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i just bought something like cocoa butter called shea butter.. would that work if i put it on my acne scars..? would it lighten up or no..? because i heard that it does but im not sure (link)
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Butter is like oil. Most products that clean out acne say "This product will not make your skin oily, but it will also not dry it out." I think that shea butter would make it worse, but that is from my experience. Oily skin is not good, and neither is dry so try something like Proactive, it works for me. IT'S GREAT!
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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tell someone you trust. She needs help before she ends up somewhere she's going to regret. Don't tell her "Hey, well you're cutting, I'm not gonna talk to you or be your friend!" because that does not help at all. That causes her to cut more because she is depressed for losing a friend. You need to tell a trusting adult because if you don't you will really lose her and I'm sure you don't want that. She might hate you for it when you tell someone but don't let that stop you. Tell her how much you care about her and that her cutting is also hurting you and not just her.
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i need to find a cute picture of an updo for a dance that i have tom. does anyone have a good website or anything? im kinda looking for an overflowing of curls. thanks in advance (link)
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;hearts; http://beauty.about.com/od/curlyhairstyles/ss/curlypics.htm
♥ http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/promhairupdos.htm
♥ http://www.euroteezer.com/updos_kit.html
♥ http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/
HOPE THOSE HELPED!!
♥dina
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam babysitting this child who's autistic and he left the house today without telling me what should I do if he does it again? (link)
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Tell his parents about what is going on, also another tip you should know is talk to the kid and tell him that it does not make you happy with what he is doing and he will understand.
By the way, try to put a good title for your question and try not putting "I need advice" because it is easier for people to help you if they know what the topic is about.
♥ dina
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shew.. I've been really depressed lately.. I just feel like crying.. and i don't even know why how could i get un depressed? (link)
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Try doing alot of outdoor activities with your friends or family. It always helps to talk to someone about how you are feeling.
♥ dina
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im a girl freshman and i like this junior. he doesnt know i like him but his friends do. im embarrased to tell him i have a crush so how can i tell him without embarrasment and how do i tell if he feels the same? (link)
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Trust me on this, if his buddies know, he KNOWS! Don't be shy to tell him. I mean if you ever plan on being his girlfriend the first step towards that is letting him know how you feel. If talking doesn't work, write him a note, and ask him how he feels in the note. Good luck.
♥ dina
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How can you tell when a younger guy you work with likes you? Just some signs you think are really obvious that he would like me, would be helpful thanks. (link)
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LOTS OF FLIRTING!
&heartds;dina
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can anybody please give me excellent advice/tips on how i can quit smoking for once and for all. No patches or nic gum. I've smoked for 5 yrs out of sheer stupidity. I am tire of it. Please help. I rate you 5s (link)
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It is great that your are trying to quit smoking. I think that getting involved into out door activities and even in door ones can get your mind of off your cigarettes. Also, try telling a friend or a loved one to monitor you at work or at school or something. I do not know how old you are so I am doing my best. When my cousin quit smoking she would control her cravings by hiding her cigarettes and doing some vulenteer work around the neighborhood. She also smoked less and less everyday. 1 day she would smoke 5 cigars and the next she would limit it to only 3, and work her way from there. Good luck, and I hope I helped.
♥ Dina
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i am 13 and i really like this guy anthony
1.what are some was i can make him want me??
Like today at school i wore a shirt that showed off my chest. You can see my bra and the sides of my boobs. Well today in class since my friend sits next ot anthony i leaned over on her desk so he can see my chest and he was looking!!! for now on i am wearing more revealing shirts!!
2.i mean i just want him to ask me out so i can hug him and kiss him and hold his hand. I want to do this as soon as possible,especially the kissing and the hand holding. But i never kissed a guy before. but i want this kiss to not just be a peck on the lips i want it to last over 1 minute and i want it to be as described:
first we are walking at school all alone with no one around hand in hand. We walk very slowly. We go behind the handball courts, we stare into each others eyes do a half smile. And then ill say o its cold outside and hell give me his sweater and get closer and grabs me as our faces are getting closer and closer and we kiss. It will be lasting over 1 minute with open mouths and if he wants to put his tongue in my mouth i will slowly let him and make my tongue touch his. And while we are doing this i will have my hands on his hips constantly moving and his hands will either be on my waist or starting at the waist and moving up slightly touching my breasts. By then my shirt would be half way open. And after we are finally done we slowly break our lips apart and ill say i love you and give him a quick kiss on the lips.it will be the best time of my life so far i am only 13 but that is how i would like my first kiss to be and i would like it to be with anthony or with alex but i really wish it was with anthony, well does that sound like a good first kiss.
love always anthony b.
