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first kiss
i am 13 and i really like this guy anthony
1.what are some was i can make him want me??
Like today at school i wore a shirt that showed off my chest. You can see my bra and the sides of my boobs. Well today in class since my friend sits next ot anthony i leaned over on her desk so he can see my chest and he was looking!!! for now on i am wearing more revealing shirts!!
2.i mean i just want him to ask me out so i can hug him and kiss him and hold his hand. I want to do this as soon as possible,especially the kissing and the hand holding. But i never kissed a guy before. but i want this kiss to not just be a peck on the lips i want it to last over 1 minute and i want it to be as described:
first we are walking at school all alone with no one around hand in hand. We walk very slowly. We go behind the handball courts, we stare into each others eyes do a half smile. And then ill say o its cold outside and hell give me his sweater and get closer and grabs me as our faces are getting closer and closer and we kiss. It will be lasting over 1 minute with open mouths and if he wants to put his tongue in my mouth i will slowly let him and make my tongue touch his. And while we are doing this i will have my hands on his hips constantly moving and his hands will either be on my waist or starting at the waist and moving up slightly touching my breasts. By then my shirt would be half way open. And after we are finally done we slowly break our lips apart and ill say i love you and give him a quick kiss on the lips.it will be the best time of my life so far i am only 13 but that is how i would like my first kiss to be and i would like it to be with anthony or with alex but i really wish it was with anthony, well does that sound like a good first kiss.
love always anthony b.
Julie
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I'm sorry but, your planning this out?
Why?
And why do you wish to have a boyfriend, if your sole goal is physical accomplishment? Because that is exactly what I got from what you wrote.
If this is your goal in getting this guy to like you, then just stop now and spend time rethinking it all to yourself. What do you want out of this? Is it to be accepted and be like everyone else? Is it for your conscience? In the end it is all futile.
And from the looks of how your dressing, your attracting the wrong kinds of guys with the wrong kind of reasons for having a girlfriend. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is much more than physical contact, it is alot deeper and you would do well to understand that. Why would you want to attract a guy whose only interest is in your body? Those kinds of relationships never last.
I would highly advice you to rethink everything. Planning everything out and especially your goals for this just seem very out of place (to me especially). Rethink everything. Would you really want to attract a guy who only wants you for your body?
-Ryan
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wooow. i love how you planned that whole scene..that sounds like a really exciting romantic first kiss but from experience i can tell you that it's not always what you plan it to be..you dont even go out with the guy yet and you already want to kiss him and say i love you. i see you want your first kiss right away but you have to slow things down. you cant just plan things and expect them to happen the exact same way.
~have fun wear those revealing shirts(dont look like a hoe)..let him notice you but make sure that if he wants you it'll be for you because kissing a guy that really likes you for you is the best first kiss ever.
*you never know maybe your dream of your first kiss will happen..i hope it does
**but you must be patient and let things happen naturally..hope i helped
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1. You CANNOT make someone like you, by wearing revealing clothes and such. If he likes you he will like you no matter what you wear, or say.
2. You are ONLY 13. You're first kiss is more of a fantasy than actual reality. I suggest you look into that more. Your first kiss will be kind of akward for the both of you. You are moving too fast, I think you should work on asking him out or letting him know how you feel before you kill yourself fantacising over something that might not happen.
♥ dina
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I know your all excited to get that first kiss.
But if you plan it; it'll take all the romance and spontanious-ness out of it.
Your first kiss doesn't mean its going to be the best or most perfect kiss. Its just your first; like in the beginging you're never perfect.
Anyways to make him like you ( or to keep him liking you for that matter ) FLIRT nonstop. Giggle with him, play with his hair, talk to him 24/7, tell him little jokes, hang out as much as possible, touch his arm or something while yall talk, smile whenever your with him, walk with him in the hall. As you move closer into a relationship with him try and just be like "Anthony, if you haven't gotten it by now, then i dont know what so say other then i really like you and i want to be your girl. I want you to wrap your arms around me and let me get lost in your love" ..
I said that to my guy =) and now were going out.
So I hope it all works out!
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hey hun! WOW your first kiss is already planned. that is cool but it might not always end up like that. i dont think it would be a good idea to wear shirts like that because then you will get him attracted to you in the wrong way. he will want you for sex and nothin else. and you shouldne be diplaying yourself as a slut. it really isnt cool or right. i know my first kiss wasnt planned out. it was unexpected but still romantic. i will charish it forever. i think you should figure out a way to talk to him and find out how he really feels about you.
*~Stephanie~*
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It seems like Anthony likes you =) You have to let first kisses come naturally, you can't plan them. Hopefully your first kiss is one to remember! =) Good Luck
<3 Kendall
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