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He won't leave me alone!!


Question Posted Monday March 27 2006, 9:13 pm

Hi! This is basically a follow-up question to 'valentines day carnation sale' {[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)}...

Well anyway, so this "nerd" named Trevor. I hate to sound stuck up/jerky but I really don't like him! And I told him I didn't like him, and my friend Christie (She and trevor are neighbors/good friends) kind of hinted it to him that I don't like him, and he asked me out again and at the time I was dating my ex Jimmy anyways, so it was easy to say that i wasnt interested.
Now it's starting to get annoying! He's changed lunch tables to practically stalk me. Like, seriously breathe down my sandwich, it's not just a cooincidence! Also, in math class, the students get to make our seating charts, right? Well, he made the seating chart with 2 other kids for this month, and guess where I sit? Right next to him! It's bugging the heck out of me. Even worse- he stares. At me. All the time. I never asked for a staring contest! All I want is one thing: PERSONAL SPACE.

Before I file a restraining order, what should I do?!?!?

Thanks, I usually rate 5's.


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am-bur answered Tuesday March 28 2006, 5:41 pm:
okay so something like that happend to me too last year!
he was like someone i would just not hang out with!:: as you said not tyrin to sound stuck up or w.e:: but he was annoyin! he wrote me a letter and was like i wanna kiss you and just hold your hand and blah blah blah! and he wrote i love you like ten times on the folded paper!

and at lunch he would try and sit right next to me! and ew like my friend cought him makin out with my year book picture! and i was just like oh em gee EW

but anyways! like not to be mean to him but tell him to please stop bothering you! you just have no intrest in him and that your sorry but stop following mean! try to say it nicley or something becaousei no how you feel! and i know being mean to the kid its kind of wrong but maybe he will get the point! the guy that did that to me! he still liked but eventually he got over me and now when i see him in like the hallways he pretends im all ugly and is like EW oh my gosh then he'll go and run around the corner! so yeah just be honest with him and tell him pleae just leave me alone and give me space or something

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BaByGuRl08152003 answered Tuesday March 28 2006, 12:25 am:
First off u should just right him a letter, this a way it's like talking to him face to face without the weirdness! And just tell him streight up that u need space and for him to just chill with all the things he does to irritate you! But I mean be nice about it, he has feelings to! He maybe just doens't want to believe that you don't like him! You just need to tell him the truth about how you feel!

signed BabyGurl

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday March 27 2006, 9:42 pm:
tell a teacher that you dont want to be sittign next to him because he doesnt give you any space. then go up to him and tell him striaght up that you dont him around you all the damn time. no one should be able to take away from your learning time and most importantly not your personal space. i would talk to him in a serious was and tell the truth that you dont want to be around him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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