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1. You CANNOT make someone like you, by wearing revealing clothes and such. If he likes you he will like you no matter what you wear, or say.
2. You are ONLY 13. You're first kiss is more of a fantasy than actual reality. I suggest you look into that more. Your first kiss will be kind of akward for the both of you. You are moving too fast, I think you should work on asking him out or letting him know how you feel before you kill yourself fantacising over something that might not happen.
♥ dina
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i saw this thing called "filelib" in my documents, and i don't remember it being there before. i clicked on it, and the name of the folder inside was my screename. i clicked on my screename and it was just blank. so, whats "filelib"??
i will rate high.i really want to know what it is :] thanks (link)
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If you have aim, and someone sends you any pictures, text, or something like that you will have a filelib. It is all your aim screen names and that is how they sort out files that have been sent to you from your original documents.
Hope I helped.
&& hearts; dina
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HERE ARE THE FACTS:
I lived with my companion for over 20 years. The home we shared for most of that time was purchased for $200,000. The market value is approximately $600,000. The balance on the mortgage is about $155,000. During our time together, he paid the mortgage and utilities. He also took care of the yard. I paid for all the food, cooked the meals, cleaned the house, took care of all our animals as well as paid for their food. We had 2 dogs and now have 4 cats. This is what we had agreed upon and it was how we shared the expenses.
Recently, he passed away suddenly from a heart attack. Without my knowledge, he had a living trust prepared in which he gave everything to his 25-year-old daughter. However, his daughter told me that when her father was preparing the trust, at his request, she had promised him that she would “take care of me.” These were her own words. She said that she would get me set-up in my own place and make sure I was secure with my new surroundings. She promised me “on her father’s grave”, that she would carry out her promise to her father. Whether or not a monetary figure was discussed, I do not know.
Two of our closest friends recently disclosed to me that prior to his death, my companion had told them he was going to change the trust to include me. Unfortunately, this was never done.
My companion was worth over a million dollars in savings, assets, and property.
My companion’s brother told me that his daughter was planning to give me $20,000.
My question—is this amount fair?
If not, what would be a fair amount?
I am a 55 year old female.
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I seriously do not think this is a fair amount, you paid for a lot of things just like your companion. I believe you should get 40% since people are saying that you were supposed to be included in the trust. Have a talk with his daughter and tell her what you have been hearing and how you want this settled. I mean your house was A LOT of money and you are only getting 20 thousand dollars. That is not even close to what the amount should be. Good luke with this.
&& hearts;dina
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You are at a social gathering and this beautiful girl happens to eye you. You smile back. You meet again 1/2hr later. You have small talk. now what. I am a shy guy who is very short with words. I always have it when I talk to a woman my speech disappears and all that comes out is mumble jumble fidgeting hands and a beating heart. Can you help me in giving me advice, tips on how to flirt with this girl and somehow connecting. When it comes to flirting I have no problem doing it with other woman but if it is one I feel attracted to Im lost. Your help will be very very much appreciated and I will rate you high. Both of us are in our twenties. Both over six feet. (link)
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You are so wrong when you said you are short with words. Some people come on here and beg for help by saying, "Oh well I like her but I'm not sure if she likes me!" BE YOURSELF MAN!! Don't sweat it, if she likes you she will obviously understand the shyness part, us girls are jealous sometimes too, you know. Don't fidget with your hands and since your heart beats just go with the flow and lead your conversation little by little. Saying alot will make you trip over your words. Don't talk to fast and about something stupid like pokemon, (yes there are guys who do this!)LOL! Well, I wish you luck!!
&& hearts; dina
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I asked out this girl about a week and a half ago.(i didnt know if i should or not and the advicec from my last question helped, Thank you!) where now going out and i feel somewhat intimidated. this i really wrird for me, i have a fun personality and am never embarrased but when im around her i get nervous and dont talk much. When i do talk i keep the conversation simple, i want to be able to keep conversation w/ her going and have our relationship go further now. I need help knowing how to start and keep conversation going and also how not to get nervous when im around her. (link)
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Well, I am glad that you two are going out, but in order to keep this going you need to just be yourself and have fun around her. If she didn't like you she wouldn't be going out with you, right? I mean what point would that lead to. Being shy or nervous is perfectly normal but just imagine her as when you were friends, then you will get used to the fact that she has feelings for you and the feeling is mutual. I am happy for you but you need to take it from here, and be yourself and have fun. Start a conversation with a simple, "How was your day baby?"
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