I am short for my age. I'm 14 and 4'11". I try to look at the positives but it's hard sometimes. Do guys like shorter girls? I feel like they won't... I will only grow about 1 or 2 inches more... What can I do??
You have to remember that there will always be men out there who will find you attractive, whether you're a blonde haired babe with boobs like Pamela Anderson or a hunchback with one eye and a limp!!
If you're 14, you have time to grow another few inches, not just one or two so please don't give up yet. Even if you don't grow, you need to learn to be happy with the person that you are. There are plenty of people in the world who have done a lot with a lot more problems than being short so don't let it get you down too much. Try to accept and love yourself as you are and you'll find other people follow suit. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:25 pm: "Do guys like shorter girls?"
In my experience absolutely!!! They like to feel taller, and love little cute short girls because it makes them feel bigger. Don't even worry!
Any guy worth his salt will love you for who you are, not your height.
If YOU want to appear taller for your own sake there's heels, haircuts and the right jeans.
But SERIOUSLY, you should be happy! My boyfriend sometimes looks put out when I tell him I'm nearly as tall as him. He wants me to be shorter! Tall girls can intimidate guys. You just gotta work that cute factor. Lucky you! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
xEVYx answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:17 pm: there's nothing you can do
but don't worry about it. most guys that i've ever known like short girls. and at least you dont have to worry about being taller than your boyfriend!
SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:17 pm: dotn worry about. some guys do some dont. my best friend is 15 and is 4'9". dont worry everyone different. i mean her hieght never stopped her from dating. she has gone out with guys that are 6'4" and it didnt bother them. looks arent everythin personality is.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
oXoCutiex6 answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 6:44 pm: Nothing, evreoyne is built diffrent. beign short is nice i promise. there a girl in 7th grade in my school whos like 3' and a girl in my grade(8th) whos like 4'6'' and neither of them wont grow more than another inch or two.. dont worry about it hun!! [ oXoCutiex6's advice column | Ask oXoCutiex6 A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 6:02 pm: I'm 14 and I'm only 5'0.
Most guys find a shorter girl cute.
There is nothing wrong with being short at all. You should love it. It's much better then being like 5'9 when your boyfriend is only like 5'6.
There is not much you can do about it but wear heels.
mystical_breeze answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:18 pm: Yeah most guys like shorter girls because then they don't have to worry about you being taller then them, and a lot of guys think its cute. Most guys actually don't really care about height, and you should be glad you're short because I know a lot of girls who don't like how tall they are, and don't like being taller then the guys they go out with.
VixenDark answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:11 pm: Don't worry about it. A lot of guys think it is cute.
I'm short too. ^^ And my mom is only 5'. She's been married almost 20 years to my dad, with no separations or divorces, though they've had their fights. So no, I wouldn't worry about guys too much, lol. [ VixenDark's advice column | Ask VixenDark A Question ]
so_so_so_scandalous answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:08 pm: If a guy is really into you your height won't matter to him. Any guy that is put off by your height isn't a real man at all. Just one of the judgemental losers. Height REALLY doesn't matter at all. A friend of mine is a dwarf (born with dwarfism), so she is MUCH shorter than you, kind of like a infant school child (5 or 6 years old) and shes never had any problems with the guys.
As for what you can do.. There isn't really much you can do about it but some jeans make your legs look longer and some hairstyles add height to you so experiment hun! And not forgetting theres heels!
Try finding something about yourself you like, whether its your eyes or hair! Flaunt it hun!
Being short has it advantages hun! Don't sweat it enjoy your height its what makes you you!
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:07 pm: Actually i know tons of guys that like short petite females..
They`ve told me that its cute to have a small girl instead of a tall one..But there is guys who rather have a taller girl with that long legs && stuff but then again there some that just look for personality..
Don`t be worried about guys sweetie if they ave to like everything then most likely you don`t need them..
cheerbabe22 answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:06 pm: you can see your doctor and they can probley give you medication to make you grow. and also, most guys like shorter girls i think most of them find it a big turnoff if there taller then the guys [ cheerbabe22's advice column | Ask cheerbabe22 A Question ]
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