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hopeful romantic.
You are at a social gathering and this beautiful girl happens to eye you. You smile back. You meet again 1/2hr later. You have small talk. now what. I am a shy guy who is very short with words. I always have it when I talk to a woman my speech disappears and all that comes out is mumble jumble fidgeting hands and a beating heart. Can you help me in giving me advice, tips on how to flirt with this girl and somehow connecting. When it comes to flirting I have no problem doing it with other woman but if it is one I feel attracted to Im lost. Your help will be very very much appreciated and I will rate you high. Both of us are in our twenties. Both over six feet.
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Both over 6 feet! blimey
Im guessing you aren't still at this social gathering, but the fact she has noticed you (actually spoke to you) is a big step.
Im the same with being all mumble, you wont get over it without practice, and just not being afraid of rejection.
Theres no harm in mentioning that you are a bit nervous as long as you dont keep bringing it up.
After spending a bit of time with her (i hope you got a number?) you will calm down and all should be ok.
Just remember women are odd creatures and theres plenty of them, just be proactive.
J
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You are so wrong when you said you are short with words. Some people come on here and beg for help by saying, "Oh well I like her but I'm not sure if she likes me!" BE YOURSELF MAN!! Don't sweat it, if she likes you she will obviously understand the shyness part, us girls are jealous sometimes too, you know. Don't fidget with your hands and since your heart beats just go with the flow and lead your conversation little by little. Saying alot will make you trip over your words. Don't talk to fast and about something stupid like pokemon, (yes there are guys who do this!)LOL! Well, I wish you luck!!
&& hearts; dina
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