't... I will only grow about 1 or 2 inches more... What can I do??

dotn worry about. some guys do some dont. my best friend is 15 and is 4'9". dont worry everyone different. i mean her hieght never stopped her from dating. she has gone out with guys that are 6'4" and it didnt bother them. looks arent everythin personality is.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did?

I think it would be because he hurt you once he will do it again. do you really want your heart broken again? i hope not.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just got a great new boyfriend. But I'm totally afraid to kiss him because I've never kissed anyone before and everyone's like you'll know how to do and stuff but srsly, I don't know if I go on the top lip, bottom lip, what? I'm so confused. And also, how can I not have bad breath while making out with him? It seems no matter how hard I brush my teeth and stuff I always seem to have bad breath!!! Gum solves the problem but i cant have gum when I make out. Please help, thanks. Love, Chels.

hey girly. i was in the same sistution as you about a year ago. we the hell told you you cant make out with someone when you got gum in your mouth. You CAN make out with someone when you have gum in your mouth. relax when you kiss it will come naturally. seriously. no game. i was probably as neverous maybe even more then you are when i first got my boyfriend. a few tips;

dont put to much tongue it will feel werid.

make sure to swallow to much saliva is nasty.

hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay you know how you get your period every 28 days?? do you start counting from the day you get it, er the day you end??

i gotten my period the first of march & it lasted till around the 5th er 6th. i didn't get it yet soo should i expect it around the same time??

thanks!!

you start the day you get it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey,
I have fair skin and im looking for a bathing suite. Im wondering which color suit will look best and not make me look even more pale or make my skin stand out even more. Like black does that make my skin look even lighter? I will get alittle darker this summer but still pretty light. So i need to know which colors would b best. Thank you!
-marsbars

i think light colors would be the best for you. i know it is for me but then i again i might not me the same shades as you.

*~Stephanie~*

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ok ...is it 100% true that when sperm hits the air it dies???? so if the guy pulled out and just whiped it with his hand could it have make me pregnant? thanks!!! i rate 5s! but please only answer if your sure! thanks!

it isnt one hundered percent sure but like 99.99% that it will die right away.
*~Stephanie~*

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Last night my boy friend and i were havin dry sex and he got some cum on his boxers, but we were both wearing underwear, and some of it might have gotten on my underwear too..is it possible that i could be pregnant?

there isnt a high chance thtat u are pregnant bc once sperm hit the air it dies.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a band concert in a few days. i have this skirt:
http://www.pims-world.com/AE%20Patchwork%20Skirt1.jpg
but i don't know what kind of top to wear with it. the skirt comes to my knees and i need just a simple top to wear with it. in the end it needs to look kind of nice and stuff. do y'all have any suggesstions?

I think the cutest thing to wear would be a brown colored shirt or a tan colored shirt.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey im 13/f and pretty much everyone kissed a guy but me. Yea i know im still young its just ive been thinking about it more and more lately. I know I'm ready for it i keep playing scenes in my head of how perfect it will be. Its bugging me because its ALWAYS on my mind and i keep dreaming about it. I know Im not gonna kiss anyone soon so how do I keep all of these thoughts out? Its kind of a weird question I know but if you can help that would be great =). I rate 5's for good advice.


Thanks

i didnt get my first kiss until i was 14. i was just like you i was worried about it and couldnt stop thinking about it. i dont think you should worry about i think yo should think about somethign else to keep your mind off of it. when it happens it happens.
*~Stephanie~*

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how can i tunr a guy down easily like because hes really cool but i dont like him that way i dont want to hurt his feelings because hes like sensitve like that


please help



brittany

trust me girl it will never be easy to turn a guy down no matter what. no matter what he will still get hurt. the only thing i can think of is to tell him that you dont want more then a friend with him and that you dont have time for a boyfriend.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi! This is basically a follow-up question to 'valentines day carnation sale' {http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=414340}...

Well anyway, so this "nerd" named Trevor. I hate to sound stuck up/jerky but I really don't like him! And I told him I didn't like him, and my friend Christie (She and trevor are neighbors/good friends) kind of hinted it to him that I don't like him, and he asked me out again and at the time I was dating my ex Jimmy anyways, so it was easy to say that i wasnt interested.
Now it's starting to get annoying! He's changed lunch tables to practically stalk me. Like, seriously breathe down my sandwich, it's not just a cooincidence! Also, in math class, the students get to make our seating charts, right? Well, he made the seating chart with 2 other kids for this month, and guess where I sit? Right next to him! It's bugging the heck out of me. Even worse- he stares. At me. All the time. I never asked for a staring contest! All I want is one thing: PERSONAL SPACE.

Before I file a restraining order, what should I do?!?!?

Thanks, I usually rate 5's.

tell a teacher that you dont want to be sittign next to him because he doesnt give you any space. then go up to him and tell him striaght up that you dont him around you all the damn time. no one should be able to take away from your learning time and most importantly not your personal space. i would talk to him in a serious was and tell the truth that you dont want to be around him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i had a cingular phone since june 2004 and i want to get a new phone ..the phone contract is 2 years so does that mean i get a new phone in june or something? what does that mean?

yup you can call them and they will tell you the day you can. it would be some time in june of this year. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, i have a question.. I used to be on birthd control I stopped taking it about a month ago, but my periods late this month, does anyone know if getting off birthd control after my last period would affect that? Like it wouldn't be that I'm pregnant cuz i haven't had sex since i got off, but i was just wondering becuase i always hate when its late.

it is from the birht control pills. the pill is supposed to control your hermones and when you stop and has to be able to control its self. so it will be late. you will be fine dont worry about. stress can also make ur periods late.
*~Stephanie~*

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i was wondering if a boy had precum on his finger then fingered you could you be pregnant? thanks! i rate 5s!

no because once sperm hit the air it dies.
*~Stephanie~*

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What is the chance of a condom breaking while your using it?

they areally isnt a high rsik for breaking the condom if the person noe what they are doing and puttin it on right.
*~Stephanie~*

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